Masturbation Techniques, Tips and Aids

[Grendel22]

Originally Posted by Schwenck

Wow!!
I am glad to hear you can do this successfully, but I find that so strange.
Does that mean you generally lie on your right side?

I wish I had your skill with your left hand. Although, given my inability, I was very lucky that when I had a motorcycle crash, I broke all the bones in my left hand, and not my right. I have managed to turn over pages with my left hand, so it is not entirely useless.

Sorry to hear about your hand.

I reckon I'd be able to use my right effectively with practice, it's just my left's had decades of experience

These days I'm usually either sitting or lying down - magazines are mostly a thing of the past.

[Schwenck]

Originally Posted by MC Escort luv

I just have a Fleshlight, which is wonderful.
Only use it occasionally though, when I know I won't be disturbed for 3-4 hours....need to get naked and fully lubed to enjoy it properly

Thanks for the feedback on your Fleshlight - any particular model?
I'll do an update on my experiences shortly.

BUT... MC Escort has brought up a very important issue: TIME. A really good wanking session takes time: setting up; enjoying a fantastic wank with lots of edging, ups and owns and then a fantastic climax; getting over it for a while; cleaning up and putting everything away again.

Now those readers who are single will not see any problem here, and fair enough. Those of us who have partners or wives, but still just love to masturbate need to fit it in while or partners are not around, so 3-4 hours undisturbed wanking can only happen when she is out.

My tip: set up a joint calendar (via Google or some other), so you know when your significant other is going to be out for a long while and you can set up a really good wank session.

Confession: I normally wank when my wife is out of the house. But she came back unexpectedly once, and found me, mid wank, in some purple ladies underwear. She was very cool: she criticized the poor fit of the underwear, and said I'm going to read a book upstairs until you have finished. But I think I deserve credit for the way that I managed to continue, with wife upstairs, to have a very nice wank. 'Did you enjoy that?', she said after. 'Yes, I did', was my reply. She doesn't understand my fetish for ladies underwear, but she is very good about it.

[Schwenck]

Originally Posted by Grendel22

Sorry to hear about your hand.

I reckon I'd be able to use my right effectively with practice, it's just my left's had decades of experience

These days I'm usually either sitting or lying down - magazines are mostly a thing of the past.

Yes, I know what you mean, I do masturbate a lot these days sitting in chair in front of my computer. But now and then, I like to dig out a real magazine, lube up my cock and wank slowly to that. Swish! is my biggest turn on, but I also wank to magazines like Rustler, Rapier & Playdames. I never really got into the Lovebirds/Playbirds type mags. I also have a lot of early Penthouses, but at the moment. they are in the loft as I have nowhere to put them. I'd be very happy to have them on a book shelf somewhere, only two problems: my wife isn't happy to have them on display and I don't actually have any spare bookshelf space. More bookshelf space is a major contention in our house, despite already having thousands of feet. My wife will not let me put bookshelves everywhere!!

[IrishJamesy]

Originally Posted by Schwenck

Thanks for the feedback on your Fleshlight - any particular model?
I'll do an update on my experiences shortly.

BUT... MC Escort has brought up a very important issue: TIME. A really good wanking session takes time: setting up; enjoying a fantastic wank with lots of edging, ups and owns and then a fantastic climax; getting over it for a while; cleaning up and putting everything away again.

Now those readers who are single will not see any problem here, and fair enough. Those of us who have partners or wives, but still just love to masturbate need to fit it in while or partners are not around, so 3-4 hours undisturbed wanking can only happen when she is out.

My tip: set up a joint calendar (via Google or some other), so you know when your significant other is going to be out for a long while and you can set up a really good wank session.

Confession: I normally wank when my wife is out of the house. But she came back unexpectedly once, and found me, mid wank, in some purple ladies underwear. She was very cool: she criticized the poor fit of the underwear, and said I'm going to read a book upstairs until you have finished. But I think I deserve credit for the way that I managed to continue, with wife upstairs, to have a very nice wank. 'Did you enjoy that?', she said after. 'Yes, I did', was my reply. She doesn't understand my fetish for ladies underwear, but she is very good about it.

Hold on to that woman!!!! She deserves a gold medal for that.

[Grendel22]

Originally Posted by Schwenck

Yes, I know what you mean, I do masturbate a lot these days sitting in chair in front of my computer. But now and then, I like to dig out a real magazine, lube up my cock and wank slowly to that. Swish! is my biggest turn on, but I also wank to magazines like Rustler, Rapier & Playdames. I never really got into the Lovebirds/Playbirds type mags. I also have a lot of early Penthouses, but at the moment. they are in the loft as I have nowhere to put them. I'd be very happy to have them on a book shelf somewhere, only two problems: my wife isn't happy to have them on display and I don't actually have any spare bookshelf space. More bookshelf space is a major contention in our house, despite already having thousands of feet. My wife will not let me put bookshelves everywhere!!

My favourite mag from back in the day was probably Mayfair, I also enjoyed Playdames and Romp (neither of which published many issues, as far as I can recall).

As for American mags, I used to buy Genesis and Leg Show (although their fem-dom fiction isn't my thing), as well as the occasional Playboy/Book of Lingerie.

