A females 'magic number'.. when is it too much.

porty · January 11th, 2010, 01:50 AM

A recent survey puts New Zealand women at the top of the list worldwide for the most sexual partners.. 20.8 on average, the country which incidentally also records some of the highest STD's in the developed world.

In a similar survey males were asked how many was 'too many' and at what point would you start to feel put off. The men interviewed replied that on average 6 previous partners was what they considered 'an acceptible figure' before they started to have second thoughts about thier relationship.

I tend to go with the masses, 6 partners is to me, the threshold where i too would start to feel uncomfortable about a womans past....

How do you feel on the subject? does it bother you? what is the forum's acceptible figure?

has a past female lied to you or does your current female's list of old boyfriends add up to more than she's letting on.......

**eelcat** · January 11th, 2010, 03:35 AM

I would have said up to 10 but there are no allowances for that so I guess I'm forced to go up to 6....which if a lot of people are like me you are going to get a false representation.
I have never asked past girlfriends how many previous partners they've had. I think the less detail you know the better.
Anyway I'm just as concerned as to what age they lost their virginity.

**chupachups** · January 11th, 2010, 01:19 PM

doesn't it depend on how old she is ?

20+ partners for an 18 yo is a lot, but 20+ partners for a 60 yo isn't...

but then again, a 60 yo, yuck, I'm out of here !

Legsman · January 11th, 2010, 01:57 PM

Even though I'm a full blooded make, it seems kind of hypocritical to me. I'm going to use the old "Males are studs if they bed a lot of women, but women are sluts if they bedded a lot of men." argument.

Everyone has a past and maybe we even sowed some oats along the way. It doesn't really concern me unless there are children, psycho ex's or diseases involved. And most importantly, it means the most to me that they are faithful to me once they are with me and we are experiencing an exclusive relationship.

While it would certainly be concerning if a partner told me they had 20 - 30+ partners in their past, I'd have to look at my own past and say we've both lived full lives. Sometimes that experience pays off when it's your turn.

Now if she tells you this and then when you're both in public she's flirting with every male in sight right in front of you, I'd have to say you need to really question who you're with and open your eyes.

Otherwise, I'm all for "ladies in public, but sluts in bed".

**anklebiter** · January 11th, 2010, 04:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Legsman

Even though I'm a full blooded make, it seems kind of hypocritical to me. I'm going to use the old "Males are studs if they bed a lot of women, but women are sluts if they bedded a lot of men." argument.
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This isn't mine, but from Facebook.However, it's an awesome response to that.

Lets say you have a key that opens multiple locks.We'd call it a "master key", and it's an awesome thing to have.
Now lets say we have a lock that can be opened by lots of different keys.Well that's a pretty crummy lock, and one most people wouldn't want.

snape · January 11th, 2010, 07:42 PM

Women would only have to "lie" about previous partners if the male ego can't accept reality.
Unfortunately a lot of men do feel inadequate and unsure about themselves if their partner seems to have a lot of 'history'.

Logically I think this is absurd. And the keys and locks analogy is the perfect example of men with low self esteem. It is through this lack of maturity in men that women have had to live a double standard, in discussion and in bed.

Hardly the basis of a sound and trusting relationship when the fragility of the male ego has to be pandered to by a normal and healthy woman.

Extempus · January 13th, 2010, 06:22 AM

I've had quite a few myself, so I'd be more than hypocritical if I said I'd be bothered by the number of previous partners my partner has had. I personally wouldn't want to know, however... in fact, my last partner actually lied to me and said she'd been with 7 men before, but later admitted that it was actually only 3. The reason? She felt intimidated by the number I've had (and it's not all that many, btw) and wanted me to think she was more experienced with men...

**brianwp** · January 16th, 2010, 09:32 AM

This is really absurd. I'm not bragging, but when I say I've laid almost 200 women, how can I get upset when a woman says she did 15, or something?

whiskymick · January 16th, 2010, 09:52 AM

If you love her who gives a shit about the past, look to the future thats what counts

**Mal Hombre** · December 29th, 2010, 03:06 PM

When She's lost count ?

