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March 14th, 2011, 08:10 PM | #62 |
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If a couple decide to have sex with other people, it must be thought out carefully. One obvious danger is jealousy if you see your partner have sex with other people.
I remember reading a letter on a problems page. The letter was from a woman who said her husband would be turned on seeing her have sex with another man. She went along with this and had sex with a man who was friends with this couple while the husband watched. This became a regular thing. The man the woman was having sex wanted her to leave her husband. In response the agony aunt said that as sex is so intimate, when people have sex with each other, they feel a bond has been created between them which can lead to people falling in love with each other which was why the man who was having sex with the wife wanted her to leave her husband. This shows that there is a danger if you start having sex with someone besides your partner, you may start to develop feelings towards that person. |
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What would get me off would be for a woman to put on a sex show for me, using the guy as a tool to complete the job. She would focus on me, asking me if i liked what I see, riding him facing me so i get a good view, etc. when he pops, he leaves without a word and we enjoy the experience together...
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March 30th, 2011, 11:29 AM | #65 |
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just sayin' sometimes opening up your marriage in this sexual nature can also save ones marriage. I know it's not the norm but by golly it's possible.
My marriage improved drastically once my wife started bangin' other guys. She spent years being cold and seemingly doing it only as her duty(her upbringing I spect) but once she started fucking other guys she started to open up and things improved for us sexually and our overall marriage got better. |
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To answer your questions. In regards to watching my wife screw another man was all my idea the first 2 times it happened. in fact the first three times my wife fucked another man was all my idea. first time I wasn't there and it happened a few times with them. Second time was a three way. Third time and what got my wife into the lifestyle was with a black guy. Marriage was on the rocks. she wanted to save it. I put this out there to her and she was all over doing anything to save the marriage. It was all my idea obviously and I found a black gentleman on AFF and he came to my house. My wife was dressed to kill and a little drunk when he arrived. We blindfolded her and she went down on him. The sex was protected until he unloaded inside her in which i pulled if off prior.(don't know why there was protectoin at all since he did that) There have been now regrets, This guy was huge and she found out thick and big is what she enjoys. She let loose like never before. It opened many doors for her sexually and she found out things about herself. Since that time there has been probably 20 black guys and a few white guys. She has a lover that is a white guy. Built like a soda can down there so she is all over him. and She enjoys the interracial sex because they just have a way of bringing out her inner slut. |
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April 12th, 2011, 06:43 PM | #67 |
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Watching your wife screw
Whilst not directly related to the original question, for years my wife and I enthusiastically shared latex/rubber sex sessions with another like-minded couple, but never actual fucking with each other’s partners. Through this other couple we also met a single male rubber enthusiast who became both a participant in rubber sessions and a friend.
At first, after a drink and social chat, he’d dress up in a latex catsuit, gloves, hood and sometimes a long rubber cape and just be allowed to be a voyeur, but after a couple of these ‘spectator only’ visits we believed we could trust him enough to bring him into the action. Ground rules were established, mostly of the ‘look but don’t touch unless permission is given’ variety. Tit fondling and nipple sucking were sometimes allowed, as was handling (often frenzied at crucial moments!) of rubber bras, stocking tops and suspender straps. Sometimes we had a threesome, with my wife dominating the pair of us simultaneously, but often I’d be in the room playing a passive role, masked so I could hear but not see what was going on. I found that very arousing, with the deliberately provocative commentary of my wife, the rustling and aroma of the rubber outfits, the grunts, groans and begging of the ‘rubber slave’ (somewhat muffled at times if she tit-smothered or face-sat him!), and eventually the sound of her rubber gloved hands wanking ever faster until, with gasps and moans, he came. Then I’d be unmasked to view the outcome — invariably his spunk all over my wife’s rubber gear — while he stood or lay, exhausted, drained cock going limp. Then she’d wank me off while he watched. Finally we slaves would both have to clean our spunk off her clothes and the rubber sheeted bed or floor. Sometimes I would not even be where the action was, but in another room, only able to hear what was going on through a baby monitor. On those occasions I’d usually get summoned to watch just before the ‘grand finale’! Our friend has long since moved far away, and we never see him (nor has he been replaced!) but we still keep in occasional touch, as we do the couple with whom we shared rubber sessions. No guilt, no regrets, just fun at the time! |
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1. Whose idea was it? - It was both our idea to try threesomes. She picked the girl for me and I picked the guy for her.
2. If yours how did you persaude her? - Didn't have to. 3. Was it a one off? - The girl we did it twice with. The guy was only once, even though he wanted to fuck her again and we said yes. We just never got around to it. 4. Was it planned or something that just happened? - We planned all the encounters. 5. Did your other half regret it? - Not during it. In fact she was very excited about about being fucked by a strange cock. Afterwards she said she felt like a "whore" but she sort of liked that too. 6. How did you feel at the time? - It was a erotic mixture of excitement & jealousy, but it was too hot watching my girl get fucked and her pussy filled with cum by another guy to want to stop it. She got off on watching me fuck the other girl too the times we were with her. 7. Where did you find the partner? - She chose one of her close girlfriends for me. I picked my cousin for her because he had nailed a lot of girls, and had a lot of experience with group sex... and I sort of wanted to see how my girlfriend compared to all the other girls he'd fucked before. |
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April 17th, 2011, 09:47 AM | #69 |
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It was our idea, sprung from the idea of raising some cash doing live voyeur shows.
No persuasion - she was very horny at that time. First time was complete stranger. Second was closer to home, a couple of friends. First planned, second spontaneous. No regrets, but she kind of enjoyed the guilty slutty thing. At the time my heart nearly leapt out of chest, but watching her face, hearing her orgasms, and watching her cunny squatting on another mans cock was mindblowing, and kind of a pride thing that at end of it all she was 110% my wife. The 1st guy was local free paper small ads, 2nd was a dirty " birthday present" offer. |
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Never really thought about it too much before reading this thread, but have to admit that it's now a VERY appealing thought, and I don't really know why.
My wife's already very accommodating - fantasies, role-play, dressing up and all that sort of thing - but I'm not sure how she'd react if I suggested she should have sex with someone else while I watched. From my point of view, it would have to be a complete stranger - far too many potential problems otherwise. Obviously she'd have to fancy the bloke, but if she did it might be fun for both of us. Well, three of us, actually! What's the correct etiquette for these things? Is it considered rude to masturbate? I don't think I'd be able to stop myself! The more I think about this, the more of an obsession it starts to become - damn! Gonna have to find a way to broach the subject, and then a way to set about it if she agrees, which I think she might well - she's up for most things (the usual pile of home made pornos, plus having sex in an Amsterdam porno booth watching a porno). How on earth do you go about finding a suitable 'partner' for her, one that she can choose in advance of the coupling, and one that's clean and safe? Hardly eBay, it it? |
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