Masturbation Techniques, Tips and Aids

[Schwenck]

Forgive me if I have repeated another thread, but I have searched a lot and have only found a bit of discussion on the Wank Club thread, which I didn't find very illuminating.

Why do we like porn?

Yes, there is an aesthetic pleasure of beautiful images, but mostly we are looking for images that stimulate us when we masturbate.

But, there are lots of ways to masturbate for a man. I know loads, and I am sure that the experienced wankers on this site know many more.

Given that the main purpose of this site is to provide images to stimulate male (and possibly lesbian female) masturbation, then it seems fitting that we have a thread that discusses what ways we do actually wank.

So this what this thread is about. What ways do you like to wank? What lubricants do prefer? What sex aids have you found pleasurable? What else helps you orgasm? What position do you prefer?

Anything that assists your solo pleasure is on topic here.

[Schwenck]

Just to kick this thread off, a brief description of my most frequent masturbation method.

In this age , a lot of my porn is on my computer, so while I do use tablets and physical magazines still, much of the time I wank in front of my computer. When I do so, I am sitting in my office chair, and I am likely to be wearing some Ladies' underwear, but that's just me. I have a full length foreskin, so this pulled back to leave my glans fully accessible.To actually stimulate my cock, while I peruse some lovely ladies, I will use a pair of satin panties, or other satin materiel. If it is a pair of panties, one covers the glans of my cock, the other is used to rub. It does take a bit of moving the panties around to get a really good slide back and forth, but once you get that right it is a very flexible technique, with a lot of control. You can edge very nicely. You can speed up and slow down. No problem about deciding when you want to cum, and when you go for it, a lovely, lasting orgasm.

Now, mostly I use Marks & Spencer satin knickers that my wife discarded some years ago, but that I rescued (without her knowing) from the bin. These particular knickers have lace fronts, so I am not that keen to wear them, but fantastic satin backs, which are just absolutely brilliant for wanking. However, all her most recent M&S knickers are made from different material and just hopeless for wanking, and no fun to wear either. Lucky I have my own. So when eyeing you wife's or partner's knickers preparatory to a wank session, make sure they really are satin that will slide properly.

Plusses for wanking with satin knickers are that they give good control, are sexually stimulating if you are into ladies underwear, and catch the inevitable emission. This last is useful when I am wanking at my computer, as it avoids semen building up on the carpet beneath it.

Downsides are that you have to wash the knickers - and you probably don't want to put them in the wash basket where your wife will see them, especially when you have pinched her knickers. Could lead to an interesting conversation.* And while it's not really a downside for this technique, there is no doubt that there is something a bit more sensitive about a hand stroking a nicely lubricated cock.

*My wife knows that I like to wear ladies underwear when I masturbate, and while she is not that keen on it, she tolerates that. I haven't told her that I use loads of her old knickers in the act. She may have spotted this, but she hasn't said. Now that we have retired, we are just gradually starting to loosen up and talk about such things... very slowly... but we might get to the point when she says "Darling, I was about to throw these knickers out, but do you want them?". If they are her latest M&S ones, then no! She did have a superb M&S Autograph set, which were fabulous on her and fabulous to wank with, but sadly, they were discarded without me spotting them.

[Schwenck]

This post is to hopefully kick off a discussion about lubricants for hand wanking a bare cock.

As I have a long foreskin, it was well into my teenage years that I realised that you could pull back the foreskin and directly stimulate the glans. Up to then, I had always used my foreskin to stimulate the glans indirectly. I have written elsewhere of my youthful experiments to find the best lubricant for direct glans masturbation. so I will not repeat all that here.

These days, if I want a hand to cock wank (and I certainly do) I switch between 4 different types of lubricant:

Water Based: Brilliant when you start, but runs out all too soon if you are having a long wank session. Can be restarted with some water, but that is a pain. Very easy to wash off. UltraGlide is our choice (see below).

Vaseline: Still use this now and again, might be nostalgia, but it is good for a really long wank. Need to be careful how much you use, not too much. Horrible to wash off.

