Strip club experiences

babycat · March 20th, 2015, 12:15 AM

I wanted to get other people's feedback on their experiences at strip clubs or erotic dance clubs. I actually no longer go to strip clubs because I encountered some rude dancers, and the clubs that I went to were quite expensive. Also, I always felt even more sexually frustrated after going to them. I did have some good and memorable experiences, but several bad ones as well. I haven't been to a strip club since 2000. It is unlikely that I will ever go back to one again. I went to a few here in washington state and other clubs on the west coast during trips that I made. I've never understood why the dancers would become so rude and when I would turn them down for a lap dance or regular dance. Also, some of the dancers were upset if you didn't tip them while they were dancing on stage. Some dancer became angry at me for not tipping her, but I wasn't sitting near the stage. I don't think that the patrons are required to tip the dancers. Not all of them were like this, just some of them. I found that about two thirds of them were nice and kind to their customers. It seemed liked most of the clubs were overpriced a bit. It would cost me 20 dollars for one lap dance. The drinks were 5 dollars, and it costs 10 to 15 dollars to enter the club. I believe that these type of clubs are better suited for wealthy people. I remember spending too much in one night at these clubs. I remember that I would go back the following week to see the same dancer again if it was one that I really liked, but I eventually stopped going since I realized that it was too expensive, and I never really felt satisfied, just more frustrated. Anyone else been to strip clubs, and did you have good or bad experiences?

**deepsepia** · March 20th, 2015, 12:57 AM

They're what they are, and the girls aren't there for their love of the dance. Not so many hearts-of-gold, more like hearts-of-golddigging.

If you like a mercenary girl and are feeling like spending some money, you can have a lot of fun. The best way, I've found, is with a bunch of guys-- the girls like it more, and everyone can have a good time. So the name of the game is "its going to cost ya'" . . . its like Las Vegas; they love a drunk loser, sober & prudent, not so much.

I had a blast, years ago, at the famous Scores in New York. Was on someone else's tab -- good thing too, because it was an expensive night. I don't know how much, but it was a lot. The girls were model quality, truly beautiful . . . If you're OK with that deal, then it can be fun; if you're not in the giving vein, then its going to be less fun.

Another good time outside of Detroit, also went out with a buddy-- one thing I really don't like is them pushing too much booze on you; I'd happily pay and not drink, but they definitely want you drinking . . . I remember a very cute girl with pierced nipples on my lap, then waking up sometime later in the back of my buddie's car . . .

**LadyLuck** · March 20th, 2015, 09:15 AM

I have never been to a strip club. The idea just never appealed to me. After having seen several episodes of HBO's "G String Divas" I realized that I made the right choice.

**pharoahegypt** · March 20th, 2015, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by babycat

I wanted to get other people's feedback on their experiences at strip clubs or erotic dance clubs. I actually no longer go to strip clubs because I encountered some rude dancers, and the clubs that I went to were quite expensive. Also, I always felt even more sexually frustrated after going to them. I did have some good and memorable experiences, but several bad ones as well. I haven't been to a strip club since 2000. It is unlikely that I will ever go back to one again. I went to a few here in washington state and other clubs on the west coast during trips that I made. I've never understood why the dancers would become so rude and when I would turn them down for a lap dance or regular dance. Also, some of the dancers were upset if you didn't tip them while they were dancing on stage. Some dancer became angry at me for not tipping her, but I wasn't sitting near the stage. I don't think that the patrons are required to tip the dancers. Not all of them were like this, just some of them. I found that about two thirds of them were nice and kind to their customers. It seemed liked most of the clubs were overpriced a bit. It would cost me 20 dollars for one lap dance. The drinks were 5 dollars, and it costs 10 to 15 dollars to enter the club. I believe that these type of clubs are better suited for wealthy people. I remember spending too much in one night at these clubs. I remember that I would go back the following week to see the same dancer again if it was one that I really liked, but I eventually stopped going since I realized that it was too expensive, and I never really felt satisfied, just more frustrated. Anyone else been to strip clubs, and did you have good or bad experiences?

the reason you had such a lousy time in the clubs is fairly obvious.... you were a tight bugger who wanted all the thrills without paying for them...??

did you really expect the girls to be friendly with you when you kept your money in your pocket and refused to let them make a decent living off of you..?

its a cruel fact, that in those/these places, the girls are there to earn money in return for showing you their bodies.. and if you don't pay then you don't get too much. my own time in the lap dance clubs on the UK were far more fun, but i was prepared to pay (or often offer other incentives like outfits or toys to the girls when i was running adult shops or selling clothing around the clubs and massage parlours in the area). its amazing how friendly the girls become in exchange for money or something else they wanted.

