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Originally Posted by bloke57
Hmm! A lot of this sounds like passive-aggressive victimhood behaviour. Believe me I know all about that!
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Yeah... but 95% of them ALWAYS have their TRAGEDIC stories.... like us.
That's not a reason to behave like a torturer.
I've got exactly the reverse story. I had a female friend who had a boyfriend who used the problems of his childhood to make unbelievable crisis.
These "torturers" have to live the present, not with their past.
That's a good thing that I learned in philosophical books.
Past is past, the story is over.
Present is reality.
Future doesn't exist.
So these depressive people have to turn the page of the past and live in the present.
They can meditate, do yoga, etc...
If they can't behave better, then they have to go to a psychiatrist and take the appropriate medicine.
End of the story.