The Taboo Subject of Female Masturbation

Aspire2B · March 11th, 2019, 12:34 PM

When it comes to masturbation it’s well acknowledge and generally accepted that men are habitual wankers by nature with the Wank Club and other threads on VEF being just some of many testimonies to this fact. But when it comes to the art of female masturbation it’s somewhat of a taboo and shrouded subject.

Little, if any exposure is given to the open discussion of females pleasuring themselves, when, where, how often and by what techniques, methods of stimulation, what toys they use, or the fantasies they imagine all seem to be a closely guarded secret.

Does your wife, partner or girlfriend openly confess to self pleasing herself when you are out of the house?

Have you ever caught a woman bringing herself off? If so, what did she do and what happened?

What’s your knowledge and experience of the woman in your life secret self sexual behaviour?

Does she have the confidence to openly rub her pussy and make herself come in front of you?

Better still, if you are a woman then I am sure us guys would love to read all about what you do, how often and equally as important what is racing through your mind as you bring yourself to orgasm.

I’m sure this is a subject that will open the eyes of of many of us guys and certainly help us learn a thing or two about this otherwise taboo subject.

Thetallguy · March 11th, 2019, 12:40 PM

Women seem to be lagging behind men in terms of openness about this subject. When I was a teenager (30 odd years ago) I didn't know ANYBODY who admitted to masturbating. It was openly derided as something shameful. Over the years, it became more or less accepted that men almost all did it, but it still isn't something that's easy to talk about openly, at least not for my generation.

What a shame that so many young men had to grow up with this sort of unnecessary guilt (and it used to be even worse, of course).

Nowadays, I don't know any women who openly admit to masturbating, but I think younger women are more open about it. Attitudes are changing. Years ago, on a episode of Friends, Rachel and Monica were talking about Chandler getting caught in the act and Rachel said something like 'Yeah, they do that'. She had a sort of distasteful look on her face. I remember thinking, so do you, ladies! Edgier comedies now are far more open about masturbation.

**KissArmy** · March 11th, 2019, 04:05 PM

My wife doesn't prefer it, No. She gives the matrimonially correct response that she prefers to get off via me. She's admitted to pleasuring herself only once or twice, once with the toy I bought her. She'll touch herself at my request when we're having sex but doesn't seem to get any pleasure out of it.

[Inner Voice Saying TMI! TMI!

**vo1v0d** · May 6th, 2019, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by KissArmy

My wife doesn't prefer it, No. She gives the matrimonially correct response that she prefers to get off via me. She's admitted to pleasuring herself only once or twice, once with the toy I bought her. She'll touch herself at my request when we're having sex but doesn't seem to get any pleasure out of it.

[Inner Voice Saying TMI! TMI!

Your Inner Voice Saying TrailMaster! TrailMaster!

**PJayBr** · March 11th, 2019, 04:51 PM

The missus likes it when we masturbate together, but I think she counts it as being part of making love so I don't think she goes for it alone. I have tried saying that she should, but to no avail (as far as I know...).

Patheticnikkij · March 11th, 2019, 08:04 PM

I actually prefer masturbating to sex myself. But I was raised by a very open family. Like my mom caught me masturbating. She teased me about it. But then told me it was perfectly fine and normal to do. She even told me she did it too.

rednutty10 · March 12th, 2019, 02:01 AM

nice story! there are so many mature masturbating vids on ********, from all over the world, they have filled my fantasies that I had about women when I was a teenager!

~~bigtrain45~~ · March 11th, 2019, 10:54 PM

Any of you watch a show that is on the Syfy channel and Netflix called "The Magicians?" One of the female characters (Margo) talks about "rubbing one out" almost every episode, for whatever that's worth.

Patheticnikkij · March 12th, 2019, 06:08 AM

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Originally Posted by bigtrain45

Any of you watch a show that is on the Syfy channel and Netflix called "The Magicians?" One of the female characters (Margo) talks about "rubbing one out" almost every episode, for whatever that's worth.

I never have. But any show willing to make female masturbation thought of as normal then I'm willing to support it.

Thetallguy · March 12th, 2019, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Patheticnikkij

I never have. But any show willing to make female masturbation thought of as normal then I'm willing to support it.