Baby Oil: My lubricant of choice when I was a teenager, before I discovered there were other options. Has a nice nostalgic feel, feels pretty good on your cock, can cope with a long wank. So, still pretty good and I always take a tiny bottle with me if I am going away without my wife.

Silicon Based: Just re-trying this for masturbation. When my wife hit the menopause she had problems with vaginal dryness, so we tried several different lubricants. The best was UltraGlide, a water based one, and we still keep it handy by the bedside, though she needs to use it much less these days. We did try silicon based lube, but it didn't seem to work for us so well. After ignoring silicon lubes for 15 years I decided to try one, purely for masturbation. Only used it a couple of times so far, but good results: nice feel between hand and cock, nicely slippery, but not too slippery and reasonably easy to wash off.

Anyone else have any views on lubrication when wanking? Love to hear your preferred pecker protector.

[Schwenck]

I think when we hear the word 'wank' we tend to visualise a bare penis in a fist that is rapidly moving up and down.

But there are many other ways to wank, and one of the best is to hump something. As this feels more like intercourse, generally it feels great.

If I want to hump, then I usually use two pillows. If I can be bothered, I will dress the top one up in something female and satiny. You have to protect the bottom end of the pillows from your ejaculate, unless you want to let your wife to know you have been humping pillows again.

For stimulation, I use satin panties over the bottom end of both pillows. Then, when I lie on the pillows, my cock slides between the two pillows into the gap between the top and bottom satin panties. Then I can fuck as slow or fast as I want until I cum.

Plusses: As you are using the same body movements as you do when fucking a women, it feels great and you generally get a great climax.

Downsides: Takes quite a bit of prep, especially to protect the pillows from semen. What you used for protection may need to be washed. If, like me, you used satin panties, the they are definitely going to need washing.

I find this one is easier in a hotel, where it really doesn't matter if you get semen on the pillows, than at home, where my wife would definitely notice any errant emissions. But I do have the odd hump at home, as they are great fun.

[Schwenck]

How many members enjoy anal stimulation when they are wanking?
If so, what do you use in your anus?

I do like anal stimulation now and then, but I don't use it every time I wank. When I am in the mood for it, I have various butt-plugs to use.

While I enjoy the sensation of having a probe in my anus, I don't think I have come any differently if I hadn't been anally probed.

This is an area where I am still experimenting.

[Old Jud]

Oh the irony Schwenck, you've posted a thread about wanking and (until my response) you've been on your own.

Now back to wanking, as a last resort i'll use my own hand, much better if you can use someone else's.
Sadly this approach has got me ejected from cinemas and public transport on numerous occasions.

[Grendel22]

Originally Posted by Schwenck

Anyone else have any views on lubrication when wanking? Love to hear your preferred pecker protector.

I use JO H2O. It's a water-based lubricant and as long as you keep working your cock, it doesn't dry out - apparently, you can revive it with some water if you have left it for a while and it's gone tacky. Easy to rinse off too, unlike Vaseline which is nigh on waterproof

[MC Escort luv]

Firstly, great thread topic Shwenck, thanks for starting it.

Second, reading your posts is arousing me, so thanks again.

Your humping description reminds of a technique I haven’t used since I was a teen, but am going to try again. I used to use a sandwich bag liberally smeared inside with Vaseline, and insert my hard cock. I loosely secured it with an elastic band around the base of my cock.

Then it was the same 2 pillow technique, as I imagined fucking one of the 2 or 3 girls I fancied at school.

Needless to say, I experienced sensational ejaculations using this method and can’t wait to try it out again. Would love to hear if anyone else tries it and likes it

[shamone123]

anything touches my bum when im wanking and it is dead! That obviously includes my hand & fingers!

No bum stuff for me.

[Schwenck]

Originally Posted by Old Jud

Oh the irony Schwenck, you've posted a thread about wanking and (until my response) you've been on your own.
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Ho! Ho! You've got me Old Jud! Splendid Comment!