Flashing

fenland · February 18th, 2013, 03:02 PM

Back in the eighties I dated a very pretty girl called Helen. She admitted to me that from the first time a man had looked down her blouse it had turned her on. Since then she purposely made it easy for strangers to glimpse down her blouse or up her skirt, or more if the situation allowed!
All of a sudden she had a boyfriend who not only liked her showing off but actively encouraged her to. Also having me around when she did removed any fear of things “getting out of hand”. I also reaped the benefits of just how unbelievably turned on she would get flashing to strangers.
Over the next few years that we dated we had some amazing fun as she got braver and more daring wanting more of a buzz each time. In my company 100s of men glimpsed more than they should of my lovely Helen, lots seeing considerably more than just a glimpse? Shops, parks, public pools, her home anywhere we could played our flashing games which would make Helen physically shake with sexual tension. If a stranger looked long enough and in the right situation it wasn’t unusual for her to cum just standing there or from simply walking!
I wondered if anyone else had come across this fetish, as it was always more than just flashing!

Susie J · February 18th, 2013, 04:15 PM

I can see this from Helen's viewpoint - it's not just men that get a kick from flashing, though they're usually the ones that do it most publicly.

Women tend to be a bit more discreet about it - but the thrill remains. Why do you think the miniskirt was so popular?

drjescocia · February 18th, 2013, 04:23 PM

Fenland, thank you for the thread. I also had such a girlfriend. She loved to be seen. She also loved us to be watched. My first year of university we fucked everywhere, often with someone watching, but never in a place so obvious that we would be "caught" or get in trouble. She was amazing! In the end she was also a bit crazy, but then again at the time, I am sure I was too.

**Historian** · February 18th, 2013, 04:28 PM

Yes, I see what Susie means- I used to have a happily married female friend and work colleague some years back who often used to wear those long-ish wrap-around skirts that only fasten at the top- and was remarkably careless with them, to the extent that getting a good flash of her legs- on at least one occasion, when she was sitting on the floor at a friend's party, right up to her knickers- was a pretty common event for her male friends

I've often wondered whether it was purely accidental, or she was doing it on purpose.
I know there was at least one flashing incident that was deliberate- the time she'd managed to flash her stockingtops when her skirt came open as she was getting out of her car in our work car park, to the great enjoyment of the builders working nearby.
I don't know whether that one was accidental or not- but her telling me about it in the staffroom afterwards- complete with an action replay, stockingtops and all- was definitely no accident!

**pharoahegypt** · February 18th, 2013, 06:40 PM

Funny how a woman flashing is considered 'hot' while a guy doing it is considered 'gross indecency' of course...... and they say their is no equality...... lol.

My ex did a little of it, but not deliberately I don't think, as she used to moan about guys staring; even though she had a gauze tube top that was so thin it couldn't hope to hide her big and more often fully erect nipples, and a leather look skirt that was more of a 'belt'.... lol.

duanedoberman · February 18th, 2013, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by fenland

Back in the eighties I dated a very pretty girl called Helen. She admitted to me that from the first time a man had looked down her blouse it had turned her on. Since then she purposely made it easy for strangers to glimpse down her blouse or up her skirt, or more if the situation allowed!
All of a sudden she had a boyfriend who not only liked her showing off but actively encouraged her to. Also having me around when she did removed any fear of things “getting out of hand”. I also reaped the benefits of just how unbelievably turned on she would get flashing to strangers.
Over the next few years that we dated we had some amazing fun as she got braver and more daring wanting more of a buzz each time. In my company 100s of men glimpsed more than they should of my lovely Helen, lots seeing considerably more than just a glimpse? Shops, parks, public pools, her home anywhere we could played our flashing games which would make Helen physically shake with sexual tension. If a stranger looked long enough and in the right situation it wasn’t unusual for her to cum just standing there or from simply walking!
I wondered if anyone else had come across this fetish, as it was always more than just flashing!