View Poll Results: a females magic number... when is too many?
2+	5	12.50%
Up to 6	6	15.00%
10+	5	12.50%
15+	1	2.50%
20+	1	2.50%
Doesn't bother me...	22	55.00%
Voters: 40. You may not vote on this poll

January 11th, 2010, 01:50 AM	#1
porty Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 82 Thanks: 40 Thanked 546 Times in 78 Posts	A females 'magic number'.. when is it too much. A recent survey puts New Zealand women at the top of the list worldwide for the most sexual partners.. 20.8 on average, the country which incidentally also records some of the highest STD's in the developed world. In a similar survey males were asked how many was 'too many' and at what point would you start to feel put off. The men interviewed replied that on average 6 previous partners was what they considered 'an acceptible figure' before they started to have second thoughts about thier relationship. I tend to go with the masses, 6 partners is to me, the threshold where i too would start to feel uncomfortable about a womans past.... How do you feel on the subject? does it bother you? what is the forum's acceptible figure? has a past female lied to you or does your current female's list of old boyfriends add up to more than she's letting on.......

January 11th, 2010, 01:57 PM	#4
Legsman Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 28 Thanks: 84 Thanked 257 Times in 28 Posts	Even though I'm a full blooded make, it seems kind of hypocritical to me. I'm going to use the old "Males are studs if they bed a lot of women, but women are sluts if they bedded a lot of men." argument. Everyone has a past and maybe we even sowed some oats along the way. It doesn't really concern me unless there are children, psycho ex's or diseases involved. And most importantly, it means the most to me that they are faithful to me once they are with me and we are experiencing an exclusive relationship. While it would certainly be concerning if a partner told me they had 20 - 30+ partners in their past, I'd have to look at my own past and say we've both lived full lives. Sometimes that experience pays off when it's your turn. Now if she tells you this and then when you're both in public she's flirting with every male in sight right in front of you, I'd have to say you need to really question who you're with and open your eyes. Otherwise, I'm all for "ladies in public, but sluts in bed". __________________ To be a great a GREAT porn star, you must have GREAT LEGS!

January 13th, 2010, 06:22 AM	#7
Extempus Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Napa Valley, CA Posts: 97 Thanks: 9 Thanked 694 Times in 95 Posts	I've had quite a few myself, so I'd be more than hypocritical if I said I'd be bothered by the number of previous partners my partner has had. I personally wouldn't want to know, however... in fact, my last partner actually lied to me and said she'd been with 7 men before, but later admitted that it was actually only 3. The reason? She felt intimidated by the number I've had (and it's not all that many, btw) and wanted me to think she was more experienced with men... __________________ You will always be missed, sweet Bettie. You will live in our hearts forever.

December 29th, 2010, 03:06 PM	#10
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January 11th, 2010, 03:35 AM	#2
eelcat Vintage Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 660 Thanks: 2,389 Thanked 6,300 Times in 648 Posts	I would have said up to 10 but there are no allowances for that so I guess I'm forced to go up to 6....which if a lot of people are like me you are going to get a false representation. I have never asked past girlfriends how many previous partners they've had. I think the less detail you know the better. Anyway I'm just as concerned as to what age they lost their virginity.

January 11th, 2010, 01:19 PM	#3
chupachups Vintage Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,056 Thanks: 13,387 Thanked 6,316 Times in 1,013 Posts	doesn't it depend on how old she is ? 20+ partners for an 18 yo is a lot, but 20+ partners for a 60 yo isn't... but then again, a 60 yo, yuck, I'm out of here !

January 11th, 2010, 07:42 PM	#6
snape Blocked! Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 155 Thanks: 177 Thanked 461 Times in 102 Posts	Women would only have to "lie" about previous partners if the male ego can't accept reality. Unfortunately a lot of men do feel inadequate and unsure about themselves if their partner seems to have a lot of 'history'. Logically I think this is absurd. And the keys and locks analogy is the perfect example of men with low self esteem. It is through this lack of maturity in men that women have had to live a double standard, in discussion and in bed. Hardly the basis of a sound and trusting relationship when the fragility of the male ego has to be pandered to by a normal and healthy woman.

January 16th, 2010, 09:32 AM	#8
brianwp Vintage Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: United States Posts: 1,464 Thanks: 4,856 Thanked 25,703 Times in 1,431 Posts	This is really absurd. I'm not bragging, but when I say I've laid almost 200 women, how can I get upset when a woman says she did 15, or something?

January 16th, 2010, 09:52 AM	#9
whiskymick Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 175 Thanks: 1,601 Thanked 1,402 Times in 161 Posts	If you love her who gives a shit about the past, look to the future thats what counts