Porn vs. Reality - Anal Sex

[pixielou1985]

Female POV?

Being blunt and honest (and trying not to overstep the mark), I do like watching it in porn. Lets face it, it is the kind of thing that at one point everyone is interested in whether its just to look and make up your mind or to do in reality.

I first tried it when I was 18. I couldnt.
It was too painful.
My more experience fiance at the time "taught" me ways of ummm...getting used to it shall we say.
I found after a lot of working up and taking things slowly that I well.....didnt know what to make of it.
It was sore and it felt wierd!

With my fiance it just never felt good, however I had the pleasure (litlary) of being with another guy who took the "no warm up" approach and done it in a more vigorus style.

I found this....amazing.
the more "energetic" it was, the better I liked it.

As for the "accidents" that can happen, well its all part of anal sex, its worth it and its nothing that soap cant cure....as long as its not too much...ick.

Also someone at the start mentioned porn stars taking an enema.....i have done this, its something you have to research first cause you can make things go disasterously wrong, but it does help loads.

Unfortunaly I'd like to be having anal sex these days but the husband has no interest in it

[gromar]

I love watching anal sex in porn, even from a young age, a movie that didn't show any anal was not worth for me. That is mainly because I love the female arse. It's an object of desire, passion and worship for me.

However porn and reality are far too distant from each other, in any way, not just the anal approach. You cannot just ram it into your partners arse. For me it is a kind of a ritual which includes a lot of trust building with my partner and a lot of foreplay and preparation, especially if the lady is an anal-noob! I Fortunately none of my dates were anal noobs, some of them liked it a lot, for some it was an occasion of feeling extra slutty at the given point.

As brown matter is concerned, as I said I'm totally nuts about fem bums, so yeah, not only shit-stuff but farts also are expected in that game. It is perfectly natural. And to be honest it is quite arousing for me, as it serves as a mind illusion that the intrusion of my partner's rear was deep and glorious. And I find it even more exciting when the lady doesn't seems to bother much from the smell or the colour, a rather slutty approach really, but surely does a jolly good job for me! And then soap is my best friend!

[malcxxx]

You need a degree of preparation, and I would assume that would involve some sort of enema or anal douche. This is why in porn you can see a guy slamming the girls arse ball-deep only to pull out with his prick looking as clean as when it went in.

Good point, Sharkhunter. It's one of the things that interrupts my enjoyment of porn amidst a jackoff session. I'll smirk at the screen and say to myself, "Alright, that's bullshit." Sometimes it ruins the scene for me.

Some years ago (in my twenties) I dated a girl who'd read an article in Cosmo about anal sex. She mentioned the article in passing, which indicated to me an interest. Nearing the end of a hot session, she asked me to pull out and come on her buns. In something of an alcoholic haze, I came on her butt hole. She then said "put it in my ass!" Her request was so sexual and intense that I was able to keep it up (unusual as I'd normally go limp) and gave it the best I could.

In the morning she said that other than some discomfort in the bathroom, she'd enjoyed it. It was an infrequent part of our lovemaking after that, whenever she was in the mood. She had a "bad" streak in her--in a good way--and this was a manifestation of her darker side.

... very interesting story, hastfount. Thanks for posting.

Being blunt and honest (and trying not to overstep the mark), I do like watching it in porn. Lets face it, it is the kind of thing that at one point everyone is interested in whether its just to look and make up your mind or to do in reality.

I first tried it when I was 18. I couldnt.
It was too painful.
My more experience fiance at the time "taught" me ways of ummm...getting used to it shall we say.
I found after a lot of working up and taking things slowly that I well.....didnt know what to make of it.
It was sore and it felt wierd!

With my fiance it just never felt good, however I had the pleasure (litlary) of being with another guy who took the "no warm up" approach and done it in a more vigorus style.

I found this....amazing.
the more "energetic" it was, the better I liked it.

As for the "accidents" that can happen, well its all part of anal sex, its worth it and its nothing that soap cant cure....as long as its not too much...ick.

Also someone at the start mentioned porn stars taking an enema.....i have done this, its something you have to research first cause you can make things go disasterously wrong, but it does help loads.

Unfortunaly I'd like to be having anal sex these days but the husband has no interest in it

Ahh, pixielou... you are the girl of my dreams (at least one of them). It's always my pleasure to welcome the female POV. Have you told your husband about it? I can't imagine a man who could resist a woman's request to have anal sex if he's willing to have sex with her at all. I know I couldn't.

