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faniafall · November 29th, 2011, 01:12 PM

Hi, i'm in a relationship about 2 months. My girlfriend shaves her pussy and i want to tell her to have a trimmed line bush and i'm shy to ask her.. any suggestions to ask her without be rude? Thanks in advance!

**luddite** · November 29th, 2011, 01:34 PM

Offer to do it for her !

faniafall · November 29th, 2011, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by luddite

Offer to do it for her !

i cant say it so straight.. i think its not simple for me to say it.. :/
we live in a "non bush" years now and (young at least) women thinks that bush is not sexy i think..

Estreeter · November 29th, 2011, 02:03 PM

See, that's where the problem is these day's, Men are becoming too soft for fear of repercussions.

I'll answer your question, but first I'll ask one

Do you want too wear the pants in the household ?
That's a term we use in my country for who's gonna be the boss.

Be honest and straight forward, no pussyfooting around so......

Honey, ya know I really enjoy our relationship, the physical and emotional, so umm, I'm old fashioned and is there any chance next time you shave down there, just leave a bit ?

And then wait for a smack in the mouth

**begos** · November 29th, 2011, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by faniafall

Hi, i'm in a relationship about 2 months. My girlfriend shaves her pussy and i want to tell her to have a trimmed line bush and i'm shy to ask her.. any suggestions to ask her without be rude? Thanks in advance!

I assume from your question that you must be in a lesbian relationship, right?

(If you're not a female, well, then answering your question is gonna take a whole lotta time and effort because of all the preliminary issues that clearly need to be addressed first.

)

**deepsepia** · November 29th, 2011, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Estreeter

See, that's where the problem is these day's, Men are becoming too soft for fear of repercussions.

I'll answer your question, but first I'll ask one

Do you want too wear the pants in the household ?
That's a term we use in my country for who's gonna be the boss.

Be honest and straight forward, no pussyfooting around so......

Honey, ya know I really enjoy our relationship, the physical and emotional, so umm, I'm old fashioned and is there any chance next time you shave down there, just leave a bit ?

And then wait for a smack in the mouth

Someone pointed me to a very funny YouTube video, it's by some Aussie, apparently an ex-con, who walks around town telling "sooks" (spelling?) and the whinging to "harden the fuck up"

And in the more serious advice, the weird thing about men and women is that women are desperate for you to pay to attention to their details. Your gal wants you to be turned on by her. Just frame everything as an affirmative, not "I hate it when you do X" but "I love it when you do Y"

**rotobott** · November 29th, 2011, 05:15 PM

Be very careful, I asked my girlfriend to shave her c**t.

Next day I woke up completely bald

**billybunter** · November 29th, 2011, 06:33 PM

Next time you go down there just suggest it in a nice way while stroking her pussy. She will be glad you care. But if she doesn't want any lady fur that's life.

**9876543210** · November 29th, 2011, 07:02 PM

faniafall,

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Originally Posted by faniafall

Hi, i'm in a relationship about 2 months. My girlfriend shaves her pussy and i want to tell her to have a trimmed line bush and i'm shy to ask her.. any suggestions to ask her without be rude? Thanks in advance!

The one thing I've found about being in a relationship is that things go much better IF two people can be completely honest about their relationship (can be really tough to do at times but is worth it if you plan on being with this person for awhile). If you like a bit of bush, talk to her about it. Don't be shy about that. You're already in a sexual relationship so once there, anything two consenting adults do between themselves (or others) should be open for discussion. I just went through this a while back so this is how I handled it.

My gf had a completely unshaven bush (which she'd never shaved) when we first started going out. I wasn't a fan and told her (playfully) during our first sexual encounter. She hemmed and hawed a bit but fairly quickly agreed to give it a try. So I got out the razor and, during a downtime in our lovemaking, shaved her the way I like it. For the first few weeks she grumbled about the itchiness (and I usually volunteered to shave her) but now its not an issue. She's used to it and, from what I can tell, likes it.

If I were you I'd get her in the sack and start going down on her. Complimenting her the whole time and bringing her to the edge. Playing, playing, playing! Then I'd look up at her and ask her, "Honey, would you mind a suggestion?....." My guess is that she wouldn't mind a bit and would really like the discussion.

And make sure that you offer to help with the trim. That can be very erotic and lead to all kinds of enjoyable adventures.

Hope that helps.

**spitalhouse** · November 29th, 2011, 11:21 PM

Ask her why she shaves her bush. The reason could be that she thinks that's the way most men like it. If that's the case simply make her aware of the fact that you prefer the more natural look.

Regards.

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spitalhouse Vintage Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Past caring Posts: 768 Thanks: 2,080 Thanked 12,557 Times in 747 Posts	Ask her why she shaves her bush. The reason could be that she thinks that's the way most men like it. If that's the case simply make her aware of the fact that you prefer the more natural look. Regards. __________________ Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour and it seems like a minute. That's relativity. (Einstein)

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