Beauty versus desirability - Page 5

**crazybikerme** · July 23rd, 2010, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by GreenSkull

But word on the BBC grapevine (Hey just cause i hate the corporation don`t mean i don`t have chums there) is Susanna Reid (Nickname Priss - Age 39

) fancies herself something rotten , is extremely high maintenance and a complete control freak. Erm also gadget and Online crazy so she might even be reading this , as she's known to be one of those mini kinda celebs who like to check up on their net popularity

I still would though

Susannah was on 'Breakfast' this morning. I don't care, she ooozes sex appeal, her and that Silverton sort!! Top totty & no error!!

**tony_grego** · July 23rd, 2010, 01:08 PM

Why you don't ask your friend Charles (i don't know if it's a VEF member and can read this) about his preference in desire over beauty?

Salut !

blatt · February 3rd, 2011, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Xexemedes

At the risk of, well, riskiness, I might respectfully ask how ole blatt's body has weathered the marriage and whether Mrs Blatt is having the same type of discussion on her Crocheting Forum

?

My body has held up pretty well but then it is mostly made up of stodge

Doubt if Mrs B would ever bother discussing this sort of thing though as all her and her herd are interested in are phone in shows / buying stuff they will never need or fit into and online bingo

Desirability went out of our marriage long ago , now it is just a war of attrition

oldskoolfan · January 13th, 2016, 01:32 AM

Very interesting question. Would take desirability hands down. Some women may be outwardly beautiful but simply not inwardly desirable for various reasons. At times those with unconventional looks have a great degree of magnetism and charisma

**trailmaster** · January 31st, 2016, 02:15 PM

I like desirability just like other men, but I always felt that if a woman was very pretty it did not matter to me if she was flat chested, and had a flat bottom.
After all the most important thing is her pubic area anyway. When you really think about it any kind of woman will be attractive to any man. I often see men with the most ugliest of women. There must be something he finds especially attractive about that woman, or he would not be with her!!

**seany65** · February 1st, 2016, 04:30 PM

I've often thought about the difference between beauty and sexiness.

Some women are so beautiful I could just sit and look, others are so sexy I think I could risk squirting in my pants if I concentrate enough.

One could say their sexiness is almost 'aggressive', like mother nature has grabbed hold of my ear and is banging my head against the wall while saying "Oi, You! See Her over there? Go over there right now and produce babies with Her, they'll be strong, healthy and intelligent ones, and they'll survive!"

And there's no point Me saying "Huh, Have you seen Me, Mother nature? Those kids ain't gonna be strong, healthy and intelligent!"

I've had a look at the thumbs of the women in the 'my pictures' folder on my PC: Blonde, Brunette, Redhead, Black, White, Asian, Oriental, tall, short, small-boobed, medium boobed and big-boobed (I ain't that concerned with big boobs, They can keep their bras on to stop them flopping about and giving me a black eye), all of them at different levels of beauty and sexiness.

I don't know what the actual difference is though.

Posted by Palo5:

"Curves rather than pretty faces will always attract men

Since when wasn't that clear?"

@Palo5, speaking for myself, I'm not a 'boob-man', a 'leg-man' nor a 'bum-man', I'm a sort of 'overall-ist with favouring towards the face'. If a woman's face is 'good' to some degree, then her body can be a little under average, but if her face is, to put it politely a bit 'EEK!' then no matter how good her body is, She doesn't get on my 'to do' list.

I think this 'face favouring', was caused by Elizabeth Sladen in late '73/'74 when She was in doctor who. I don't remember seeing Her in in an outfit that really showed off her body, but I could always see her face.

**sto** · January 22nd, 2021, 12:20 PM

I think desirability has become more and more effective as I have aged. When I was younger, lets say from teenage to almost 30's, I wanted to see only extremely beautiful and about 20's aged models. But then gradually I have become more attracted to older and not so slim models. The models don't have to be beautiful, but something that reveals them to be fine with the things they are doing is really a turn-on to me. Young, beautiful, but seemingly unexperienced or showing that they are uncomfortable is just something that makes me skip.

One funny example how my taste has changed during the years: as younger, I disliked girls with eyeglasses. Now it is a huge turn-on to me. Way too rare!

