Does spanking etc. turn you on?
 

Do you find videos of girls being spanked, paddled or whipped sexually stimulating or repulsive?


For most of my life I have enjoyed soft-core photos and T&A videos of pretty girls for entertainment and jerking off. For the past few years I have also started watching videos of girls being spanked, also breasts whipped and pussy paddled; nothing more extreme than this. I get rock hard instantly when watching these but only if the girl is attractive and the pain inflicted is genuine and not obviously faked. I also get hard watching the Met-Art or some of the newer, more explicit, Playboy vidoes but it takes a while longer. Obviously I am not alone in this or these videos wouldn't be made. I don't really consider myseld a sadist; I don't enjoy seeing men, unattractive women or animals tormented. I wonder if my taste is due to a lifelong string of rejection by the vast majority of female that I am attracted to or am I just another pervert. Anyway, I appreciate your participation in the poll and any comments.

The violent/pain stuff, no.

Soft spanking where the idea is to get the had on the arse for fondling, maybe.

It gets on my nerves when there's a couple (or more) at 'it' and someone has to slap the arse of one of them.

FYI
 

It hasn't seen a lot of posts lately so some of you may not know it's there:
the Classic Spanking (merged) thread here in VET.

I think stuff like this is beautiful. I think there it is really special that you can trust a man to do stuff like this to you and to put you in pain. And if you feel he is getting a lot of pleasure from doing it then you sort of want to be able to take the pain more because you don't want to stop his pleasure. He sort of gives you his pleasure as a sort of gift for the pain you give him. I think when the man pushes you a bit and you take more pain that you thought you could then you feel good about yourself for doing something more special than you thought you could. I think if the men doing it are good and kind and that you could trust them then you when you found that you didn't die or that the pain did destroy you and did not last for ever and you would feel that you do that again and learn to take more maybe the next time.

You would find that you could really trust the men doing to with you and feeling very close to them.

Soft spanking, preferably girl on girl, and definitely stockings and suspenders!

Debra Barone: You know, it's comforting every once in a while for a wife to hear that her husband wants to spank a supermodel.
Ray Barone: I don't want to. Sometimes they're naughty!

Not particularly my thing in porn, and not if it's causing pain. The mjm1963 formula works for me.

Please see my thread 'Warming up Wifey'. It will give an idea of a regularly-spanked wife's experience.

I recently discovered spanking my wife (well about 4 years ago). It had always interested me, but never told anyone. Any how I plucked up the courage and asked my then girlfriend (we were in our late forties) and we tried it out. My now wife had several orgasms, and loved me to chastise her at the same time.
Anyway for those out there where are we now? Well I have found her a very smart Air Stewardess outfit which she wears with what ever underwear I specify - I love open bottom girdles (with no knickers) or spender belt with satin knickers to hold up her stockings. Once dressed for me she usually has to complete an assignment, which strangely she fails in some way forcing me to reprimand her with a firm spanking, my spare hand is down her knickers playing with her at the same time. This develops very quickly into a head thumping shag which I try and keep going as long as possible - I then usually shoot my load over some part of her lingerie. I consider myself very luck indeed. PS- this is both our second marriage and we don't hold back on each other! (I am always in charge!! and that is what she loves)

Spanking a wife can really turn her on. This is not giving her pain, but a smart sting enough to make her squeal. My experience goes back to the Swinging Sixties when a rather sophisticated women's magazine ran an article on Recreational Marital Spanking, which began a spanking craze among some young married couples including my lovely and now long-ago-ex wife and I. The article had fascinated her and soon, after a hesitant start, I was regularly spanking her. She told me that after the initial stings from the first few smart smacks her bottom took on a lovely warm glow, which delighted her. She preferred to get undressed and go over my knee bare for her punishment. This really turned us both on. Another turn on for her was that I would tell her to do something, she would refuse to do it, and so on these occasions I would put her over my knee. pull her panties down and chastise her. She loved this. I found that spanking added a thrilling dimension to our relationship.

From a "hands-on" perspective, there are few things sexier than having a sexy BBW black woman on all fours proudly displaying her plus-sized black arse and inviting you to spank it. I've been fortunate to enjoy this experience a few times. Nothing too extreme, just firm and swift strokes designed to give the recipient a pleasurable stinging sensation. When you climb on board for a ride and continue the spanking, things get even more exciting!