Since this is - for most of us - about putting ourselves in their positions, wouldn't you rather see ordinary-looking guys rather than heavily-muscled superstuds? After all, we're not looking at the guys for their beauty, we want someone who's basically anonymous. Of course, you lot could look like superstuds, I don't unfortunately
This seems to be a generation thing as well. Younger people have grown up in an era when everyone - pop stars, film stars, porn stars - have to be plastic-perfect. One of the reasons I like classic porn is that people look like people, not some sculpted model. For me that includes the men. I can't say there's anyone I detest because I don't pay much attention to them.