Does your wife, girlfriend or partner know you are here? - Page 2

Alvin Lucifer · February 18th, 2010, 01:47 AM

I don't have a girlfriend right now. I have taken myself off the market until I start living a saner life. I'm working on it. Basically, I don't want a girlfriend who is as crazy as I am or crazier. That was the case with the last two I had, and it only made me double-miserable. Sure, it would be great to have that angelic woman descend into my life who will show me through her strength and resolve how to be the great guy a really am underneath all the madness, but this ain't the movies. The real world isn't like that. Women who have their lives together don't want to put up with guys like me, and I don't blame 'em. I don't want to put up with crazy broads I meet in bars or on-line dating sites either.

I generally kept quiet about my porn-viewing habits with the GFs I had. They didn't live with me. They didn't share my computer. I didn't want to take the chance of complicating things.

Sharu · February 18th, 2010, 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by kiwi

@ Vintage Erotic Forums?

My wife does. But refuses to par-take in mutual fun. We tried it once. F. disaster. All she did was criticize various parts of various women ... 'her feet are a bit fat, aren't they?' - this is while she trying to jerk me off

'Look! she's got a big spot on her ass!' etc etc...Never tried again.

Thats why I prefer to watch porn/visit sites like VEF on my own, I always think that what you tell is a way of tactic women use, trying to ruin our fun while fingertippin on negative visual aspects.
But two times in my life, I had the luck, to share times with girls who were into porn, we had sex while watching, too sad, that we fall apart.

I m a very open guy, I make no secret bout my likeness on porn, I try to prevent stress by telling them from the beginnin what Im about, so I see what she s about. If she starts bitchin', sry, I don t need a girl like that.
Yeah, my sexual obsession leeds me sometimes to a sexistic, misogyn behaviour. But I live good with that, it saves times, nerves and a small amount of money, cause I don t invest more than needed to find out, if we could swing together or not. Acting like that is a result on reactions in my past. I learned as a youngster, that there is nothing worse, than a hidden and discovered pornobsession, cause women link that with cheatin in their emotional pov.
So I check frontiers before we get closer, prevents stress and wounds. And I don t care if it sounds rude, but doin it that way is better than cheatin and lyin my whole life.

hf

Alvin Lucifer · February 19th, 2010, 03:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Extempus

I'm not sure I'd actually want to be a member, but I think the chicks are pretty hot (for the most part). I've always loved the Goth look (as long as it's not too extreme)...

Some of 'em are definitely hot! In real life, they tend to have serious issues, like Liz did, and if the Vagina Monologues are in town, and you don't wanna go, looook-out!

**eelcat** · February 26th, 2010, 07:10 PM

My missus doesn't care one iota. She knows I download movies for "the guys at work" at times. Whenever I get off the computer so she can use it I always leave the VEF page open as we both use different browsers (but just scroll down a touch so that the VEF logo isn't in her face when she gets on).
I'm just wondering if she has ever had a sly look at some threads as I'm sure some of the subjects in the general discussion could be quite curious to her

**Mal Hombre** · February 27th, 2010, 07:31 AM

I don't suppose She knows about this forum,but She is aware of My interest in "Gentleman's Specialty" sites.

**billybunter** · February 27th, 2010, 03:24 PM

There's times when I don't know i'm here

MaxJoker · February 27th, 2010, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by billybunter

There's times when I don't know i'm here

We've noticed

**kiwi** · February 28th, 2010, 07:40 AM

about porn - No. 1

Charlotte Spencer is the ultimate HOT mature lady.

In the dog house for weeks

No jollies at all

Take this advice from an older man who should know better...

**snowy25** · March 18th, 2010, 03:03 AM

i am in a strange situation because my girlfriend works currently in russia as a data management teacher. so with the time difference to siberia we tend to live separate lives right now. she knows i look at porn and she says its only natural because she is there and i am here. so she doesnt mind me looking at it, even when she is here, but when she does manage to get back here we like to make our own.

**sydney1** · March 18th, 2010, 08:29 PM

Hi I'm Mrs Sydney and not just a figment of his imagination! I know he goes here, and I think he should be doing more housework.

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Yes, we look together.	28	11.43%
Yes, but I look alone.	69	28.16%
No, she'll kill me if she ever finds out!	105	42.86%
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February 18th, 2010, 01:47 AM	#11
Alvin Lucifer Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Pioneer Valley, Massachusetts Posts: 373 Thanks: 8,768 Thanked 3,055 Times in 364 Posts	I don't have a girlfriend right now. I have taken myself off the market until I start living a saner life. I'm working on it. Basically, I don't want a girlfriend who is as crazy as I am or crazier. That was the case with the last two I had, and it only made me double-miserable. Sure, it would be great to have that angelic woman descend into my life who will show me through her strength and resolve how to be the great guy a really am underneath all the madness, but this ain't the movies. The real world isn't like that. Women who have their lives together don't want to put up with guys like me, and I don't blame 'em. I don't want to put up with crazy broads I meet in bars or on-line dating sites either. I generally kept quiet about my porn-viewing habits with the GFs I had. They didn't live with me. They didn't share my computer. I didn't want to take the chance of complicating things. Last edited by Alvin Lucifer; February 19th, 2010 at 09:58 PM.. Reason: Edit out mention of another site name

February 27th, 2010, 07:31 AM	#15
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February 28th, 2010, 07:40 AM	#18
kiwi I'm a hornisod Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Here @ VEF Posts: 1,422 Thanks: 6,194 Thanked 69,991 Times in 1,447 Posts	things you shouldn't say to your wife / gf about porn - No. 1 Charlotte Spencer is the ultimate HOT mature lady. In the dog house for weeks No jollies at all Take this advice from an older man who should know better... __________________ Love All The People To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Last edited by kiwi; February 28th, 2010 at 07:47 AM.. Reason: spelling

March 18th, 2010, 08:29 PM	#20
sydney1 Vintage Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,378 Thanks: 10,562 Thanked 27,978 Times in 1,357 Posts	mrs sydney Hi I'm Mrs Sydney and not just a figment of his imagination! I know he goes here, and I think he should be doing more housework.

February 26th, 2010, 07:10 PM	#14
eelcat Vintage Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 660 Thanks: 2,389 Thanked 6,300 Times in 648 Posts	My missus doesn't care one iota. She knows I download movies for "the guys at work" at times. Whenever I get off the computer so she can use it I always leave the VEF page open as we both use different browsers (but just scroll down a touch so that the VEF logo isn't in her face when she gets on). I'm just wondering if she has ever had a sly look at some threads as I'm sure some of the subjects in the general discussion could be quite curious to her

February 27th, 2010, 03:24 PM	#16
billybunter R.I.P. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Gone But Not Forgotten Posts: 14,404 Thanks: 51,687 Thanked 252,377 Times in 14,171 Posts	There's times when I don't know i'm here

March 18th, 2010, 03:03 AM	#19
snowy25 Vintage Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 2,274 Thanks: 6,664 Thanked 23,144 Times in 2,260 Posts	i am in a strange situation because my girlfriend works currently in russia as a data management teacher. so with the time difference to siberia we tend to live separate lives right now. she knows i look at porn and she says its only natural because she is there and i am here. so she doesnt mind me looking at it, even when she is here, but when she does manage to get back here we like to make our own.