Right so enjoying seeing a woman flashing stockings or giving a glimpse of cleavage is now a 'fetish'? I hate this 'Fetishisation' of everything, especially because the use today is completely different to its original meaning.

Let me explain, the word fetish originated in the field of Psychology and was used to describe a situation when a subject could ONLY be turned on by the presence of something. To have a flashing fetish would mean that you could only get turned on by a woman flashing, conversely a woman in any other situation (ie lying on a bed in lingerie, legs spread, and saying 'give it to me big boy') would be as sexy as a cold plate of tripe to a flashing fetishist

So a man enjoying a flash of stockings or a surprise view down a woman's blouse is not a fetish, it's just bloody NORMAL.

Thank god for Sara sets out

**tamsmith** · February 18th, 2013, 11:38 PM

Flashing in Britain is a totally sexist pastime. No equality in this subject.

A male wandering in the nude and he is deemed a pervert. A woman, if she is pretty, is made for life.

Remember Erica Roe flashing at Twickenham. A lovely pair that got her arrested and then onto a lucrative "modelling" contract. Despite her running onto the pitch from a predominately children's area.

The naked rambler, of course a male, is constantly arrested and jailed. He does not want to be forced to wear clothes. Mainly walks around areas that are sparsly populated yet is regularly arrested. He has spent more years in jail than many violent criminals.

Sad thing about the naked rambler is that almost all complaints about him are from males.

**richardoe** · February 19th, 2013, 11:41 AM

The naked rambler has spent all his time in jail in SCOTLAND. I put the Scotland in capitals because people in Britain forget(or maybe dont even know) that Scotlands legal system is completely different to the rest of Britain. He has been arrested and jailed for things that arent an offence in England. From what Ive read about his incidents in England the police have told him to go away and left him alone.

fenland · February 19th, 2013, 04:05 PM

Let me explain about my use of the word fetish duanedoberman.
At first it was all accidentally on purpose. A flash of boob here a bit more leg or a bit of pantie, which was all good fun but then she! Wanted/needed more.
The first time I remember things really kicking off was her mum's insurance man. He was collecting some money after lunch one day, Helen knew him as a creepy old man who once paid too much attention to her underwear as it lay in the washing basket in the hall. I had been fucking her all morning, and yes it was me who dared her to give the old sod a frill, but it was her who got more and more carried away with the idea! I remember her growing excitement as we planned and practiced and as the time got nearer.
I was to wait on the landing at the top of the stairs from where I could view the front door and hall without being seen, not that he was ever going to look up there! She let the bell ring a couple of times, she had been in the shower, her hair was wet and she had only grabbed a small towel! So small in fact when wrapped around Helen it could cover her boobs or her bush, not both at the same time! She played her part brilliantly, dripping, while holding the towel at her chest trying to cover things as she stepped back to allow him in the door, she even apologised for keeping him waiting! His eyes and face were what delighted her, and I'm sure I don't need to describe them.
She smiled and again apologised, he calmed a bit and leered! Helen turned to get his money from the telephone table back down the hall. She was out of my view but like I said we had practised! The towel barely covered her ass so bending showed off everything, I mean glistening gash and all. There was some discussion as to if she would actually give him the complete show, his eyes mouth and face told me she had! Another thing I noticed, my lovely Helen wasn't rushing either.
She gave him the money, a bit of small talk; she let her left tit slip out, covered it again then saw his eyes move downwards. She made no attempt to cover her neatly trimmed blonde bush, a pause and she said she had better go dry her hair. Looking over his shoulder he left, Helen said she almost came running up the stairs, she certainly did, very noisily the moment I entered her. All she kept saying was how she should have showed even more and why she hadn't dropped the towel completely, and what if he had touched her?
And this was only the start!

duanedoberman · February 19th, 2013, 06:01 PM

OK Fenland I misunderstood I thought you where categorising the the receiver of the flash as having a fetish, not the flasher.

However I still think my argument stands, Helen could obviously get turned on by things other than Flashing, but the flashing really rocked her boat.

