Watching your wife screw

[will]

I have just looked at a great thread on this site

http://vintage-erotica-forum.com/t23...-megapost.html
and it made me wonder what is the kick in letting some other chap screw your wife while you watch? I know all men like to watch and given the chance if my best friend asked me to screw his wife I would leap at the chance, if he wanted to join in watch or film no problem,however I would not want to watch him shaging my wife even if I was shaging her too. SO whats the kick? Have any of you done it? Did your wife girlfiend boyfried husband sugest it or was it you, did you just watch or did you join in?

I just dont get it may be I am just posesive, help me out here I would like to know.

[Nick O'Teen]

Hi Will

I agree with you - maybe guys like 'us' are full of "double standards". I have happily screwed 5 wives while their husbands watched or videod but the idea of anyone doing my wife fills me with a jealous anger - I have though let guys [mostly photographers] watch and photograph me screwing my wife but - strictly on terms of no touching. I would love to hear responses to you question - maybe I need to grow?

Tom

[copernicus]

Well I have watched my wife screw several guys over the years and found it a great thrill Always had great sex afterwards. At the moment she fucks my best friend on a regular basis have also tried foursomes with her and other couples.

[Pugwash]

Another alternative is to get a big mirror, that's a win/win situation.

[thegent]

I was involved with another couple when married to my first wife, twas great to have orgies with them & let both the other guy & his wife make it with my ex. I also enjoyed his wife, but drew a line when suggested that he & I get it on (not my bag). However all this meant a loss of respect between my ex & me & we broke up.

[will]

I think I am coming from the same position as “thegent” thinking back to before I was maried it would have been ok with a new girlfriend, but as you respect some one it changes. However I do think Tomkin1 is a lucky bugger, just cant get the thought of fucking my friends wife while he takes picture out of my head, not even sure I would want others to take pictures of my wife and I, although we do take loads of ourselves.

Tomkin tell me is better when the husbands watch or better to do it on the side so to speak without hubby knowing?

[buggeration]

Although we don't indulge in the practice of 'swinging,' as such, my wife and I have indulged in the odd threesome. A friend pestered me for ages about allowing him to fuck my wife; and after discussing it with her, she agreed. We always thought of this as part of our sex life and it was a terrific turn on for both of us. Double penetration became a firm favourite and we took multitudes of photographs.
The problem was, after a few months, he began coming around when I was out. And then he asked my wife to go out with him one evening for a drink. She dropped him immediately; told him it was over and where to go.
The point is, if any like minded couple are going to indulge themselves in threesomes/groupsex, whatever; complete trust and mutual respect are of the upmost. If you/your partner is the least bit possesive or prone to jealousy, then leave well alone.
I love my wife; she loves me, we are totally devoted to one another. We have both slept with other people on occasion, but we tell each other. NO SECRETS!!!!
I can see why relationships of this nature flounder. Friends of ours got drunk one night and the husband watched another man screw his wife at a party. Afterwards, once they got home, the male friend put his wife in hospital. Guilt? Shame or jealousy...? Who knows. All I know is they're not together anymore.
If you are considering a threesome/groupsex; think of the consequences. above all, know each other. Other than that: have fun.

[copernicus]

Wise words buggeration you have to be honest and open with each other

[will]

I guess that is it, buggeration is on to it, I love my wife and I love it if other guys like her, but I want to be the one and the only one for her, that makes me such a hypocrite as I guess given a chance I would sleep with my friends wife.

When I married 4 years ago my wife was my 13th lover, I am still stuck on lucky 13. I have to say it is the best sex I have ever had, so why do I lust after sex with some one else? as the previous 12 were no where near as good this surely this should tell me something.

Any more comments would be welcome.

Just one final thing my wife loves it when we video ourselves or take pictures, of the 13 she is the only one who likes this, do you other guys find you have to encourage your wives girlfriends to do this, and are they just for you to look at? I wonder if she really would like to be a bit of an exhibitionist but is waiting for me to ask should we show or friends, its all a bit confusing really.

[buggeration]

We met when we were both married to other partners and were both desperately unhappy. She had had numerous affairs, including her first group sex encounter. On this momentuous night she was entered anally for the first time and she experienced her first lesbian encounter-something she had never even thought of doing before. Up to this point I had been no saint. And our 'coming' together was borne out of lust, not love. But fall in love we did and the intervening years have been truly magical. Like 'thegent,' during our occasional 'group sex therapy sessions,' I once found myself being propositioned by a man. I'm not gay; I have no inclinations at all in that direction, but-egged on by my wife, who was incredibly turned on by this moment, I took his cock in my hand, rubbed it for a while before putting it in my mouth. Strangely enough, I enjoyed the experience-I know he certainly did as after a couple of minutes I was gagging . But afterwards, I felt no guilt or sense of shame. It happened; end of story. and, should the situation arise again, I wouldn't rule it out. My wife would equally welcome the opportunity should it happen. She says she thinks no less of me for it. In fact, she insists she loves me even more. Everybody now. Ah bless!!!!