What Is It About Fisting?

January 3rd, 2009, 05:46 AM

I don't mean this as a put-down to anyone but just post it in the
form of a question. What is the turn-on to watching a woman get
a fist shoved up her pussy? It doesn't do a thing for me or anyone
else I've ever talked to. Just curious. Happy New Year to you and
yours.

johound · January 3rd, 2009, 10:39 AM

Always been a turn-off for me. Just seems too...brutal. I'm not a woman but whenever I see a fisting scene I just cringe.

**rotobott** · January 3rd, 2009, 08:01 PM

Noooo you've destroyed my memories of sooty forever.

nerf-herder · January 3rd, 2009, 08:05 PM

To each their own, i say. I think the same could be said of bukkake, pissing or anal sex.
All rely on some sort of submissive element on the fisted woman or "glove" as I believe the term to be.
But hey I'm no psychologist, I don't why some things are erotic and other are not.

**captpike** · January 4th, 2009, 01:06 AM

Me I find fisting scenes very erotic for me I can't say why. I don't go for the ruff degrading stuff like Max Hardcore and that style but I do like watching two woman doing it in a very erotic scene. Where as I don't like any anal or water sports turns me off.

**anklebiter** · January 4th, 2009, 02:28 AM

I kind of like it because of the mentality of the woman.Knowing she is so crazy horny and she'd go to such extremes for fulfillment or satisfaction sort of draws me in.The same goes for women who use objects really.Bottles and bananas aren't really sexy things, but if a total nymphomaniac is cramming them to get off, now we have something

zuckerman · January 4th, 2009, 03:45 AM

... "watching a woman get a fist shoved up her pussy."

Put that like, it sounds very unpleasant, but using the fingers and perhaps the whole breadth of your hand to give your lover a very 'full' feeling, being as firm or gentle as she wishes ... well, that's very different.

I find the term 'fisting' sounds suspiciously like aggressive porno hype. And I have never seen a clenched fist inserted (Mapplethorpe fans might correct me?), only hands, and those frequently women's hands ... and into a passage designed for childbirth: big deal!

I first did this 25 years ago with a girlfriend who told me that the most exciting sex for her often involved a penis with a very wide girth. The best ever experience was with a man with a prick of average length but exceptional circumference that tapered out to a wide base. On every instroke her vagina was pushed open. It was, according to her, simply 'breathtaking' to be stretched open like that.

I couldn't match that but I could explore her pussy with my hand. Inserting four fingers up to the widest part of the hand was a little "too much", so I learned to form my fingers and thumb into a cone shape (as if picking up salt!). The penetration wasn't deep, but that tapered opening effect was perfect for her.

This became a regular part of our lovemaking. I discussed with her the idea of trying to insert my whole hand and she admitted that it was a very exciting fantasy, but one she thought she just couldn't comfortably achieve. However, after a few months she brought this idea up again. I have to say I didn't detect any change in the elasticity of her cunt but she felt it was something she could now do.

It was me who was nervous about this and several times I called a halt because the force I was exerting to try to pass across the barrier of the widest part of my hand seemed much too hard. I think what really worried me was the idea of the resistance of her vaginal muscles finally being overcome and my hand suddenly plunging inside her, causing who knows what harm.

Once, I suggested that she might want to push down onto my hand and be in control, but she looked at me as if I was a bit dim and gave me a very interesting insight into her sexual feelings. The whole point, according to her, was to feel my hand "being shoved in" - it was the exciting anticipation of my hand suddenly "whooshing inside" one day that made it so erotic for her.

In the end, it really came down to a matter of lubrication and one night I found myself up to the wrist in my girlfriend, faintly terrified by the incredibly loud moan she gave when the feat was finally achieved. But as she quickly began panting like a woman in labour and saying "fuck yes!" over and over and over again (which was quite unlike her), I soon got the message that it was more than OK.

What I hadn't been prepared for was how much she enjoyed my hand being pulled out. I thought the neighbours would be banging on the walls during that part of the proceedings.

Incidentally, this practice, 'fisting' if you like, produced a real change in the way she experienced her own body. She explained that her vagina "had begun to feel really three-dimensional" whereas before most of the feeling had been concentrated at the opening of her vagina. She was something of an amateur poet and her work started to reflect the experience using the metaphor of a "vessel" being filled up, or a void being "packed out"! OK, now I've made her sound weird; but she was just an intelligent and thoughtful woman trying to make sense of a profound experience.

After the thrill of doing that the first time, the novelty wore off for me quicker than for her (KY jelly is a bloody nuisance!). But by then I had discovered her G spot (much to her surprise) and I could reach that with just a couple of fingers inserted.

Some years later I had an affair with a married mother of three who was into 'fisting' as a regular practice. Oddly enough, the passage in seemed no less difficult but she was very roomy inside. And with her, some actual pumping of the hand in and out was welcomed but what she really liked was the hand being completely withdrawn and reinserted. If she wasn't quite prepared or relaxed enough, she would reach down and just lightly push my hand away a little; then say 'OK' when she was ready to resume. She always used to like to watch herself be penetrated in this way.