This is known as a sexual preference, not a fetish. As I think I have explained, it is only a fetish if it is the only way she could get turned on, if it took over her life and she was spending most of her time flashing to strangers. That is a fetish.

The whole 'fetishisation' of sex is really depressing, it seems that anything not done in the missionary position with the lights out is now classified as a fetish.

After all sex is supposed to be fun isn't it? It seems to have been with Helen you lucky sod!!

February 18th, 2013, 03:02 PM	#1
fenland Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 171 Thanks: 921 Thanked 4,325 Times in 163 Posts	Flashing Back in the eighties I dated a very pretty girl called Helen. She admitted to me that from the first time a man had looked down her blouse it had turned her on. Since then she purposely made it easy for strangers to glimpse down her blouse or up her skirt, or more if the situation allowed! All of a sudden she had a boyfriend who not only liked her showing off but actively encouraged her to. Also having me around when she did removed any fear of things “getting out of hand”. I also reaped the benefits of just how unbelievably turned on she would get flashing to strangers. Over the next few years that we dated we had some amazing fun as she got braver and more daring wanting more of a buzz each time. In my company 100s of men glimpsed more than they should of my lovely Helen, lots seeing considerably more than just a glimpse? Shops, parks, public pools, her home anywhere we could played our flashing games which would make Helen physically shake with sexual tension. If a stranger looked long enough and in the right situation it wasn’t unusual for her to cum just standing there or from simply walking! I wondered if anyone else had come across this fetish, as it was always more than just flashing!

February 18th, 2013, 06:40 PM	#5
pharoahegypt Vintage Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Middle England Posts: 4,491 Thanks: 10,176 Thanked 43,617 Times in 4,154 Posts	Funny how a woman flashing is considered 'hot' while a guy doing it is considered 'gross indecency' of course...... and they say their is no equality...... lol. My ex did a little of it, but not deliberately I don't think, as she used to moan about guys staring; even though she had a gauze tube top that was so thin it couldn't hope to hide her big and more often fully erect nipples, and a leather look skirt that was more of a 'belt'.... lol. __________________ Arguing with a intelligent person is hard; but arguing with a stupid person is impossible!

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February 18th, 2013, 04:15 PM	#2
Susie J Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 15 Thanks: 2 Thanked 103 Times in 14 Posts	I can see this from Helen's viewpoint - it's not just men that get a kick from flashing, though they're usually the ones that do it most publicly. Women tend to be a bit more discreet about it - but the thrill remains. Why do you think the miniskirt was so popular?

February 18th, 2013, 04:23 PM	#3
drjescocia Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 42 Thanks: 2,297 Thanked 402 Times in 36 Posts	Fenland, thank you for the thread. I also had such a girlfriend. She loved to be seen. She also loved us to be watched. My first year of university we fucked everywhere, often with someone watching, but never in a place so obvious that we would be "caught" or get in trouble. She was amazing! In the end she was also a bit crazy, but then again at the time, I am sure I was too.

February 18th, 2013, 04:28 PM	#4
Historian Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Here and there Posts: 4,029 Thanks: 102,514 Thanked 93,972 Times in 4,024 Posts	Yes, I see what Susie means- I used to have a happily married female friend and work colleague some years back who often used to wear those long-ish wrap-around skirts that only fasten at the top- and was remarkably careless with them, to the extent that getting a good flash of her legs- on at least one occasion, when she was sitting on the floor at a friend's party, right up to her knickers- was a pretty common event for her male friends I've often wondered whether it was purely accidental, or she was doing it on purpose. I know there was at least one flashing incident that was deliberate- the time she'd managed to flash her stockingtops when her skirt came open as she was getting out of her car in our work car park, to the great enjoyment of the builders working nearby. I don't know whether that one was accidental or not- but her telling me about it in the staffroom afterwards- complete with an action replay, stockingtops and all- was definitely no accident!

