Does your partner know about your porn or do you hide it?

[pub]

My wife has mixed feelings about it; she used to buy me mags sometimes and would look at them with me. Sometimes she'll look at some online with me and get really turned on but mostly now she complains she gets jealous that I get turned on looking at other women - but not always. I think blokes are far more visual when it comes to getting turned on and women are more cerebal & emmotional; my wife sometimes tells me her fantasies which I get quite a kick out of - they are off the scale but she claims she would hate them to be a reality. I think also as she's got older (and lets face it, I'm not as young or slim as when we married plus I've gone bald), she feels more threatened by the younger models I look at - but will still indulge me in my hobby of photographing her...

In my experience it depends on mood and circumstances; one day she'll be fine with it, another she'll threaten to chuck out the computer! Sometimes she'll ignore it, other times she'll lap it up. I reckon women are far more complex than men; men know what they want and go straight for the kill. Women want it all, if only they can work out what that means (and it's not a Tuesday)!

[watching2005]

Mrs knows I am a collector and that I have a bunch of vintage PB and PH. We used to enjoy the 80s raunchy movies like Porky's and went to a few X-rated movies at the theater. After one such movie, she snuggled up to me in the car, loosened her jeans, and let me finger her deeply for the 30-minute ride home. I bought an erotic letters tabloid for her once after she asked me to.

I fancy myself a good photographer and managed to talk her into posing nude in our hottub. They came out fantastic and some are posted annomously on the interweb, without her knowledge, of course. She has never seen them or asked of their whereabouts.

But then I got sloppy and left a stash of pics on a bunch of Mac floppy disks behind something at the computer desk. She didn't appreciate the volume of my collection and that some were collected while she was pregnant. I promised to dispose of them, which I did. Things were good for a while and then she found a thumb drive that I had forgotten in the USB port. Another meltdown and more promises from me. That has happened a couple of times.

Mrs says her main complaint with internet and digital pics is the possibility of making an on-line connection with one of the subjects, while PB models are far away and unobtainable. She was also concerned that other family members might find the images as well.

Mine is definitely an addiction. I'm not sure that I have the ability to stop, and I damn sure don't have the desire.

[johnie77]

My first wife knew about it and admitetd she used it herself when home alone.

My current wife doesnt mind either

[Schenker76]

My girlfriend knows. After we first met and got involved I told her straight away I watch and collect (vintage) porn, and ain't no way I was gonna give that up. She would watch porn occasionally before we met and now we watch together. She knows I love her and has no problems whatsoever if I watch it on my own, she got her toys and I don't mind that either ;o) we even discuss porn issues and subjects from time to time. No secrets here...

[monicled eye]

I've never outright told her, but she knows I do and is (mostly) ok with it.

[Schwenck]

My wife knows I have quite a lot of porn mags and porn on my computer.
She makes the odd comment, but she doesn't mind too much. It is all out of sight, I wouldn't leave it lying around the house. Actually there are some porn books on our book shelves, but I suspect books don't count, while mags do.
She has looked at some porn with me, but it doesn't do much for her, so I don't keep pushing her to look at it. I suspect that some textual erotica might suit her better - she's a huge reader - but as far as I know, she doesn't read anything specifically erotic, although some of her books probably do have sexual scenes.

[Sharkhunter]

Originally Posted by Schwenck

My wife knows I have quite a lot of porn mags and porn on my computer.
She makes the odd comment, but she doesn't mind too much. It is all out of sight, I wouldn't leave it lying around the house. Actually there are some porn books on our book shelves, but I suspect books don't count, while mags do.
She has looked at some porn with me, but it doesn't do much for her, so I don't keep pushing her to look at it. I suspect that some textual erotica might suit her better - she's a huge reader - but as far as I know, she doesn't read anything specifically erotic, although some of her books probably do have sexual scenes.

Pretty much in line with my situation, which is still the same since the last time I posted here. It is nice to know that some women are OK with our porn collection.

Mrs Schwenck sounds much the same as Mrs Sharkhunter. She's a reader too, and is a big graphic novel fan. I know for sure that there is erotic/sexual content in some of items in her collection. I too have tried the porn sharing thing, but unless Kiefer Sutherland is in it, she is not going to be interested...

[rawhide010]

My wife like porn and erotica too. we make our own small movies and erotic and porn fotoshoots. I am lucky

[shaninesfan]

No my missus doesn't know it's for my pleasure only wanking over all these beautiful woman

[xdemon666]

my wife stars in quite a lot of my porn pics and vids etc.but im better behind the camera so im rarely her co-star. other guys get that privelege.