How do you cope with the lady in your life? - Page 5

**RjG57** · July 23rd, 2017, 10:50 AM

I have a wonderful lady.......... but she lives on the other side of the world. We have great holidays together, but thats all....... for now

**bloke57** · July 23rd, 2017, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by RjG57

I have a wonderful lady.......... but she lives on the other side of the world. We have great holidays together, but thats all....... for now

Yep! That's how mine started!

Keep it that way.

**73north** · July 24th, 2017, 10:22 AM

I managed to trigger an almighty row on Saturday Night
I decided a week ago to get a print that I had made of Rachel Broome
from Mayfair Magazine 1976 ( an old favourite of mine ) -
and collected it from the Framer , trouble was I was dumb enough to leave it on my desk - where my wife spotted it , before I had a chance to place it on the wall - for display
She was not happy , yet as you can see , there's no nudity and its harmless -
she was threatening divorce ( she had a bit to drink that night )
claiming that I fancy ' Rachel ' and want to date her
( I wish , I have no idea who she actually is - it was ridiculous )
- its been peaceful since - so I will wait a week or so , and put it in a less visible place higher up and less noticeable ( I wanted to put in between the Pennant from Italia 90 and my Framed ' Jaegir ' artwork from 2000ad .
I really can't win .

**Roubignol** · July 24th, 2017, 11:38 AM

Did your wife look like Rachel?

Hmmm I remember the quote of one of my Casanova cousin, who get 3 different wives, 4 children and so many torrid relationships with women... : "Women want the exclusivity."
Are you not throwing alcohol on the fire?

**73north** · July 24th, 2017, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by xyzde69

Did your wife look like Rachel?

Hmmm I remember the quote of one of my Casanova cousin, who get 3 different wives, 4 children and so many torrid relationships with women... : "Women want the exclusivity."
Are you not throwing alcohol on the fire?

true story , I had a penthouse pet centrefold on my bedroom wall
of Melissa Harding ( actually Helen Masters ) from 1984
My Mother tolerated it -----

I also had scanned picture from an original 35mm colour slide of Rachel
on the wall in my study room - and the silly wife never complained about that ( and the scanned picture was topless ) - its weird
and to answer Did your wife look like Rachel? - I wish

**Sir Honkers** · July 24th, 2017, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by rosestone

My intention was that it be a thread for members to talk about how they cope with the whole male/female relationship thing

I don't know you from Adam, but I think that sentence probably says a lot about how your view of male/female relationships has been coloured by what you experience. I love my wife. I think being with her has enriched my life beyond measure and there is no part of our relationship that I have to 'cope' with.
Honestly, if that's the way you feel about your life with her...GET OUT MAN!...before you end up a sad, bitter old man.
And I don't think I'm unique. I'm sure I'm just one of many millions of men in the world who are happily married.

**rosestone** · July 24th, 2017, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by loosegoose

I don't know you from Adam, but I think that sentence probably says a lot about how your view of male/female relationships has been coloured by what you experience. I love my wife. I think being with her has enriched my life beyond measure and there is no part of our relationship that I have to 'cope' with.

Yup

**Roubignol** · July 24th, 2017, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by rosestone

Yup

So... Maybe that's not my affairs, but did you get a good talk with her since our discussions?
Did you at least tell her that you need to be respected?

**rosestone** · July 29th, 2017, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by xyzde69

So... Maybe that's not my affairs, but did you get a good talk with her since our discussions?
Did you at least tell her that you need to be respected?

Tried it xy, didn't work. She just had a temper tantrum. She even wrote in an email to me (I'm copying and pasting this) - "You think because my bruises are not physical they are less important than yours" (I mentioned the bruises she has given me), and then something about how my words are more hurtful, even though she can't actually come up with anything from the last two years that I've said that was "hurtful". I don't even know what she thinks I said to her, because all I was doing was saying "Stop attacking me, verbally and physically, for ridiculous reasons". To be completely honest, I think it's just a fib she tells herself after the fact to rationalise it to herself.

I'm afraid, my anonymous internet friends, that my marriage is over. Which is very depressing.

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73north Veteran Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Scottish Borders Posts: 1,890 Thanks: 16,318 Thanked 39,348 Times in 1,847 Posts	World War Three I managed to trigger an almighty row on Saturday Night I decided a week ago to get a print that I had made of Rachel Broome from Mayfair Magazine 1976 ( an old favourite of mine ) - and collected it from the Framer , trouble was I was dumb enough to leave it on my desk - where my wife spotted it , before I had a chance to place it on the wall - for display She was not happy , yet as you can see , there's no nudity and its harmless - she was threatening divorce ( she had a bit to drink that night ) claiming that I fancy ' Rachel ' and want to date her ( I wish , I have no idea who she actually is - it was ridiculous ) - its been peaceful since - so I will wait a week or so , and put it in a less visible place higher up and less noticeable ( I wanted to put in between the Pennant from Italia 90 and my Framed ' Jaegir ' artwork from 2000ad . I really can't win .

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July 24th, 2017, 11:38 AM	#45
Roubignol Veteran Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Mice Planet Posts: 3,882 Thanks: 15,974 Thanked 29,726 Times in 3,826 Posts	Did your wife look like Rachel? Hmmm I remember the quote of one of my Casanova cousin, who get 3 different wives, 4 children and so many torrid relationships with women... : "Women want the exclusivity." Are you not throwing alcohol on the fire?