**brk549** · March 20th, 2015, 07:30 PM

It's like paying taxes,a lot of money for not much return.Politician's have learned a lot from them,dangle it in front of your nose and take it away after they get the money.

**mikami** · March 20th, 2015, 10:10 PM

I went to a strip club with a bunch of mates for one of their birthdays coming up to 10 years ago now (surely not- it seems like it was yesterday!!) and had a pretty cool night- amazingly the dude on the door didn't ID any of us (despite most of us looking about 15 at a push) or turn anyone away (despite a few of my mates turning up in scruffy clothes/trainers- FFS)...after a period of watching a succession of girls 'work the pole' and supping overpriced alcoholic beverages very slowly, most of us ended up giving in to temptation and going for private dances- one guy got a dance off a girl he'd actually gone to college with just a couple of years earlier, which I'm sure was an interesting experience for both parties!! The girl I chose was extremely cute and friendly with a great petite body and long dirty blonde hair...she draped her bikini top around my neck, dangled said dirty blonde hair in my face while she straddled me and stuck her lovely small breasts millimetres away from my grinning mouth, writhed about on the floor for a bit while spreading her legs and whatnot, performed an 'air blowjob' on me (!)...that sort of thing...the dance lasted about 7 or 8 minutes to a soundtrack of overloud anonymous sleazy R&B crud. I managed to keep my 'old chap' under control, though 'he' did twinge a couple of times during the encounter as you might expect! Afterwards she shook my hand (yeah yeah, I know- totally filthy!!) and asked me if I enjoyed the dance- I told her I did, very much so!! Dang she was cute...I used to wish that I'd bump into her again in town or in the supermarket or wherever in the hope that I might try my luck and 'befriend' her hehe, but unfortunately I never saw her again!!

**Dropped52** · March 21st, 2015, 01:07 AM

I went to a strip club here in AZ for my bachelor party, I had a great time but in all fairness I was wasted. I started off getting dances from random strippers but found one that I really liked, she was perfect. She was an older l Latina with nice natural breasts and a perfect ass, a little on the thick side but just gorgeous. She kept walking by me and talking to me, asking me about my goatee and about the shirt is was wearing which was for a heavy metal band which turns out she loved metal. I asked her to dance for me after the 4 time she walked by and she came and sat in my lap and put my hand in hers and asked me to rub her panties, which I did and then she got on her knees in my lap and started grinding which made me hard quick, after the dance she kept going for 20 more mins. I bought her a beer and she grabbed my hand and took me tword a set of stairs going up to a private room. The bouncer stopped me and said I had to pay and she told him that she had me. Once up stairs she climbed in my lap again and started grind until I was sprung again and then I grabbed her ass and began running my has up and down at which point she grabbed my hand and put it on her Nipple and had me rub them. Then I felt her panties again and she was very wet, I put her Nipples in my mouth (maybe not the best call) which was awesome. Before anything stupid happened my brother came and got me but not before she told me real name and gave me her phone number. I called her a few times but could never bring myself to follow thru on doing anything with her. That was a great memory for me!

**spicoli** · March 21st, 2015, 01:49 AM

At a bachelor party in Las Vegas a couple of friends and I went to a club. I had a great time as did my friends. In a pussy daze I got separated from my friends and spent ALL of my money.

I ended up walking back to the hotel penniless.

Now the clubs in Mexico are another story. If you want to seal the deal - no problemo.

**pharoahegypt** · March 21st, 2015, 03:30 PM

Considering all my experiences in the Birmingham UK lap dance club scene go back at least fifteen years; I'd be interested to read anything from any guys here who have interesting posts on the current scene and experiences...... Several girls with threads here danced for me back in the day; including Sally Shakespear, Susan O'Malley (named as o'mally in her thread here), Sammy Jessop, and Gaynor Royle.