I had a relationship with a girl who used an enema before every time she visited me because she wanted the possibility of me fucking her in the ass, not that we did it every time. But my reaction to the shitty situation the first time I fucked her in the ass, I believe, embarrassed the poor woman. I regretted it afterward, because I was young and had to mature more before I really appreciated the natural splendor of a woman's ass. Now, I know the difference between an unplanned assfuck and the porn-style preparation, I actually prefer the spontaneous. I can't explain it. But it's something about a woman's ass that is always a pleasant alternative and compliment to her pussy, although it can never be a substitute for it.

[palo5]

I am lucky not to be in this position, because I don't want anal

But has anyone ever had a 'wet fart' on their johnson?

[malcxxx]

Originally Posted by palo5

I am lucky not to be in this position, because I don't want anal

But has anyone ever had a 'wet fart' on their johnson?

I have! It's amazing what a man discovers about himself when he's with the right (or wrong) woman. I assume you're not talking about a pussy fart, which I've also enjoyed. If you're referring to an excessive fecal mess, I've never experienced anything like that. If a woman wants to get fucked in the ass, she usually is aware enough of her digestive conditions to not let a disgusting catastrophe occur.

Personally, I believe in sex being spontaneous and anal is something you cannot simply engage in "just like that" - which is what usually happens in the porn world. Boy meets girl, boy fucks girl up the arse, girl sucks just-out-of-arse-cock. No question as to whether she has just visited the little room for a number two. That's the real difference between porn and reality. Well, one of many differences given that porn is fun fantasy and nothing more.

That's another great point, Sharkhunter. Spontaneous sex is the best. Anal sex can be spontaneous if the woman is interested enough in it to accept it as a possibility in spontaneous sex. One of the things I hate about it in porn is the so-called "ass-to-mouth" action. I think this takes things too far because it's either too disgusting or too unrealistic.

It's weird because here I am raving about how much I enjoy realistic anal sex with women and I'm calling another action disgusting.

I think that the idea of having anal sex, is better than actually doing it. you need so much lube and have litterally to force your way in that any sponteneity has gone. When its over you have to go straight to the bathroom to wash any shit off so that it doesnt end up on the bed etc, that the after part is also ruined. I would rather have a good 'front bum' shag.

I don't know, gunner. I think it depends on the woman. Nothing's better than the pussy, but oral and anal sex with a beautiful woman who enjoys it is never disappointing. If she's done it enough (with a partner or by masturbation) she knows how to relax her ass enough to accept your dick without artificial lubrication. I was with a woman whose pussy was wet enough to lubricate her ass for me. As for the after part, it depends on the mess. The more experienced she is, the less mess she makes.

[cherry88]

I've never been a fan of anal play because it looks so painful. I have never tried it myself but honestly.. Who wants to risk anal fissures, rectal bleeding, and incontinence? Porn does a very bad job of showing what anal sex is really like unfortunately.Its very risky business.

[hudley]

Cherry, if properly prepared there is no reason to fear tearing. the anus is perfectly capable of accepting a normal size cock. I've known lots of women who were fearful at first, but after i prepared them and then had them, they would ask me later to do it again. Also there is the raised intimacy factor. there is something extra vulnerable about a woman offering you that orifice. Another thing is when you are with her in public, a little wink shared lets her know that you are the only one there that knows she takes it in the butt (if you give her that suggestion beforehand).

[billybunter]

I have tried anal. Never liked it. I'm not saying i'm donkey dick. I prefered a pussy.

[sweatyhat]

When we do anal it's always the culmination of our session. Once you've stuck it up her wrong 'un you can't put it anywhere else. The pornmongers should bear this in mind. When I see what they make their performers do, I'm usually disgusted enough to switch off.
We never do it unless we're able to wash immediately afterwards.
This means there's little spontaneity as we're restricted to home or hotel rooms.

Have you noticed how TV ads for laxatives are usually targeted at women? Constipation seems to affect them more than men. When Mrs S gets particularly eggbound, a good rogering up the tailpipe often gets her "going" shortly afterwards.

[asspi]

The porn world & reality are two things that don't mix. These 50 minute scenes (Brazzers, Teagan Presley etc) are complete bullshit, some guy banging away really hard for that length of time are nonsense. The poor female in the scene will have had several douches & will have had a large buttplug up there for at least the entire day before filming. These type of scenes leave me really cold, they are not sexy, sensual or even horny. They just make me think does the male performer, director & producer actually like women?