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clonevs · April 3rd, 2009, 03:20 AM

very interesting opinion's from others

i too have thought of this; having a wife and a young daughter. what a scene it would be for some of my "private" taste to become known. i compare online porn to the fantasies you have in your head while masturbating. there are no limits, no inhibitions. big problem is the internet has put alot of these "taste" into real time almost like others can read your mind by looking at your computer. i've been saying for years now that i'd rather have my wallet, car almost anything else stolen verus my pc. a pc is extremely private.
my opinion on the actual topic that thread starter brought up is this; first you have no control once your gone....with no control you lose any embarrasement or feelings towards it...you cease. secondly; those who you really do care about their feelings would probably respect your privacy to a point. we all practice it daily be it not going through your wife's cell phone call log or going through her browsing history. maybe you do...but i'd wager in those cases that there are other issues or underlying problems. i think your loved ones would respect your privacy out of pure respect and maybe subconsciously to protect the image they have of you. maybe your children would snoop or dig but in the end i think that would only make you more human and less parent in their eyes.
in the end; to the older gentleman i'd offer up that should the bell toll for you before said porn stash is deleted or purged and your loved one does come upon it. even 500gb of the most extreme porn does not wash away the life you shared. we all have skeletons....we're all human. for guys most of our skeletons involve sex.

April 3rd, 2009, 03:20 AM	#14
clonevs Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 60 Thanks: 4,240 Thanked 559 Times in 59 Posts	good topic very interesting opinion's from others i too have thought of this; having a wife and a young daughter. what a scene it would be for some of my "private" taste to become known. i compare online porn to the fantasies you have in your head while masturbating. there are no limits, no inhibitions. big problem is the internet has put alot of these "taste" into real time almost like others can read your mind by looking at your computer. i've been saying for years now that i'd rather have my wallet, car almost anything else stolen verus my pc. a pc is extremely private. my opinion on the actual topic that thread starter brought up is this; first you have no control once your gone....with no control you lose any embarrasement or feelings towards it...you cease. secondly; those who you really do care about their feelings would probably respect your privacy to a point. we all practice it daily be it not going through your wife's cell phone call log or going through her browsing history. maybe you do...but i'd wager in those cases that there are other issues or underlying problems. i think your loved ones would respect your privacy out of pure respect and maybe subconsciously to protect the image they have of you. maybe your children would snoop or dig but in the end i think that would only make you more human and less parent in their eyes. in the end; to the older gentleman i'd offer up that should the bell toll for you before said porn stash is deleted or purged and your loved one does come upon it. even 500gb of the most extreme porn does not wash away the life you shared. we all have skeletons....we're all human. for guys most of our skeletons involve sex.