My feeling about it was as much about my hand being accepted into the woman's body or engulfed by it as it was about 'penetration'. I was absolutely astonished both by the muscular force and elasticity of the vagina. I became quite fascinated by the mysteries of that internal space: the fleshy ridges of the passage, the soft sea-anemone of the cervix, the unexpected effects of applying pressure to the interior surface (not just the G spot). They're like icebergs: only 10% is above the surface you know.

A truly exceptional organ: one day we'll need an Attenborough and a clever film crew to explore it fully! Oh, I forgot; we already have one - Annie Sprinkle.

cannon · January 6th, 2009, 05:13 AM

for sure i agree with all posters both pro and con. i've never done it but have been with women who probably wouldn't object to trying it in part or all the way. by now most of us have seen not just vaginal fisting, but anal, double fisting (anus and vagina at same time) as well as more than one hand inserted into either orifice (even considering the possibility of fakes). i dont know either. maybe its like looking at a car or train wreck, no matter how you feel about it you just cant turn your head away. oh by the way, i dont enjoy or endorse train wrecks, but i have bought the magazines. so i tell myself go figure.

**Mad Koala Bear** · January 6th, 2009, 09:34 PM

I'm happy to say that I am a fan of girl on girl anal fisting, the only kind of fisting I'll give a second glance to. Its up there with pee bukakke for me. There, said it. Does it make me a pervert? Probably, but I should care.

motorock · January 6th, 2009, 11:22 PM

I find fisting scenes very "hit and miss". I am totally turned off by men fisting women, as it seems brutal or as some form of torture in most of the scenes I have witnessed. However, I find women fisting other women to be totally erotic, as the women's fist is normally smaller then some six foot guy (for example, my wife could never take my big hand up her and I wouldn't expect her to, but I could seriously see her tiny fist in some girls pussy). I do draw the line at two handed fisting as this veers off from erotica to some sort of sexual athletics or something.

January 3rd, 2009, 05:46 AM	#1
wrench24a Guest Posts: n/a	What Is It About Fisting? I don't mean this as a put-down to anyone but just post it in the form of a question. What is the turn-on to watching a woman get a fist shoved up her pussy? It doesn't do a thing for me or anyone else I've ever talked to. Just curious. Happy New Year to you and yours.

January 4th, 2009, 03:45 AM	#7
zuckerman Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 99 Thanks: 2,152 Thanked 1,376 Times in 94 Posts	... "watching a woman get a fist shoved up her pussy." Put that like, it sounds very unpleasant, but using the fingers and perhaps the whole breadth of your hand to give your lover a very 'full' feeling, being as firm or gentle as she wishes ... well, that's very different. I find the term 'fisting' sounds suspiciously like aggressive porno hype. And I have never seen a clenched fist inserted (Mapplethorpe fans might correct me?), only hands, and those frequently women's hands ... and into a passage designed for childbirth: big deal! I first did this 25 years ago with a girlfriend who told me that the most exciting sex for her often involved a penis with a very wide girth. The best ever experience was with a man with a prick of average length but exceptional circumference that tapered out to a wide base. On every instroke her vagina was pushed open. It was, according to her, simply 'breathtaking' to be stretched open like that. I couldn't match that but I could explore her pussy with my hand. Inserting four fingers up to the widest part of the hand was a little "too much", so I learned to form my fingers and thumb into a cone shape (as if picking up salt!). The penetration wasn't deep, but that tapered opening effect was perfect for her. This became a regular part of our lovemaking. I discussed with her the idea of trying to insert my whole hand and she admitted that it was a very exciting fantasy, but one she thought she just couldn't comfortably achieve. However, after a few months she brought this idea up again. I have to say I didn't detect any change in the elasticity of her cunt but she felt it was something she could now do. It was me who was nervous about this and several times I called a halt because the force I was exerting to try to pass across the barrier of the widest part of my hand seemed much too hard. I think what really worried me was the idea of the resistance of her vaginal muscles finally being overcome and my hand suddenly plunging inside her, causing who knows what harm. Once, I suggested that she might want to push down onto my hand and be in control, but she looked at me as if I was a bit dim and gave me a very interesting insight into her sexual feelings. The whole point, according to her, was to feel my hand "being shoved in" - it was the exciting anticipation of my hand suddenly "whooshing inside" one day that made it so erotic for her. In the end, it really came down to a matter of lubrication and one night I found myself up to the wrist in my girlfriend, faintly terrified by the incredibly loud moan she gave when the feat was finally achieved. But as she quickly began panting like a woman in labour and saying "fuck yes!" over and over and over again (which was quite unlike her), I soon got the message that it was more than OK. What I hadn't been prepared for was how much she enjoyed my hand being pulled out. I thought the neighbours would be banging on the walls during that part of the proceedings. Incidentally, this practice, 'fisting' if you like, produced a real change in the way she experienced her own body. She explained that her vagina "had begun to feel really three-dimensional" whereas before most of the feeling had been concentrated at the opening of her vagina. She was something of an amateur poet and her work started to reflect the experience using the metaphor of a "vessel" being filled up, or a void being "packed out"! OK, now I've made her sound weird; but she was just an intelligent and thoughtful woman trying to make sense of a profound experience. After the thrill of doing that the first time, the novelty wore off for me quicker than for her (KY jelly is a bloody nuisance!). But by then I had discovered her G spot (much to her surprise) and I could reach that with just a couple of fingers inserted. Some years later I had an affair with a married mother of three who was into 'fisting' as a regular practice. Oddly enough, the passage in seemed no less difficult but she was very roomy inside. And with her, some actual pumping of the hand in and out was welcomed but what she really liked was the hand being completely withdrawn and reinserted. If she wasn't quite prepared or relaxed enough, she would reach down and just lightly push my hand away a little; then say 'OK' when she was ready to resume. She always used to like to watch herself be penetrated in this way. My feeling about it was as much about my hand being accepted into the woman's body or engulfed by it as it was about 'penetration'. I was absolutely astonished both by the muscular force and elasticity of the vagina. I became quite fascinated by the mysteries of that internal space: the fleshy ridges of the passage, the soft sea-anemone of the cervix, the unexpected effects of applying pressure to the interior surface (not just the G spot). They're like icebergs: only 10% is above the surface you know. A truly exceptional organ: one day we'll need an Attenborough and a clever film crew to explore it fully! Oh, I forgot; we already have one - Annie Sprinkle. Last edited by zuckerman; January 4th, 2009 at 03:48 AM..

