Women need porn too x

[martin1964]

I was surprised how wet the opening les scene of a Sevent**n dvd (the title I cannot recall) made my partner (we had great sex to follow) which reinforced my suspicion in the notion that most women are bi-curious.
Since the proliferation of the internet we've watched the occasional S@pphic Erotic@ WMP together on the PC, and though she seems to get aroused as I masturbate her the over-the-top moaning etc seems to be more of a turn-off than turn-on, and although we now watch them (on the odd occasion that we do) with the sound off I think that the formulaic, non-spontaneous way they are constructed does not overly arouse her (or, to be honest, even me). The best thing is that, after she comes, she wanks me off over her tits!
The most interest she's shown in any movie played on the PC is Priv@te's The Scottish Loveknot because it actually starts with some kind of story.

[Mister Emporia]

This brings me a question I asked Sharkhunter ealier....I know my GF is curious about porn - I've shown her one mild photoset of a couple.....and she has told me that she liked it and would like to see more...but I have to be very careful here, lest I ruin this chance to let her test the waters......she wants to see something really classy...very HQ...probably highly stylized....b/g only.....and the one I showed her that she liked, the couple was slowly undressing each other. Is there a thread dedicated to such photo sets...or does anyone have photo sets they could recommend? Thanks so much!

[Viklas]

cyclodog, I don't know about photo sets, but for movies you might check out Veronica Hart's "Love's Passion," it's more female-oriented straight b/g.

[chupachups]

all of my girlfriends have been into porn

one even told me it was ok to bring porn home for us to watch and this is before she knew I had my own collection

I've found that porn is a useful tool to get sex every night, just turn on the media player with the right movie and the other half gets herself warmed up ready LOL

[edgarcasey]

Yeah, I mean, it's definitely a woman's game, too. (For starters, think how many women are actually in the business.)
A study was done during the heydey of VHS rentals, back when so many video stores were open (before the internet explosion, before Netflix, etc). Said study determined that no less than half of all adult video rentals were, in fact, to women.

[Gladeways]

My wife is pretty ambivalent about porn. She says that men can make their wives/girlfriends feel inadequate by watching too much porn. She also says that whereas the girls are all glamorous and sexy and most men would fancy giving them one, the male pornstars are foul and generally a fairly unattractive bunch. She says that she wouldn't fancy any of them in real life. Mind you, some of the blokes make me feel inadequate too!

[Avallanius]

Originally Posted by martin1964

The most interest she's shown in any movie played on the PC is Priv@te's The Scottish Loveknot because it actually starts with some kind of story.

martin1964- my wife likes the pr*v*** series Gladiator & Scottish Love Knot - better production values (historical setting) & non threatening scenes. Thye are not degrading, which is 99.9% likely to alienate & turn most ladies right off.

Try some of the Candida Royale titles - they are Fem-oriented collections of more arty shot scenes & are actually really horny HC without any prolongued insertion shots or manic overacting. They have met with favour from some of my work colleagues who tried them after asking the same question (about broaching porn with their wives) & their wives liked them.

But overall maybe it's a generation-thing as women of my age (born in the 60's) were never sexualized like todays young women & certainly were not exposed to any form of sexually explicit material. So they approach it with the idea that it's a male-only pursuit & are already wary of it. If you talk it over & use it as one part of your sex life now & again it's OK. Just don't make it the basis of your sex-life or you are onto a loser.

[billybunter]

In my time most women I've been with didn't mind me having a "stash" but they were not really interested. Time has moved on and there are pornos for couples. Most women are not going to get turned on by a bunch of blokes wanking onto a women's face. A lot of birds don't understand why men get off on facials/cumshots. I don't know what it is, but if it's done right, a facial get's me off. I don't mean trash gonzo etc. The simple fact remains, women look good naked, men don't.

[monogroover]

Only had a couple of partners who liked porn. I caught one of my first girlfriends masturbating in my parents' bathroom with a porn mag. I had a Finnish girlfriend who loved gay (male / male) porn. I used to download it and put it onto DVDs for her. She also liked m/f porn and we used to watch that together, while masturbating each other.

Which was nice.

[Futuro]

Originally Posted by monogroover

I had a Finnish girlfriend who loved gay (male / male) porn. I used to download it and put it onto DVDs for her. She also liked m/f porn and we used to watch that together, while masturbating each other.

Which was nice.

Another fine example how unbelievably liberal we Finns are!