How do you think about homosexuality?

[lothian]

Gay sex ? what a pain in the arse that is .

[hamham67]

To all the heterosexual men in this thread calling themselves hypocrites for liking to watch lesbian porn, and not gay...don't worry that's completely normal . When I watch or look at m/f erotica, I like to imagine myself as the lucky chap having his way with the woman on the page or in the video. The reason I don't want to watch two men is because, as a male, I'd subconsciously imagine myself as one of the men...and I'd rather not have sex with another bloke. Interestingly, I've read that a lot of lesbians like watching male on male porn over girl on girl; something about how woman are usually degraded, and men aren't. Personally, I think the classic Penthouse, Mayfair, Knave etc. pictorials are more accurate compared to modern stuff as they seem to depict the women are more tender and passionate (then again, I'm not a lesbian!)

[MaxJoker]

Well I couldn't eat a hole one.

[Michi]

Originally Posted by otokonomidori

I saw my son disappearing up the stairs with a fellow female student a couple of years back - she had long hair and was quite cute. If I'd been younger I'd have fought him for her .

Anyway, next day he tells me she was a lesbian but he reckoned he'd cured her!

Your son saved her for MANkind. The best cure against lesbianism is a big cock!

But seriously: I do think that quite often girls for a certain period think that are be lesbian. They are annoyed with boys and notice that are attracted to another girl. And when do some lesbian petting they like it. At the same time they are afraid they are going to miss the ordinary life as a wife and mother.
But then some nice boy next door or an attractive married friend of daddy appears and shows them how good sex with a man is! And the healed "lesbian" lives happily ever after.

[Just Aramis]

I didn't answer the poll questions because none of them accurately describes my views.

Lesbian sex does absolutely nothing for me. Actually, it's a total turn-off. As for homosexuality itself, I think it's wrong in every possible way, but that's not for me to judge. Judgement will come later from a much higher source than me. In the mean time, I have a very simple creedo: I don't care what color your skin is, who you date, where you work, what you do with your personal life, or where you're from; if you treat me with dignity, respect, and courtesy then you'll get the same from me in return.

Treat me badly and I'll show you the true definition of the word "asshole."

Simple as that.

[Sir Honkers]

Originally Posted by Just Aramis

As for homosexuality itself, I think it's wrong in every possible way, but that's not for me to judge.

Sounds to me like you just did

Originally Posted by Just Aramis

Judgement will come later from a much higher source than me.

Assuming for the sake of argument, that your imaginary higher source exists, what if he/she/it is more loving and forgiving than you are?

Originally Posted by Just Aramis

In the mean time, I have a very simple creedo: I don't care what color your skin is, who you date, where you work, what you do with your personal life, or where you're from; if you treat me with dignity, respect, and courtesy then you'll get the same from me in return.

Unless you're a poofter. In which case it's vilification and rabid prejudice.

[Michi]

Originally Posted by Just Aramis

I didn't answer the poll questions because none of them accurately describes my views.

Lesbian sex does absolutely nothing for me. Actually, it's a total turn-off. As for homosexuality itself, I think it's wrong in every possible way, but that's not for me to judge. Judgement will come later from a much higher source than me.

Thanks for your reaction. It is up to you to decide if want to answer the poll, but doesn't the last option describe more or less your position? You don't like to see lesbian sex, you think homosexuality is completely wrong and you seem to have to have religious reasons for it.

[penfold007]

None of the poll options work for me. I think people should be treated the same irrespective of their sexual orientation.

Being male and hetrosexual, I like to look at naked ladies. I am very much less interested in looking at naked men. It is not hypocritical to avoid gay male porn if you don't find men attractive, that's absurd. Most of my "consumption" is of solo female stuff, a little f/f if the performers seem to be really into each other (this is why I like Andrea Spinks' work so much, she always gave that impression) and very little m/f as I always find that so mechanical.

Originally Posted by Greenman

That is stylised 'lesbianism' and is completely false. True lesbianism is a woman who looks more like a man, with a very short hairstyle who usually is attracted to another with either short or likely as not longer hair(because they just cannot bring themselves to cut it) In truth most lesbians aren't exactly lookers and more butch old-style 70s Russian/German hammer-thrower types and I doubt you would want to look at them doing the above.

Not sure where you get that impression. I know a very attractive lesbian, and her girlfriend (who I haven't met yet but keep seeing on my facebook feed in holiday etc pictures) is gorgeous too. Neither of them have the "I'm a lesbian" look that you describe , they just look like ordinary, attractive women.

[RowanMooreFan]

Homosexuality has existed since the beginning of times. So in that perspective it's part of nature, thus natural.

It may not be the way of procreation and may not be the norm, because there are more heterosexuals than homosexuals. That's about all you can say about it. No one has any saying in becoming a homosexual or a heterosexual.

You cannot judge people for being homosexual, much in the way you cannot blame a ball or a sphere for being round.

I have a colleague at work and all I can say about him is that he is a very kind guy, very competent and always willing to help other people out. He is also very handy, a quality that is most often associated with 'real' men. He came out of the closet for us only a few years ago when we were having one of our regular barbecues at the estate of another colleague who is a real family man. When he heard about the other man being a homosexual that tall family man cried and took the homosexual in his arms. He cried because he felt genuinely sorry for the other man having had to hide his true nature for so long. It was a most touching moment. It also showed the real good in a human, unlike hatred that only leads to suffering and even death.

Most of us men every now and then suffer from testosterone playing tricks on us.

I am glad that in the truly civilized world homosexuals can be who they are. Can you imagine what a psychological burden it must have been and what it still must be to continuously have to hide your true self? Everyone has a right to happiness, the first path that leads to it is to be able to accept yourself and be accepted by others for who you are.

In my language, next to the word homosexuality, also exists the word "homofilie", which refers to love instead of sex.

Judge people, if you have to, for what they do and not for what they are.

[RowanMooreFan]

Originally Posted by Just Aramis

As for homosexuality itself, I think it's wrong in every possible way, but that's not for me to judge. Judgement will come later from a much higher source than me.

I don't like the idea of an avenging god. Are we not all God's children, made in his image and so on?

That kind of god is not worthy of my faith (btw I don't believe in a god, I only believe in the warmth of the woman and the smile of the child, like a famous author from my country once wrote.)