How does a woman prefer... - Page 2

**PJayBr** · March 5th, 2014, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Claire H

If you want a woman's honest answer, here it is. Getting IT in the face is degrading, plain and simple. As said earlier, the facial is a porn invention, strictly fantasy. Maybe I'm showing my age, or in the minority but I don't think so. Watching a cumshot over a nice pair on video is certainly hot, but in real life not practical, unless you can jump in a shower immediately afterward. I'm as kinky as the next gal, even letting some of my past boyfriends(after serious begging) tit fuck me, but it does nothing for me. I'll go a step further and reverse the question, do you guys WANT to finish that way?? Using you hands etc!?? To me not using the natural orifices we are blessed with seems to be a waste, let alone killing any intimacy. C'mon girls help me out here, I can't be alone on this, right

Both the missus and myself hate seeing facials, it is the most disgusting thing to see (to us).

As for the breats, belly, etc, over the years I have quite a few health issues which prevented us from going "all the way" so mutula masturbation became the norm. The missus loves cuddling me whilst I wank, and then having me cum on her boobs (mostly) or other body parts. She always says that's why the skin there is so soft. Also, cumming on her pussy gives her a great natural lube for her toys!!

PJayBr

Claire H · March 5th, 2014, 11:54 AM

My sincerest apologies to you & your wife KS. I did not mean to be insulting nor offensive. A forum such as this is bound to wrinkle a few feathers, no? Yes, my honesty being questioned did upset me, you didn't do that though. I am new to all this, yes I said too much and should have used more discretion. Please please forgive me. My views on the topic still stand however and would like to hear other women respond. Again, please accept my apology.

swede1984 · March 14th, 2014, 05:44 AM

My wife has (like many young women) had selfesteem-issues during her teens. She glamma that the best feeling she can get to counteract that emotion, is the litteral appreciation that a mans sperm on her clothes and body is. She doesnt at all think it's degrading.

She told me a few weeks ago, that she had tried internetporn when i werent home. She werent too impressed by what she saw - except for a clip where a young woman got "spermshowered" by 3 older men, she reached climax imediately then!
She was afraid i'd be jellous, but i liked her initiative! The world (and my Wife) deserves sexual liberation - not prejudice!

Excuse My english flaws

Nick O'Teen · April 8th, 2014, 08:25 AM

I have only met one woman who one time voluntarily took my load deep in her mouth. Mostly, they have blown me but contrive to make at least my first two three heavy spurts of semen shoot on their cheeks or chins, taking only the latter droplets into their mouths. One of my Ex’s used to jerk me off over her tits and then rub it all over her tits – I used to love the look of that. My current squeeze likes to perform a hand job on me and loves to see it shoot out always makes her smile when she succeeds in making me ejaculate.

andycom-66 · April 9th, 2014, 08:41 AM

As I suspect that women are in a significant minority as members here, I've shown this thread to my wife, and she typed the following response:

"I'm afraid that I can't support ClaireH here, and I think the mistake that she has made is saying that a facial is "degrading, plain and simple" - it isn't, or need not be.

Do I like my husband to cum inside me? Yes I do, I love it, but if he doesn't, I don't see it as a waste or killing the intimacy at all. I love watching him cum all over me, and he doesn't have to do any "serious begging" if he wants to fuck my tits, or cum over them, or cum over my face for that matter - I don't find it degrading at all, because I know he loves me and I love him.

Having read the other posts on this thread as well, my experience is much closer to that expressed by Knuckle Shuffler. My hubby and I have also been together for 30-odd years since we were 18 years old and I would agree with everything that KS said - including the advice about having a towel to hand!

So there you go - we're all different, and we like different things. It sounds like ClaireH would find it degrading to have a man cum in her face - I don't, so there we are - we're all different."