View Poll Results: Beauty or Desirability ~ What attracts you the most?
Beauty	15	16.30%
Desirability	77	83.70%
Voters: 92. You may not vote on this poll

July 23rd, 2010, 01:08 PM	#42
tony_grego Vintage Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Catalonia Posts: 872 Thanks: 3,862 Thanked 8,718 Times in 846 Posts	Why you don't ask your friend Charles (i don't know if it's a VEF member and can read this) about his preference in desire over beauty? Salut ! __________________ No matter where we come from, whether north or south. A flag will unite. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

February 1st, 2016, 04:30 PM	#46
seany65 Vintage Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 3,651 Thanks: 80,415 Thanked 32,730 Times in 3,527 Posts	I've often thought about the difference between beauty and sexiness. Some women are so beautiful I could just sit and look, others are so sexy I think I could risk squirting in my pants if I concentrate enough. One could say their sexiness is almost 'aggressive', like mother nature has grabbed hold of my ear and is banging my head against the wall while saying "Oi, You! See Her over there? Go over there right now and produce babies with Her, they'll be strong, healthy and intelligent ones, and they'll survive!" And there's no point Me saying "Huh, Have you seen Me, Mother nature? Those kids ain't gonna be strong, healthy and intelligent!" I've had a look at the thumbs of the women in the 'my pictures' folder on my PC: Blonde, Brunette, Redhead, Black, White, Asian, Oriental, tall, short, small-boobed, medium boobed and big-boobed (I ain't that concerned with big boobs, They can keep their bras on to stop them flopping about and giving me a black eye), all of them at different levels of beauty and sexiness. I don't know what the actual difference is though. Posted by Palo5: "Curves rather than pretty faces will always attract men Since when wasn't that clear?" @Palo5, speaking for myself, I'm not a 'boob-man', a 'leg-man' nor a 'bum-man', I'm a sort of 'overall-ist with favouring towards the face'. If a woman's face is 'good' to some degree, then her body can be a little under average, but if her face is, to put it politely a bit 'EEK!' then no matter how good her body is, She doesn't get on my 'to do' list. I think this 'face favouring', was caused by Elizabeth Sladen in late '73/'74 when She was in doctor who. I don't remember seeing Her in in an outfit that really showed off her body, but I could always see her face. __________________ <-- That's Emer Kenny and I want to be stuck in her front bottom. Quote from electrofreak : I'd rather have questions that can't be answered, than answers that can't be questioned. Last edited by seany65; February 1st, 2016 at 04:39 PM..

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January 13th, 2016, 01:32 AM	#44
oldskoolfan Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2016 Posts: 109 Thanks: 70 Thanked 2,663 Times in 105 Posts	Very interesting question. Would take desirability hands down. Some women may be outwardly beautiful but simply not inwardly desirable for various reasons. At times those with unconventional looks have a great degree of magnetism and charisma

January 31st, 2016, 02:15 PM	#45
trailmaster Veteran Member Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Chicago, Illinois, USA Posts: 59,897 Thanks: 1,329,020 Thanked 707,208 Times in 60,071 Posts	I like desirability just like other men, but I always felt that if a woman was very pretty it did not matter to me if she was flat chested, and had a flat bottom. After all the most important thing is her pubic area anyway. When you really think about it any kind of woman will be attractive to any man. I often see men with the most ugliest of women. There must be something he finds especially attractive about that woman, or he would not be with her!!

January 22nd, 2021, 12:20 PM	#47
sto Veteran Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 17,730 Thanks: 54,671 Thanked 270,738 Times in 17,558 Posts	I think desirability has become more and more effective as I have aged. When I was younger, lets say from teenage to almost 30's, I wanted to see only extremely beautiful and about 20's aged models. But then gradually I have become more attracted to older and not so slim models. The models don't have to be beautiful, but something that reveals them to be fine with the things they are doing is really a turn-on to me. Young, beautiful, but seemingly unexperienced or showing that they are uncomfortable is just something that makes me skip. One funny example how my taste has changed during the years: as younger, I disliked girls with eyeglasses. Now it is a huge turn-on to me. Way too rare!