The rules were being tightened last time I went, though I suspect some girls and punters will always find ways around any rules; hidden corner seats, timing the visit right, or just picking the right girl who wants to make a few extra quid from a regular or two....

**snootsir** · March 21st, 2015, 05:35 PM

Watched Danica Collins/ Donna Ambrose strip a few times in a pub in East London.

March 20th, 2015, 12:15 AM	#1
babycat Senior Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 271 Thanks: 1,234 Thanked 5,364 Times in 289 Posts	Strip club experiences I wanted to get other people's feedback on their experiences at strip clubs or erotic dance clubs. I actually no longer go to strip clubs because I encountered some rude dancers, and the clubs that I went to were quite expensive. Also, I always felt even more sexually frustrated after going to them. I did have some good and memorable experiences, but several bad ones as well. I haven't been to a strip club since 2000. It is unlikely that I will ever go back to one again. I went to a few here in washington state and other clubs on the west coast during trips that I made. I've never understood why the dancers would become so rude and when I would turn them down for a lap dance or regular dance. Also, some of the dancers were upset if you didn't tip them while they were dancing on stage. Some dancer became angry at me for not tipping her, but I wasn't sitting near the stage. I don't think that the patrons are required to tip the dancers. Not all of them were like this, just some of them. I found that about two thirds of them were nice and kind to their customers. It seemed liked most of the clubs were overpriced a bit. It would cost me 20 dollars for one lap dance. The drinks were 5 dollars, and it costs 10 to 15 dollars to enter the club. I believe that these type of clubs are better suited for wealthy people. I remember spending too much in one night at these clubs. I remember that I would go back the following week to see the same dancer again if it was one that I really liked, but I eventually stopped going since I realized that it was too expensive, and I never really felt satisfied, just more frustrated. Anyone else been to strip clubs, and did you have good or bad experiences?

March 21st, 2015, 03:30 PM	#9
pharoahegypt Vintage Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Middle England Posts: 4,491 Thanks: 10,176 Thanked 43,620 Times in 4,154 Posts	Considering all my experiences in the Birmingham UK lap dance club scene go back at least fifteen years; I'd be interested to read anything from any guys here who have interesting posts on the current scene and experiences...... Several girls with threads here danced for me back in the day; including Sally Shakespear, Susan O'Malley (named as o'mally in her thread here), Sammy Jessop, and Gaynor Royle. The rules were being tightened last time I went, though I suspect some girls and punters will always find ways around any rules; hidden corner seats, timing the visit right, or just picking the right girl who wants to make a few extra quid from a regular or two.... __________________ Arguing with a intelligent person is hard; but arguing with a stupid person is impossible!

March 20th, 2015, 12:57 AM	#2
deepsepia Moderator Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Upper left corner Posts: 7,205 Thanks: 47,961 Thanked 83,459 Times in 7,199 Posts	They're what they are, and the girls aren't there for their love of the dance. Not so many hearts-of-gold, more like hearts-of-golddigging. If you like a mercenary girl and are feeling like spending some money, you can have a lot of fun. The best way, I've found, is with a bunch of guys-- the girls like it more, and everyone can have a good time. So the name of the game is "its going to cost ya'" . . . its like Las Vegas; they love a drunk loser, sober & prudent, not so much. I had a blast, years ago, at the famous Scores in New York. Was on someone else's tab -- good thing too, because it was an expensive night. I don't know how much, but it was a lot. The girls were model quality, truly beautiful . . . If you're OK with that deal, then it can be fun; if you're not in the giving vein, then its going to be less fun. Another good time outside of Detroit, also went out with a buddy-- one thing I really don't like is them pushing too much booze on you; I'd happily pay and not drink, but they definitely want you drinking . . . I remember a very cute girl with pierced nipples on my lap, then waking up sometime later in the back of my buddie's car . . .

March 20th, 2015, 09:15 AM	#3
LadyLuck Vintage Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: USA Posts: 1,058 Thanks: 136 Thanked 10,478 Times in 1,247 Posts	I have never been to a strip club. The idea just never appealed to me. After having seen several episodes of HBO's "G String Divas" I realized that I made the right choice.