**old alal** · April 9th, 2014, 03:46 PM

I like this reply from andycom-66's wife, as I do Claire H. My reply before says both things. If Claire H finds a facial degrading, that is her prerogative. She and her partner (s) will find other ways to satisfy each other, but Mrs. Alal says (having also read this thread, "Leave Clair H alone, but I also agree with andycom-66's wife. In a loveing relationship like ours, the love bit is the most important, then lust, and lust can lead to all kinds of things, and when Mr. Alal is lusty he can come anywhere he likes"

I'm not sure I can, but nearly anywhere is ok by me !

**old alal** · April 10th, 2014, 10:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Claire H

I'll swallow with the best, but I shouldn't have to throw towels or plastic covers over my bed when I have sex. Still would like to hear from some other women on this. Thanks. Peace

Off topic I know sorry, but

Just a thought on plastic covers on the bed. Have you ever tried a Nuru massage? you will need the plastic covers, but believe me it is absolutely worth it, although the last time we did, it was in a massive bathroom in an hotel, better to let someone else clean up!

Back on topic, an ex once asked me to cum on her chest, but then lick up the cum and pass it to her, "snowballing" This was a first, but it made me think, do any women think (or say) "if you want me to eat that stuff, then you do first", and would any men object! Just a thought.

80's Fan · April 12th, 2014, 07:20 AM

I guess Claire is right in more ways than one. Girls who do allow it - most probably do so because they care deeply for their partner and want to please them.

Claire - please bear with me when I also say that there could be a minority who actually like it and are indeed turned on by it. However, I do believe you speak for the majority.

Stay cool

**old alal** · September 25th, 2014, 11:10 AM

How has this thread died? Is it because there are too few Lady members here, and of those even fewer wish to comment!

I have had a number of relationships over the years and have understood AND accepted all of my partners views on the subject, but that doesn't stop me wanting to hear more views.

Also what happened to our transgender friend tightstourettes. An answer here would cover all camps I guess.

Finally if no one (particularly the Girls) want to have these type of online discussions, does any member know where I can find such elsewhere?
Thanks

Norvik_1602 · September 28th, 2014, 01:29 AM

I think if you post on a discussion board, Claire H, you should be prepared to read views contrary to your own.

Your view is that of A woman, not of women in general.

Whether "most" women agree with you is unknown, in the absence of scientifically verifiable statistical research.

As for the "Sigh" remark, the op wanted the views of women.

Male posters relaying their wives & gfs views are supplying just that - the views of women.

Had they happened to agree with your "it's degrading" viewpoint, I doubt you would have "sighed".

April 8th, 2014, 08:25 AM	#14
Nick O'Teen Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 245 Thanks: 1,719 Thanked 3,668 Times in 232 Posts	My Experience I have only met one woman who one time voluntarily took my load deep in her mouth. Mostly, they have blown me but contrive to make at least my first two three heavy spurts of semen shoot on their cheeks or chins, taking only the latter droplets into their mouths. One of my Ex’s used to jerk me off over her tits and then rub it all over her tits – I used to love the look of that. My current squeeze likes to perform a hand job on me and loves to see it shoot out always makes her smile when she succeeds in making me ejaculate.

April 9th, 2014, 03:46 PM	#16
old alal Veteran Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 3,197 Thanks: 22,904 Thanked 35,082 Times in 3,165 Posts	I like this reply from andycom-66's wife, as I do Claire H. My reply before says both things. If Claire H finds a facial degrading, that is her prerogative. She and her partner (s) will find other ways to satisfy each other, but Mrs. Alal says (having also read this thread, "Leave Clair H alone, but I also agree with andycom-66's wife. In a loveing relationship like ours, the love bit is the most important, then lust, and lust can lead to all kinds of things, and when Mr. Alal is lusty he can come anywhere he likes" I'm not sure I can, but nearly anywhere is ok by me ! __________________ Old alal's First Rule Of Breasts To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. When you've seen one pair of breasts.........you want to see every pair of breasts!