Here here! What a contrast from the episode of Friends I mentioned earlier, and so much healthier.

March 11th, 2019, 12:34 PM	#1
Aspire2B Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Posts: 73 Thanks: 334 Thanked 530 Times in 72 Posts	The Taboo Subject of Female Masturbation When it comes to masturbation it’s well acknowledge and generally accepted that men are habitual wankers by nature with the Wank Club and other threads on VEF being just some of many testimonies to this fact. But when it comes to the art of female masturbation it’s somewhat of a taboo and shrouded subject. Little, if any exposure is given to the open discussion of females pleasuring themselves, when, where, how often and by what techniques, methods of stimulation, what toys they use, or the fantasies they imagine all seem to be a closely guarded secret. Does your wife, partner or girlfriend openly confess to self pleasing herself when you are out of the house? Have you ever caught a woman bringing herself off? If so, what did she do and what happened? What’s your knowledge and experience of the woman in your life secret self sexual behaviour? Does she have the confidence to openly rub her pussy and make herself come in front of you? Better still, if you are a woman then I am sure us guys would love to read all about what you do, how often and equally as important what is racing through your mind as you bring yourself to orgasm. I’m sure this is a subject that will open the eyes of of many of us guys and certainly help us learn a thing or two about this otherwise taboo subject.

March 11th, 2019, 12:40 PM	#2
Thetallguy Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: UK Posts: 239 Thanks: 603 Thanked 1,642 Times in 237 Posts	Women seem to be lagging behind men in terms of openness about this subject. When I was a teenager (30 odd years ago) I didn't know ANYBODY who admitted to masturbating. It was openly derided as something shameful. Over the years, it became more or less accepted that men almost all did it, but it still isn't something that's easy to talk about openly, at least not for my generation. What a shame that so many young men had to grow up with this sort of unnecessary guilt (and it used to be even worse, of course). Nowadays, I don't know any women who openly admit to masturbating, but I think younger women are more open about it. Attitudes are changing. Years ago, on a episode of Friends, Rachel and Monica were talking about Chandler getting caught in the act and Rachel said something like 'Yeah, they do that'. She had a sort of distasteful look on her face. I remember thinking, so do you, ladies! Edgier comedies now are far more open about masturbation.

March 11th, 2019, 04:05 PM	#3
KissArmy Vintage Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 1,127 Thanks: 21,218 Thanked 12,388 Times in 1,108 Posts	My wife doesn't prefer it, No. She gives the matrimonially correct response that she prefers to get off via me. She's admitted to pleasuring herself only once or twice, once with the toy I bought her. She'll touch herself at my request when we're having sex but doesn't seem to get any pleasure out of it. [Inner Voice Saying TMI! TMI!

March 11th, 2019, 04:51 PM	#5
PJayBr Vintage Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: In front of my PC with my cock in my hand...... Posts: 1,323 Thanks: 42,353 Thanked 13,803 Times in 1,294 Posts	The missus likes it when we masturbate together, but I think she counts it as being part of making love so I don't think she goes for it alone. I have tried saying that she should, but to no avail (as far as I know...).

March 11th, 2019, 08:04 PM	#6
Patheticnikkij Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: New Jersey Posts: 33 Thanks: 22 Thanked 350 Times in 33 Posts	I actually prefer masturbating to sex myself. But I was raised by a very open family. Like my mom caught me masturbating. She teased me about it. But then told me it was perfectly fine and normal to do. She even told me she did it too.

March 12th, 2019, 02:01 AM	#7
rednutty10 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2019 Posts: 2 Thanks: 1 Thanked 16 Times in 2 Posts	nice story! there are so many mature masturbating vids on ********, from all over the world, they have filled my fantasies that I had about women when I was a teenager!

March 11th, 2019, 10:54 PM	#8
~~bigtrain45~~ Banned! Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Savannah GA Posts: 16,142 Thanks: 47,756 Thanked 215,718 Times in 16,027 Posts	Any of you watch a show that is on the Syfy channel and Netflix called "The Magicians?" One of the female characters (Margo) talks about "rubbing one out" almost every episode, for whatever that's worth.