February 18th, 2013, 11:38 PM	#7
tamsmith Veteran Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Coming close to the Slippery Slope. Posts: 7,800 Thanks: 77,915 Thanked 280,411 Times in 9,078 Posts	Flashing in Britain is a totally sexist pastime. No equality in this subject. A male wandering in the nude and he is deemed a pervert. A woman, if she is pretty, is made for life. Remember Erica Roe flashing at Twickenham. A lovely pair that got her arrested and then onto a lucrative "modelling" contract. Despite her running onto the pitch from a predominately children's area. The naked rambler, of course a male, is constantly arrested and jailed. He does not want to be forced to wear clothes. Mainly walks around areas that are sparsly populated yet is regularly arrested. He has spent more years in jail than many violent criminals. Sad thing about the naked rambler is that almost all complaints about him are from males.

February 19th, 2013, 11:41 AM	#8
richardoe Vintage Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 2,812 Thanks: 1,424 Thanked 24,130 Times in 2,726 Posts	The naked rambler has spent all his time in jail in SCOTLAND. I put the Scotland in capitals because people in Britain forget(or maybe dont even know) that Scotlands legal system is completely different to the rest of Britain. He has been arrested and jailed for things that arent an offence in England. From what Ive read about his incidents in England the police have told him to go away and left him alone.

February 19th, 2013, 04:05 PM	#9
fenland Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 171 Thanks: 921 Thanked 4,325 Times in 163 Posts	Let me explain about my use of the word fetish duanedoberman. At first it was all accidentally on purpose. A flash of boob here a bit more leg or a bit of pantie, which was all good fun but then she! Wanted/needed more. The first time I remember things really kicking off was her mum's insurance man. He was collecting some money after lunch one day, Helen knew him as a creepy old man who once paid too much attention to her underwear as it lay in the washing basket in the hall. I had been fucking her all morning, and yes it was me who dared her to give the old sod a frill, but it was her who got more and more carried away with the idea! I remember her growing excitement as we planned and practiced and as the time got nearer. I was to wait on the landing at the top of the stairs from where I could view the front door and hall without being seen, not that he was ever going to look up there! She let the bell ring a couple of times, she had been in the shower, her hair was wet and she had only grabbed a small towel! So small in fact when wrapped around Helen it could cover her boobs or her bush, not both at the same time! She played her part brilliantly, dripping, while holding the towel at her chest trying to cover things as she stepped back to allow him in the door, she even apologised for keeping him waiting! His eyes and face were what delighted her, and I'm sure I don't need to describe them. She smiled and again apologised, he calmed a bit and leered! Helen turned to get his money from the telephone table back down the hall. She was out of my view but like I said we had practised! The towel barely covered her ass so bending showed off everything, I mean glistening gash and all. There was some discussion as to if she would actually give him the complete show, his eyes mouth and face told me she had! Another thing I noticed, my lovely Helen wasn't rushing either. She gave him the money, a bit of small talk; she let her left tit slip out, covered it again then saw his eyes move downwards. She made no attempt to cover her neatly trimmed blonde bush, a pause and she said she had better go dry her hair. Looking over his shoulder he left, Helen said she almost came running up the stairs, she certainly did, very noisily the moment I entered her. All she kept saying was how she should have showed even more and why she hadn't dropped the towel completely, and what if he had touched her? And this was only the start!

February 19th, 2013, 06:01 PM	#10
duanedoberman Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 256 Thanks: 2,245 Thanked 5,624 Times in 243 Posts	OK Fenland I misunderstood I thought you where categorising the the receiver of the flash as having a fetish, not the flasher. However I still think my argument stands, Helen could obviously get turned on by things other than Flashing, but the flashing really rocked her boat. This is known as a sexual preference, not a fetish. As I think I have explained, it is only a fetish if it is the only way she could get turned on, if it took over her life and she was spending most of her time flashing to strangers. That is a fetish. The whole 'fetishisation' of sex is really depressing, it seems that anything not done in the missionary position with the lights out is now classified as a fetish. After all sex is supposed to be fun isn't it? It seems to have been with Helen you lucky sod!!