April 12th, 2014, 07:20 AM	#18
80's Fan Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 3 Thanks: 17 Thanked 12 Times in 2 Posts	Reply to Claire I guess Claire is right in more ways than one. Girls who do allow it - most probably do so because they care deeply for their partner and want to please them. Claire - please bear with me when I also say that there could be a minority who actually like it and are indeed turned on by it. However, I do believe you speak for the majority. Stay cool

September 25th, 2014, 11:10 AM	#19
old alal Veteran Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 3,197 Thanks: 22,904 Thanked 35,082 Times in 3,165 Posts	More Ladies please How has this thread died? Is it because there are too few Lady members here, and of those even fewer wish to comment! I have had a number of relationships over the years and have understood AND accepted all of my partners views on the subject, but that doesn't stop me wanting to hear more views. Also what happened to our transgender friend tightstourettes. An answer here would cover all camps I guess. Finally if no one (particularly the Girls) want to have these type of online discussions, does any member know where I can find such elsewhere? Thanks __________________ Old alal's First Rule Of Breasts To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. When you've seen one pair of breasts.........you want to see every pair of breasts!

March 5th, 2014, 11:54 AM	#12
Claire H Member Join Date: Dec 2013 Posts: 16 Thanks: 12 Thanked 93 Times in 12 Posts	My sincerest apologies to you & your wife KS. I did not mean to be insulting nor offensive. A forum such as this is bound to wrinkle a few feathers, no? Yes, my honesty being questioned did upset me, you didn't do that though. I am new to all this, yes I said too much and should have used more discretion. Please please forgive me. My views on the topic still stand however and would like to hear other women respond. Again, please accept my apology.

March 14th, 2014, 05:44 AM	#13
swede1984 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Sweden Posts: 9 Thanks: 136 Thanked 126 Times in 8 Posts	My wife has (like many young women) had selfesteem-issues during her teens. She glamma that the best feeling she can get to counteract that emotion, is the litteral appreciation that a mans sperm on her clothes and body is. She doesnt at all think it's degrading. She told me a few weeks ago, that she had tried internetporn when i werent home. She werent too impressed by what she saw - except for a clip where a young woman got "spermshowered" by 3 older men, she reached climax imediately then! She was afraid i'd be jellous, but i liked her initiative! The world (and my Wife) deserves sexual liberation - not prejudice! Excuse My english flaws

April 9th, 2014, 08:41 AM	#15
andycom-66 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 224 Thanks: 8,867 Thanked 7,672 Times in 330 Posts	As I suspect that women are in a significant minority as members here, I've shown this thread to my wife, and she typed the following response: "I'm afraid that I can't support ClaireH here, and I think the mistake that she has made is saying that a facial is "degrading, plain and simple" - it isn't, or need not be. Do I like my husband to cum inside me? Yes I do, I love it, but if he doesn't, I don't see it as a waste or killing the intimacy at all. I love watching him cum all over me, and he doesn't have to do any "serious begging" if he wants to fuck my tits, or cum over them, or cum over my face for that matter - I don't find it degrading at all, because I know he loves me and I love him. Having read the other posts on this thread as well, my experience is much closer to that expressed by Knuckle Shuffler. My hubby and I have also been together for 30-odd years since we were 18 years old and I would agree with everything that KS said - including the advice about having a towel to hand! So there you go - we're all different, and we like different things. It sounds like ClaireH would find it degrading to have a man cum in her face - I don't, so there we are - we're all different."

September 28th, 2014, 01:29 AM	#20
Norvik_1602 Blocked! Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,020 Thanks: 2,976 Thanked 10,851 Times in 931 Posts	I think if you post on a discussion board, Claire H, you should be prepared to read views contrary to your own. Your view is that of A woman, not of women in general. Whether "most" women agree with you is unknown, in the absence of scientifically verifiable statistical research. As for the "Sigh" remark, the op wanted the views of women. Male posters relaying their wives & gfs views are supplying just that - the views of women. Had they happened to agree with your "it's degrading" viewpoint, I doubt you would have "sighed".