Swapping same sex vids

**muggly** · June 21st, 2019, 07:41 AM

I am not gay as most of my posts will support that I am definitely turned on by a pretty woman, stocking legs, large boobs and lesbian sex , but more recently I have communicated with another male, initially talking about sex interests and fantasies but we have swapped photos and vids of masturbating and I admit it turns me on watching another guy wank and showing myself doing the same. I believe that as we get older our sexual interests become more diverse and certainly what used to be hard-line heterosexual tendencies have mellowed and merged with a liking to homosexual traits and especially curiosity with Trans females. I wonder if it is just me or is anyone else going through a phase where as they have got older their sexual tastes have shifted to more opposite poles.
Is it common??

tobenida · June 21st, 2019, 08:53 AM

I think as you get older you get more comfortable with your sexuality so therefore more open to other avenues so to speak, I've noticed the same as you - to the point I could've written the same as you!
I find it amusing when winding up younger work colleagues etc about this and watching their reaction as if it's the worst thing in the world lol

**muggly** · June 21st, 2019, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by tobenida

I find it amusing when winding up younger work colleagues etc about this and watching their reaction as if it's the worst thing in the world lol

Thanks for the support. I wish I was at your place of work listening to you winding up the younger blokes. It would have creased me up laughing. I agree that when I was a teen I was absolutely scared stiff if anyone made conversation about gay attractions but in the eighties I started to accept casual remarks and even a couple of advances from gay fellas I came into contact with, as part of life. I have no issues at all now and as you say my stance has softened.

Danbobandbob · June 25th, 2019, 11:02 PM

Thanks Muggly, totally agree. I had a few mutual wank sessions with mates when I was late teens then a couple of experiences when working overseas but then marriage and kids so never thought about it again, until I discovered VEF. Liaising with other guys and discussing porn has lit the fire. Not attracted to men but love receiving photos of their cocks and discussing wanking. I don’t see it as an issue, loving every minute!

**abristle** · June 28th, 2019, 12:13 AM

Not gay either but really enjoy watching another guy with a woman. Also enjoy it when me and other guys find the same women a turn on. Certainly as a teen with a friend back in the 80s we would sometimes pass round really horny amateur videos and when we had em sometimes sit there quietly jerking. It’s getting me hard just thinking about it! http://vintage-erotica-forum.com/sho...&postcount=952

tobenida · July 21st, 2019, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by muggly

Thanks for the support. I wish I was at your place of work listening to you winding up the younger blokes. It would have creased me up laughing. I agree that when I was a teen I was absolutely scared stiff if anyone made conversation about gay attractions but in the eighties I started to accept casual remarks and even a couple of advances from gay fellas I came into contact with, as part of life. I have no issues at all now and as you say my stance has softened.

Haha, it was funny, one would get so wound up when I'd say "stick with men mate, you'll be a lot happier"... Got to admit he's now softened up too and maybe, just maybe he took all the ribbing onboard and as a result his mindset is better too.
I've had propositions off a gay work colleague (typical when had none off women colleagues

) and I'd play him along and even flirt with him, he's left now but I'm still in contact and he's happily in a relationship with another guy but he still flirts lol

randomname · July 21st, 2019, 02:03 PM

I think the internet has probably played a big part. When I was younger any porn videos doing the rounds amongst friends was always hetero. When I got the internet and started seeing trans porn it was an easy jump from there to bi and gay porn.

**denton7** · July 21st, 2019, 04:12 PM

Lol we have all got either open minded , or jaded, ty internet

scottx · July 25th, 2019, 06:22 PM

It's a human sexuality. I love women, But have jacked with other guys as long as it feels good and you aren't hurting any one.... go for it!

edbu72 · July 25th, 2019, 07:19 PM

The more the merrier!
Guys know other guys minds fairly well, so if you can accept that, then an awful lot more possibilities open up ��

June 21st, 2019, 07:41 AM	#1
muggly Vintage Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: England Posts: 707 Thanks: 2,443 Thanked 6,631 Times in 683 Posts	Swapping same sex vids I am not gay as most of my posts will support that I am definitely turned on by a pretty woman, stocking legs, large boobs and lesbian sex , but more recently I have communicated with another male, initially talking about sex interests and fantasies but we have swapped photos and vids of masturbating and I admit it turns me on watching another guy wank and showing myself doing the same. I believe that as we get older our sexual interests become more diverse and certainly what used to be hard-line heterosexual tendencies have mellowed and merged with a liking to homosexual traits and especially curiosity with Trans females. I wonder if it is just me or is anyone else going through a phase where as they have got older their sexual tastes have shifted to more opposite poles. Is it common??

June 28th, 2019, 12:13 AM	#5
abristle Vintage Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: UK Posts: 1,324 Thanks: 6,491 Thanked 19,642 Times in 1,372 Posts	Not gay either but really enjoy watching another guy with a woman. Also enjoy it when me and other guys find the same women a turn on. Certainly as a teen with a friend back in the 80s we would sometimes pass round really horny amateur videos and when we had em sometimes sit there quietly jerking. It’s getting me hard just thinking about it! http://vintage-erotica-forum.com/sho...&postcount=952 Last edited by abristle; June 28th, 2019 at 12:32 AM..

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edbu72 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2016 Location: North America ( but originally England) Posts: 235 Thanks: 10,452 Thanked 2,227 Times in 208 Posts	The more the merrier! Guys know other guys minds fairly well, so if you can accept that, then an awful lot more possibilities open up �� __________________ Fellow V.E.F. Members,... DO consider joining Wank Club on here! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

June 21st, 2019, 08:53 AM	#2
tobenida Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: Eastern England Posts: 89 Thanks: 2,263 Thanked 951 Times in 87 Posts	I think as you get older you get more comfortable with your sexuality so therefore more open to other avenues so to speak, I've noticed the same as you - to the point I could've written the same as you! I find it amusing when winding up younger work colleagues etc about this and watching their reaction as if it's the worst thing in the world lol

June 25th, 2019, 11:02 PM	#4
Danbobandbob Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2019 Location: SE UK Posts: 116 Thanks: 5,036 Thanked 930 Times in 105 Posts	Thanks Muggly, totally agree. I had a few mutual wank sessions with mates when I was late teens then a couple of experiences when working overseas but then marriage and kids so never thought about it again, until I discovered VEF. Liaising with other guys and discussing porn has lit the fire. Not attracted to men but love receiving photos of their cocks and discussing wanking. I don’t see it as an issue, loving every minute!

July 21st, 2019, 02:03 PM	#7
randomname Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 192 Thanks: 205,309 Thanked 3,063 Times in 193 Posts	I think the internet has probably played a big part. When I was younger any porn videos doing the rounds amongst friends was always hetero. When I got the internet and started seeing trans porn it was an easy jump from there to bi and gay porn.

July 21st, 2019, 04:12 PM	#8
denton7 Vintage Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 2,910 Thanks: 98,292 Thanked 35,617 Times in 2,842 Posts	Lol we have all got either open minded , or jaded, ty internet

July 25th, 2019, 06:22 PM	#9
scottx Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: New Jersey USA... gotta a problem wit dat? Posts: 173 Thanks: 710 Thanked 1,881 Times in 166 Posts	It's a human sexuality. I love women, But have jacked with other guys as long as it feels good and you aren't hurting any one.... go for it!