[tobenida]

Can see your point regarding time and I reckon it's one the most important aspects, long gone is the time when it was a quick shufty over in 2 minutes, now it's nice to build it up to over an hour, luckily my g/f writes when she's at work on the calendar so can plan well in advance lol.
I've been in the last year or 2 altered the way I wank, I've got a fairly long foreskin - long enough to cover the head completely and to start off with I pull it all the way back past the head and then stroke without letting it pass back over the head so the stroking is quite limited, doing this to me seems to make the glans even more pronounced, bigger and more sensitive, plus it looks good too once I'm horny enough and some pre-cum starts to appear then I start to stroke so the foreskin goes over the head because now I'm very slippery so in effect longer strokes but still slow, with this I can carry on and on, sometimes using left hand, sometimes right, it's never really bothered me which hand, lucky I guess lol.
I do have a magic wand sort of thing which we both use and can quite easily orgasm with just the wand and no stroking which then lets me cum pretty quickly again afterwards if I use my hand. It is good, paid more as previous one just broke, crappy thing lol but to be honest most of the time I just use my hand, though to be fair with the wand I cum explosively and can often hit myself in my face when I cum but the build up isn't as nice, "there's nowt so queer as folk" as the saying goes eh lol




Have got a water based lube but this and like all the others I've used I've found to be not much use, in some cases even worse then with no lube, not sure why, maybe lack of feeling but if I've needed lube then I've either used dribble or as described earlier wait for precum to appear which fortunately I seem to have plenty of, sometimes so much so I can then use my fingers over the glans which does get me going pretty well and it's an effort not to blow up pretty quick using this lol

[Schwenck]

There are lot's of male masturbation toys on the market these days. They have always existed - I remember one called 'Real Feel' being advertised for an enormous price, back in the 1980's in many men's magazines - but there seem to be a lot more these days, at a wide range of prices.

These are the three I have tried.

1) Fleshlight: MC Escort, in a post above, says how much he loves his Fleshlight, but my own experiences are less enthralling. This may be partly due to me being frugal and buying one of the cheaper versions, disguised as a beer can. My first problem was that I found it very difficult to actually get my cock into it, despite plenty of lube on cock and entry hole. I don't have a long cock, but it is reasonably stout and my head is fairly bulbous. It took a lot of very unexciting maneuvering to get my cock into it all. The second problem was the beer can. It's a large can, a bit too large for one hand to grab it comfortably (I have very small hands), and as my hands are by now also covered with lube, it has become so slippery that it is difficult to build up a rhythm. I can always come using the Fleshlight, but the fuss puts me off using it.

2) Vulcan Love Skin Masturbator Wet Vagina: A treat for myself for Christmas. As with Fleshlights, there are loads of models, hence I have given it's full description. A big plus versus Fleshlights is they are much cheaper, mine cost £12. Only managed to find time to use it once so far. Again, I found it very difficult to actually insert my cock into it, but once in, it felt ok. Easy to hold, as there are ribs running round the centre which give a good grip. It is also smaller than a Fleshlight. Feel on my cock head was OK, perhaps not as good as a Fleshlight. It comes with a vibrator, but that didn't add much to the experience (another topic to be explored). I shall need to give it more goes, but initial trial wasn't as good as I had hoped. I found a review of a similar toy on YouTube, which suggested it worked better if you used the sleeve without the can container, which sounds worth trying both for this, and the Fleshlight.

3) Cheap Male Stroker: I bought this on a whim from LoveHoney, as I was buying some other things and it was only £3. It is a clear, fairly soft, flexible plastic sleeve, with different nodule patterns both inside and out. It is easy to turn inside out, to use the outside pattern. It has a wide entrance, so no problems getting my cock in it, and both nodule patterns give a fantastic feel on my cock head. Clearly the most successful toy I have bought, it is looking a bit battered now, as I have used it so much. I always come beautifully with this toy. I have had a quick look on LoveHoney and they have several similar items, such as: Lovehoney Reversible XL Double Stroker Pleasure Waves, now reduced to £6.

As MC Escort rightly pointed out, these toys aren't really for a quick wank; you need time to get set up, you are probably going to want an extended wank session and then you have to clean them before storing them away again. I think you need to experiment a bit to find one that works really well for you and that is worth doing, as you do get a different experience than with your hand.

Anyone tried a Tenga Egg? I have been tempted, but they seem a bit pricey for a one-use toy. (Although, I have read that, with care, you can get multiple uses).

Anyone have any other male toys to recommend?

[Schwenck]

I was interested by Tobenida's post above where, in his really good detailed post on his masturbation technique, he uses a vibrator to great effect.

In my last post, I said my latest toy came with a small vibrator, but it didn't seem to add anything to the experience for me.

In the past, I have tried using vibrators on my cock many times (my wife has a few stashed away), but while they can get me excited, I don't think I have ever been able to come using one. I have tried Rabbits, standard white penile ones, little bullets and so forth, but to no great result.

Has anyone else, as well as Tobenida, successfully incorporated using vibrators in their masturbation methods?

[Schwenck]

Originally Posted by IrishJamesy

Hold on to that woman!!!! She deserves a gold medal for that.

Don't worry, I certainly intend too!
She has many other lovely features as well.

[Grendel22]

Originally Posted by Schwenck

I was interested by Tobenida's post above where, in his really good detailed post on his masturbation technique, he uses a vibrator to great effect.

In my last post, I said my latest toy came with a small vibrator, but it didn't seem to add anything to the experience for me.

In the past, I have tried using vibrators on my cock many times (my wife has a few stashed away), but while they can get me excited, I don't think I have ever been able to come using one. I have tried Rabbits, standard white penile ones, little bullets and so forth, but to no great result.

Has anyone else, as well as Tobenida, successfully incorporated using vibrators in their masturbation methods?

I've had a vibrator used on me a couple of times, but I found it brought on orgasm far too quickly. No nice, gradual build-up just a very sudden and violent effect that left me feeling unfulfilled despite the release.