Ever Pay For Sex?

benny hill · December 31st, 2007, 08:31 PM

I have never paid for sex but I am seriously considering it. I haven't had sex in years. I had a great girlfriend and making love to her was wonderful. There's nothing like being intimate with a woman you love. But I've been single for a very long time. I live in a very rural area and there isn't too many people around. Masturbating is okay but it doesn get tiresome and boring after a while.

Where I live there are legal brothels around. I would never under any circumstances pick a woman up off the street or use an escort service. I don't want an STD or be arrested or give money to some druggie who's being pimped.

There are some concerns I have with the brothels. They are kind of a scam. The women are independant contractors and they can charge what ever they want. There are no guidelines. I've heard they can be very expensive. The brothels are way out of the way and if you are driven there the price goes way up. The ladies have to give a bigger percentage to the house on what they negociate. There is no guarantee you'll enjoy the session. The advantage is they are legal and the ladies are given health check ups.

Another concern I have is around here everybody knows everybody else's business. It is possible that someone around here could find out and that could hurt my family. I would never do anything that would effect badly on my family.

I have friends I've talked to about this and they understand and they don't see how I've gone without it for so many years. Some men I've talked to have told me that did go to a prostitute and it wasn't worth it. I don't want to do something I will regret. I know it isn't going to be like it is with your have a girlfriend.

I've been single for a long time and have ben considering going to a brothel. I wonder if anyone here has ever paid for sex and if they felt it was worth it or not.

Thank you for your interest.

cmdavidm · January 4th, 2008, 12:32 PM

Hi, I wouldn't pick anyone up off the street or visit a brothel. I has seen a few independant escorts all bar one being useless. If you do decide to visit an escort make sure you do your homework, what you want against what she is prepared to offer.

**wdwyman** · January 4th, 2008, 02:05 PM

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

**pharoahegypt** · January 4th, 2008, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by wdwyman

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

mccartney may have paid a high price but at least he didnt lose a leg..unlike that golddigger he married...LOL.sick but still funny after way shes treated him in the press.

broxyman · January 4th, 2008, 04:00 PM

Not so far, because I've always been with a partner, but the thought of having sex with a prostitute does have a certain appeal, and I'm curious to know what it would be like.

I agree about Amsterdam. A great place to start, with all the girls on display and a reasonably good chance of avoiding catching something unpleasant. 20 years ago the girls were mainly Dutch, and a lot of them were very pretty. After that there were far fewer Dutch girls, and some of the girls were pretty hideous looking. I gather there are a lot of Eastern European girls now, and that a lot of them are really lovely.

So go to Amsterdam. It's a great city, easy to get to, and you'll get a great choice of girls.

benny hill · January 6th, 2008, 03:17 AM

Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago.

Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live.

A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to.

I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

shanafona · January 6th, 2008, 03:32 AM

I've done it. Not proud of it. But than I haven't found many girl friends who are willing to wear stockings - let alone seams. I have a regular contact who I see once a month. she wears and does what I like - enough said.

Ideally I would like a girl friend who could handle my tastes (seamed stockings) but no chance and at age 44 I'm not going to change.

Best regards

Shanafona

**pharoahegypt** · January 6th, 2008, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by alty2003

if in doubt, go to amsterdam. don't do what i did though and start off with a 3-some. all seemed a bit of a disappointment after that...

had two threesomes in my time. one with a married couple, and one with a girlfriend and another guy. both were a sad let down im afraid. shows that so often fantasy is far more exciting than reality. as for paying for sex, it relies a lot on the girl you 'hire' as to what you'll get and how much you'll enjoy it. dont pick a real classy baywatch type who knows she'll get money no matter what, she wont put out for you. choose the more girl next door type or even worse, she knows she has to be good to get business and will be more willing to both please you and do more for your money. this is my experience anyway. ive shagged model types and had a shitty time, and ive done it with older women who've been brilliant. i'd always go for the latter if i was going to pay again. hope this helps.

Tom_Kittens · January 6th, 2008, 11:35 PM

Pharoah's post about sleeping with models reminds me of an Anthony Burgess's quote - "Sleeping with a model is rather like sleeping with a bicycle seat." (I'll have to take his word for it.)

The whole idea of paying someone for sex is extremely unsexy to me. That they're only doing it for money, with all the delight of a plumber unblocking a public toilet, is turn-off enough. The possibility that they might be victims of human trafficking is the ultimate deal-breaker. I think it is up to all men (and women, indeed) to consider whether they want to play a part in the modern day slave trade.

Sorry to sound high-horse-ish. I can imagine nothing better than a roll-around with three Scandinavian nyphomaniac ice-hockey players... I could I suppose move to Scandinavia to improve the odds of this happening, but I'm not holding my breath...

**pharoahegypt** · January 7th, 2008, 03:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tom_Kittens

Pharoah's post about sleeping with models reminds me of an Anthony Burgess's quote - "Sleeping with a model is rather like sleeping with a bicycle seat." (I'll have to take his word for it.)

