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February 16th, 2017, 12:04 PM | #31 | |
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I asked my current lady out about three months before - she turned me down. I just said that it was fine - but that I would have kicked myself if I had not asked her because she has so much going for her. I took "no" for an answer and treated her with friendly respect as ever (despite a little disappointment). Then later on she said that she'd liked the way I hadn't pestered her - that was unusual in her experience and perhaps we should give it a go. She's not the love of my life but we have fun times together when we are able. |
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February 16th, 2017, 05:18 PM | #32 |
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February 16th, 2017, 05:20 PM | #33 |
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I think the two are combined. The more confident you are in yourself, the easier it will be to take "rejection". I actually don't use that term, preferring to see it as a woman (or man for that matter in this modern world) exercising their simple right to choose.
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February 16th, 2017, 09:00 PM | #34 |
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I was an introvert, stuttering, insecure, skinny dork when I was young, so the advise "Be yourself" didn't really work for me.
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February 17th, 2017, 12:21 AM | #35 | |
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Sometimes the best dates (I've had women tell me this of themselves) consist of you, a toddy, and a hobby of your choice My two cents on this topic is to approach women as just another person at first. That way a lot of the pressure of worrying about all this relationship stuff is reduced. Women today have to do a lot of things us dudes have to do as well. Ya' know, like work and pay bills and stuff so think about them as people, then see if they become that "special someone" that you are lookin' for.
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February 17th, 2017, 01:40 AM | #36 | |
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1. The "No Technique" technique - never pursue women because they can tell immediately. Just go out a lot and see who shows interest, half the work is done for you then. 2. Whatever their interests are are now your interests. The example in the book was if they believe in horoscopes and you think they're claptrap, don't say that. Say how interesting, tell me more, are our signs compatible... 3. Develop a hide as thick as a rhino - i.e. learn to take rejection. I even took this to the point where I would reject them if they were just playing hard to get, it throws them back to the "no technique" technique.
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She's never admitted such, but that's what worked on my now-wife many years ago, when she was 18-19, before I knew her. She was a typical teenage girl looking for all the above things, and her 20-something first POS fiancee delivered them. I've seen pictures of him from back in the day - he was short and weasel-looking - but he radiated confidence because he knew he could deliver what she wanted if she finally went out with him. Throw in the fact that my wife came from a dysfunctional family and she wanted a stable one- and he had that too. For those of us now in middle-age, I don't have a great answer if you're still looking for the right lady... just be comfortable in your own skin. |
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February 14th, 2019, 08:57 PM | #40 |
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Could be a million reasons why you got rejected. She was in a bad mood. Coming out of a relationship. Just not interested in dating anyone. Busy with other aspects of her life. Turning it into being about us is just the way our sense of self thinks.
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