March 20th, 2015, 07:30 PM	#5
brk549 Vintage Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,122 Thanks: 20,220 Thanked 7,179 Times in 1,046 Posts	It's like paying taxes,a lot of money for not much return.Politician's have learned a lot from them,dangle it in front of your nose and take it away after they get the money.

March 20th, 2015, 10:10 PM	#6
mikami Vintage Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 831 Thanks: 2,853 Thanked 36,883 Times in 814 Posts	I went to a strip club with a bunch of mates for one of their birthdays coming up to 10 years ago now (surely not- it seems like it was yesterday!!) and had a pretty cool night- amazingly the dude on the door didn't ID any of us (despite most of us looking about 15 at a push) or turn anyone away (despite a few of my mates turning up in scruffy clothes/trainers- FFS)...after a period of watching a succession of girls 'work the pole' and supping overpriced alcoholic beverages very slowly, most of us ended up giving in to temptation and going for private dances- one guy got a dance off a girl he'd actually gone to college with just a couple of years earlier, which I'm sure was an interesting experience for both parties!! The girl I chose was extremely cute and friendly with a great petite body and long dirty blonde hair...she draped her bikini top around my neck, dangled said dirty blonde hair in my face while she straddled me and stuck her lovely small breasts millimetres away from my grinning mouth, writhed about on the floor for a bit while spreading her legs and whatnot, performed an 'air blowjob' on me (!)...that sort of thing...the dance lasted about 7 or 8 minutes to a soundtrack of overloud anonymous sleazy R&B crud. I managed to keep my 'old chap' under control, though 'he' did twinge a couple of times during the encounter as you might expect! Afterwards she shook my hand (yeah yeah, I know- totally filthy!!) and asked me if I enjoyed the dance- I told her I did, very much so!! Dang she was cute...I used to wish that I'd bump into her again in town or in the supermarket or wherever in the hope that I might try my luck and 'befriend' her hehe, but unfortunately I never saw her again!!

March 21st, 2015, 01:07 AM	#7
Dropped52 Vintage Member Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Az Posts: 928 Thanks: 18,719 Thanked 8,602 Times in 918 Posts	I went to a strip club here in AZ for my bachelor party, I had a great time but in all fairness I was wasted. I started off getting dances from random strippers but found one that I really liked, she was perfect. She was an older l Latina with nice natural breasts and a perfect ass, a little on the thick side but just gorgeous. She kept walking by me and talking to me, asking me about my goatee and about the shirt is was wearing which was for a heavy metal band which turns out she loved metal. I asked her to dance for me after the 4 time she walked by and she came and sat in my lap and put my hand in hers and asked me to rub her panties, which I did and then she got on her knees in my lap and started grinding which made me hard quick, after the dance she kept going for 20 more mins. I bought her a beer and she grabbed my hand and took me tword a set of stairs going up to a private room. The bouncer stopped me and said I had to pay and she told him that she had me. Once up stairs she climbed in my lap again and started grind until I was sprung again and then I grabbed her ass and began running my has up and down at which point she grabbed my hand and put it on her Nipple and had me rub them. Then I felt her panties again and she was very wet, I put her Nipples in my mouth (maybe not the best call) which was awesome. Before anything stupid happened my brother came and got me but not before she told me real name and gave me her phone number. I called her a few times but could never bring myself to follow thru on doing anything with her. That was a great memory for me!

March 21st, 2015, 01:49 AM	#8
spicoli Veteran Slacker Join Date: May 2010 Location: The Beach Posts: 16,009 Thanks: 132,895 Thanked 707,400 Times in 18,248 Posts	At a bachelor party in Las Vegas a couple of friends and I went to a club. I had a great time as did my friends. In a pussy daze I got separated from my friends and spent ALL of my money. I ended up walking back to the hotel penniless. Now the clubs in Mexico are another story. If you want to seal the deal - no problemo.

March 21st, 2015, 05:35 PM	#10
snootsir Veteran Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 1,349 Thanks: 68,359 Thanked 15,780 Times in 1,148 Posts	Watched Danica Collins/ Donna Ambrose strip a few times in a pub in East London.