The whole idea of paying someone for sex is extremely unsexy to me. That they're only doing it for money, with all the delight of a plumber unblocking a public toilet, is turn-off enough. The possibility that they might be victims of human trafficking is the ultimate deal-breaker. I think it is up to all men (and women, indeed) to consider whether they want to play a part in the modern day slave trade.

Sorry to sound high-horse-ish. I can imagine nothing better than a roll-around with three Scandinavian nyphomaniac ice-hockey players... I could I suppose move to Scandinavia to improve the odds of this happening, but I'm not holding my breath...

heres hoping he means three FEMALE ice hockey nymphos???????? lol

December 31st, 2007, 08:31 PM	#1
benny hill Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 189 Thanks: 7 Thanked 1,766 Times in 185 Posts	Ever Pay For Sex? I have never paid for sex but I am seriously considering it. I haven't had sex in years. I had a great girlfriend and making love to her was wonderful. There's nothing like being intimate with a woman you love. But I've been single for a very long time. I live in a very rural area and there isn't too many people around. Masturbating is okay but it doesn get tiresome and boring after a while. Where I live there are legal brothels around. I would never under any circumstances pick a woman up off the street or use an escort service. I don't want an STD or be arrested or give money to some druggie who's being pimped. There are some concerns I have with the brothels. They are kind of a scam. The women are independant contractors and they can charge what ever they want. There are no guidelines. I've heard they can be very expensive. The brothels are way out of the way and if you are driven there the price goes way up. The ladies have to give a bigger percentage to the house on what they negociate. There is no guarantee you'll enjoy the session. The advantage is they are legal and the ladies are given health check ups. Another concern I have is around here everybody knows everybody else's business. It is possible that someone around here could find out and that could hurt my family. I would never do anything that would effect badly on my family. I have friends I've talked to about this and they understand and they don't see how I've gone without it for so many years. Some men I've talked to have told me that did go to a prostitute and it wasn't worth it. I don't want to do something I will regret. I know it isn't going to be like it is with your have a girlfriend. I've been single for a long time and have ben considering going to a brothel. I wonder if anyone here has ever paid for sex and if they felt it was worth it or not. Thank you for your interest. Last edited by botogames; January 21st, 2024 at 02:58 AM.. Reason: Yes they call it marriage.

January 4th, 2008, 12:32 PM	#2
cmdavidm Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1 Thanks: 0 Thanked 14 Times in 1 Post	Visiting a brothel Hi, I wouldn't pick anyone up off the street or visit a brothel. I has seen a few independant escorts all bar one being useless. If you do decide to visit an escort make sure you do your homework, what you want against what she is prepared to offer.

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January 4th, 2008, 02:05 PM	#3
wdwyman Vintage Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 809 Thanks: 371 Thanked 39,241 Times in 795 Posts	At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

January 4th, 2008, 04:00 PM	#5
broxyman Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 193 Thanks: 6,521 Thanked 2,002 Times in 178 Posts	Not so far, because I've always been with a partner, but the thought of having sex with a prostitute does have a certain appeal, and I'm curious to know what it would be like. I agree about Amsterdam. A great place to start, with all the girls on display and a reasonably good chance of avoiding catching something unpleasant. 20 years ago the girls were mainly Dutch, and a lot of them were very pretty. After that there were far fewer Dutch girls, and some of the girls were pretty hideous looking. I gather there are a lot of Eastern European girls now, and that a lot of them are really lovely. So go to Amsterdam. It's a great city, easy to get to, and you'll get a great choice of girls.

January 6th, 2008, 03:17 AM	#6
benny hill Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 189 Thanks: 7 Thanked 1,766 Times in 185 Posts	Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago. Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live. A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to. I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

January 6th, 2008, 03:32 AM	#7
shanafona Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 145 Thanks: 214 Thanked 2,283 Times in 153 Posts	I've done it. Not proud of it. But than I haven't found many girl friends who are willing to wear stockings - let alone seams. I have a regular contact who I see once a month. she wears and does what I like - enough said. Ideally I would like a girl friend who could handle my tastes (seamed stockings) but no chance and at age 44 I'm not going to change. Best regards Shanafona

January 6th, 2008, 11:35 PM	#9
Tom_Kittens Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 1 Thanks: 9 Thanked 10 Times in 1 Post	Pharoah's post about sleeping with models reminds me of an Anthony Burgess's quote - "Sleeping with a model is rather like sleeping with a bicycle seat." (I'll have to take his word for it.) The whole idea of paying someone for sex is extremely unsexy to me. That they're only doing it for money, with all the delight of a plumber unblocking a public toilet, is turn-off enough. The possibility that they might be victims of human trafficking is the ultimate deal-breaker. I think it is up to all men (and women, indeed) to consider whether they want to play a part in the modern day slave trade. Sorry to sound high-horse-ish. I can imagine nothing better than a roll-around with three Scandinavian nyphomaniac ice-hockey players... I could I suppose move to Scandinavia to improve the odds of this happening, but I'm not holding my breath...