anal - for and against

[spoonfedmonkey]

I like it very much, my wife less so. The more often I get it, the less exciting it is, so I think that feeling of "forbidden" and "rare" is a part of the thrill. It feels great, but different. I'd say I get it three or four times a year.

But I disagree that it is better than vaginal sex. Vaginal sex is #1, oral #2, anal #3.

I've never tried armpits, and never had a woman with big enough breasts for a tit-fuck.

Basically, when I'm horny enough I'd stick it in any hole my equipment would fit into in a woman. But my dick, though small, is still too big for a nostril.

[mjefferys1]

Just remember what it says in the bible

It's better to give than receive

Mind you it also goes on about trying to stuff a camel through the eye of a needle.....

[freyjajackson]

I just found this thread.
As a woman, may I just say, I adore anal, especially if there is a little vaginal titillation first. I do, however, insist on lots of lubrication, rough just isn't right, and yes, with too much roughness, it can hurt.
As long as your partner is considerate, and careful, it can be a very sensual experience for both of you.

[masterb8s]

Don't like it, it's a turn off for me.

[zarafan]

Originally Posted by spoonfedmonkey

But I disagree that it is better than vaginal sex. Vaginal sex is #1, oral #2, anal #3.

I remember once reading an article about the Anglo-American journalist Christopher Hitchens, in which he stated, "the four most over-rated experiences in life are anal sex, lobsters, champagne, and picnics...."

Well, I'll grant him the picnics...!

zarafan

[mjefferys1]

Originally Posted by zarafan

I remember once reading an article about the Anglo-American journalist Christopher Hitchens, in which he stated, "the four most over-rated experiences in life are anal sex, lobsters, champagne, and picnics...."

Well, I'll grant him the picnics...!

zarafan

No champagne overpriced overrated fizzy plonk.
However a picnic with lobster and finishing with anal sex well that's heaven, in fact skip the picnic have a cheese sandwich and get on down to the last item. Why waste time.

[27cows]

For. And I think guys who want to give it out should be happy to take it back, if the other half/whoever fancies a bit of strapon action

[MrHLayer]

This is a bit of a prickly subject for me. I knew a woman a few years back. We got to know each other and eventually ended up sleeping together on an on-and-off basis. We weren't officially girlfriend/boyfriend – we just liked messing about with each other.

I can't recall exactly how the subject of anal came up but half joking about how my old chap wasn't the biggest of guys, my then not-girlfriend joked “Well you can always fuck me up the arse.”

The first time we tried anal it was a bit of a disaster. It happened pretty much on the spur of the moment. The thing is, if the receiver isn't properly prepared it can get a little messy . It really isn't like it is in the films. I honestly thought my chap was going to get trapped in there; it was like he was caught in a vice. I cannot stress this enough – you can never have enough lubrication!

The second time she was a lot more prepared. It was like she planned everything in advance. She initiated every move and guided me throughout. Once I got over the initial stumbling and fumbling we got a good rhythm going and it was most pleasurable .

The next few weeks of that hot summer was ass action. She'd always wiggle it in front of me and press it against my groin. She loved it when I'd stick my finger in there. One time I was round her place watching the World Cup in the lounge when she breezed in without any panties, bent over and shoved her arse in my face. I could've suffocated.

Looking back, she had a bit of an arse obsession going on, only I didn't appreciate it at the time. Isn't that always the case?

[FlyStrat]

My first girlfriend wanted to know how it was about (and me too), so she looked for her hand cream and we used that as lubricant. We were both wildly excited.
It was one of my first and most memorable orgasms with a woman.

[Biorgium]

In favour, but proper preparation is a must. She should always have an enema in the bathroom first. You both will be a lot more confident if you're sure there'll be no "brown surprise" later.

The sexy thing about anal is the whole trust aspect. Very loving and erotic. She really has to trust that you won't hurt her by selfishly thrusting too soon, and the guy needs self-control. He needs to hold still while she works his dick inside her at her own pace.

My favourite thing is that magic moment when the woman's anus seems so impossibly tight that you're unsure if you should stay inside, then it suddenly relaxes and opens wider so you can gently thrust in and out and she's comfortable with that.

I was once with a woman who became so expert at totally relaxing her anus, that it seemed looser than her vagina and so not as pleasurable for me. I grew to miss our less experienced days when the process was slower and tighter.