Ever Pay For Sex?

[benny hill]

I have never paid for sex but I am seriously considering it. I haven't had sex in years. I had a great girlfriend and making love to her was wonderful. There's nothing like being intimate with a woman you love. But I've been single for a very long time. I live in a very rural area and there isn't too many people around. Masturbating is okay but it doesn get tiresome and boring after a while.

Where I live there are legal brothels around. I would never under any circumstances pick a woman up off the street or use an escort service. I don't want an STD or be arrested or give money to some druggie who's being pimped.

There are some concerns I have with the brothels. They are kind of a scam. The women are independant contractors and they can charge what ever they want. There are no guidelines. I've heard they can be very expensive. The brothels are way out of the way and if you are driven there the price goes way up. The ladies have to give a bigger percentage to the house on what they negociate. There is no guarantee you'll enjoy the session. The advantage is they are legal and the ladies are given health check ups.

Another concern I have is around here everybody knows everybody else's business. It is possible that someone around here could find out and that could hurt my family. I would never do anything that would effect badly on my family.

I have friends I've talked to about this and they understand and they don't see how I've gone without it for so many years. Some men I've talked to have told me that did go to a prostitute and it wasn't worth it. I don't want to do something I will regret. I know it isn't going to be like it is with your have a girlfriend.

I've been single for a long time and have ben considering going to a brothel. I wonder if anyone here has ever paid for sex and if they felt it was worth it or not.

Thank you for your interest.

[cmdavidm]

Hi, I wouldn't pick anyone up off the street or visit a brothel. I has seen a few independant escorts all bar one being useless. If you do decide to visit an escort make sure you do your homework, what you want against what she is prepared to offer.

[wdwyman]

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

[pharoahegypt]

Originally Posted by wdwyman

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

mccartney may have paid a high price but at least he didnt lose a leg..unlike that golddigger he married...LOL.sick but still funny after way shes treated him in the press.

[Extempus]

Originally Posted by wdwyman

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know...

But 100% accurate. The only difference is, when you pay a hooker, you're paying directly for services rendered, and she then uses the money to buy stuff. When you're on a date, you're buying stuff for her, but there's no guarantee you'll get laid afterwards. But, you're still paying for it for one or the other, it's just that you're paying for it in different ways.

[rockstar4]

i agree go to bangkok there are a couple of places to try the eden club or annies both of which i have done one way or the other you pay, all of us do including work they use u for your skill , go u wont regrett it.

[eatenbyrats]

To the original poster: Good for you, I hope your public sharing of your virtue has helped you with your self esteem. Any man who doesn't think they're paying for sex somehow is delusional.

[broxyman]

Not so far, because I've always been with a partner, but the thought of having sex with a prostitute does have a certain appeal, and I'm curious to know what it would be like.

I agree about Amsterdam. A great place to start, with all the girls on display and a reasonably good chance of avoiding catching something unpleasant. 20 years ago the girls were mainly Dutch, and a lot of them were very pretty. After that there were far fewer Dutch girls, and some of the girls were pretty hideous looking. I gather there are a lot of Eastern European girls now, and that a lot of them are really lovely.

So go to Amsterdam. It's a great city, easy to get to, and you'll get a great choice of girls.

[benny hill]

Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago.

Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live.

A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to.

I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

[oarmlcmf]

Originally Posted by benny hill

Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago.

Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live.

A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to.

I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

if you can manage the trip, british columbia has a lot of very classy escort services, in the smaller towns as well as vancouver. prositution is essentially decriminalized, with the exception of public solicitation. they'll tell you over the phone just what you'll get (they don't have to deal with entrapment). the women in b.c. are very well groomed and ladylike.