Did your mum find your porn mags?

[johnchirac]

yeah ,me too ,my mum found some soft stuff in a back-pack when
I was 13, I used to cover the mags between school books,she found later
some hard porn stuff when I was 19 years old and was telling me how bad
it was to have these books...My god! I was so shocked to know that she could invade my privacy !!!
I was feeling so ashamed as if I absolutely did not wanted her to know
that ,let alone to speak about that !!! It was like a trauma for me by knowing that suddenly I was not the well mannered/educated boy she thought I was.
I think as parents ,it's good to be open about sex stuff but as educators
they need to protect their intimacy as much as they need to respect their
children sexual intimacy as well.
it's only my point of view