January 6th, 2009, 05:13 AM	#8
cannon Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 187 Thanks: 1,495 Thanked 8,974 Times in 185 Posts	for sure for sure i agree with all posters both pro and con. i've never done it but have been with women who probably wouldn't object to trying it in part or all the way. by now most of us have seen not just vaginal fisting, but anal, double fisting (anus and vagina at same time) as well as more than one hand inserted into either orifice (even considering the possibility of fakes). i dont know either. maybe its like looking at a car or train wreck, no matter how you feel about it you just cant turn your head away. oh by the way, i dont enjoy or endorse train wrecks, but i have bought the magazines. so i tell myself go figure. Last edited by cannon; January 6th, 2009 at 05:19 AM..

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January 3rd, 2009, 10:39 AM	#2
johound Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 14 Thanks: 28 Thanked 71 Times in 14 Posts	Always been a turn-off for me. Just seems too...brutal. I'm not a woman but whenever I see a fisting scene I just cringe.

January 3rd, 2009, 08:01 PM	#3
rotobott Veteran Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 32,103 Thanks: 174,766 Thanked 634,543 Times in 31,424 Posts	Noooo you've destroyed my memories of sooty forever.

January 3rd, 2009, 08:05 PM	#4
nerf-herder Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 115 Thanks: 420 Thanked 952 Times in 102 Posts	To each their own, i say. I think the same could be said of bukkake, pissing or anal sex. All rely on some sort of submissive element on the fisted woman or "glove" as I believe the term to be. But hey I'm no psychologist, I don't why some things are erotic and other are not.

January 4th, 2009, 01:06 AM	#5
captpike Vintage Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: TALOS IV or South Carolina Posts: 1,175 Thanks: 80,303 Thanked 47,305 Times in 1,164 Posts	Me I find fisting scenes very erotic for me I can't say why. I don't go for the ruff degrading stuff like Max Hardcore and that style but I do like watching two woman doing it in a very erotic scene. Where as I don't like any anal or water sports turns me off.

January 4th, 2009, 02:28 AM	#6
anklebiter Palerider Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: United States Posts: 509 Thanks: 5,603 Thanked 9,862 Times in 515 Posts	I kind of like it because of the mentality of the woman.Knowing she is so crazy horny and she'd go to such extremes for fulfillment or satisfaction sort of draws me in.The same goes for women who use objects really.Bottles and bananas aren't really sexy things, but if a total nymphomaniac is cramming them to get off, now we have something

January 6th, 2009, 09:34 PM	#9
Mad Koala Bear Vintage Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 869 Thanks: 30,809 Thanked 10,733 Times in 850 Posts	I'm happy to say that I am a fan of girl on girl anal fisting, the only kind of fisting I'll give a second glance to. Its up there with pee bukakke for me. There, said it. Does it make me a pervert? Probably, but I should care.

January 6th, 2009, 11:22 PM	#10
motorock Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 93 Thanks: 4,526 Thanked 2,965 Times in 88 Posts	I find fisting scenes very "hit and miss". I am totally turned off by men fisting women, as it seems brutal or as some form of torture in most of the scenes I have witnessed. However, I find women fisting other women to be totally erotic, as the women's fist is normally smaller then some six foot guy (for example, my wife could never take my big hand up her and I wouldn't expect her to, but I could seriously see her tiny fist in some girls pussy). I do draw the line at two handed fisting as this veers off from erotica to some sort of sexual athletics or something.