Ever Pay For Sex?

[benny hill]

I have never paid for sex but I am seriously considering it. I haven't had sex in years. I had a great girlfriend and making love to her was wonderful. There's nothing like being intimate with a woman you love. But I've been single for a very long time. I live in a very rural area and there isn't too many people around. Masturbating is okay but it doesn get tiresome and boring after a while.

Where I live there are legal brothels around. I would never under any circumstances pick a woman up off the street or use an escort service. I don't want an STD or be arrested or give money to some druggie who's being pimped.

There are some concerns I have with the brothels. They are kind of a scam. The women are independant contractors and they can charge what ever they want. There are no guidelines. I've heard they can be very expensive. The brothels are way out of the way and if you are driven there the price goes way up. The ladies have to give a bigger percentage to the house on what they negociate. There is no guarantee you'll enjoy the session. The advantage is they are legal and the ladies are given health check ups.

Another concern I have is around here everybody knows everybody else's business. It is possible that someone around here could find out and that could hurt my family. I would never do anything that would effect badly on my family.

I have friends I've talked to about this and they understand and they don't see how I've gone without it for so many years. Some men I've talked to have told me that did go to a prostitute and it wasn't worth it. I don't want to do something I will regret. I know it isn't going to be like it is with your have a girlfriend.

I've been single for a long time and have ben considering going to a brothel. I wonder if anyone here has ever paid for sex and if they felt it was worth it or not.

Thank you for your interest.

[cmdavidm]

Hi, I wouldn't pick anyone up off the street or visit a brothel. I has seen a few independant escorts all bar one being useless. If you do decide to visit an escort make sure you do your homework, what you want against what she is prepared to offer.

[wdwyman]

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

[pharoahegypt]

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know, but how much has it cost Paul McCartney? I live in Thailand & always pay for it as it works out cheaper in the end & I get to go with women I fancy rather than the other way round. The women here are totally different from anywhere else (they're prostitutes but not whores) - do yourself a favour & book yourself a two week holiday. You won't regret it. If you do I'll pay for it!!

mccartney may have paid a high price but at least he didnt lose a leg..unlike that golddigger he married...LOL.sick but still funny after way shes treated him in the press. :rolleyes:

[broxyman]

Not so far, because I've always been with a partner, but the thought of having sex with a prostitute does have a certain appeal, and I'm curious to know what it would be like.

I agree about Amsterdam. A great place to start, with all the girls on display and a reasonably good chance of avoiding catching something unpleasant. 20 years ago the girls were mainly Dutch, and a lot of them were very pretty. After that there were far fewer Dutch girls, and some of the girls were pretty hideous looking. I gather there are a lot of Eastern European girls now, and that a lot of them are really lovely.

So go to Amsterdam. It's a great city, easy to get to, and you'll get a great choice of girls.

[benny hill]

Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago.

Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live.

A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to.

I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

[shanafona]

I've done it. Not proud of it. But than I haven't found many girl friends who are willing to wear stockings - let alone seams. I have a regular contact who I see once a month. she wears and does what I like - enough said.

Ideally I would like a girl friend who could handle my tastes (seamed stockings) but no chance and at age 44 I'm not going to change.

Best regards

Shanafona

[pharoahegypt]

if in doubt, go to amsterdam. don't do what i did though and start off with a 3-some. all seemed a bit of a disappointment after that...

had two threesomes in my time. one with a married couple, and one with a girlfriend and another guy. both were a sad let down im afraid. shows that so often fantasy is far more exciting than reality. as for paying for sex, it relies a lot on the girl you 'hire' as to what you'll get and how much you'll enjoy it. dont pick a real classy baywatch type who knows she'll get money no matter what, she wont put out for you. choose the more girl next door type or even worse, she knows she has to be good to get business and will be more willing to both please you and do more for your money. this is my experience anyway. ive shagged model types and had a shitty time, and ive done it with older women who've been brilliant. i'd always go for the latter if i was going to pay again. hope this helps.

[Tom_Kittens]

Pharoah's post about sleeping with models reminds me of an Anthony Burgess's quote - "Sleeping with a model is rather like sleeping with a bicycle seat." (I'll have to take his word for it.)

The whole idea of paying someone for sex is extremely unsexy to me. That they're only doing it for money, with all the delight of a plumber unblocking a public toilet, is turn-off enough. The possibility that they might be victims of human trafficking is the ultimate deal-breaker. I think it is up to all men (and women, indeed) to consider whether they want to play a part in the modern day slave trade.

Sorry to sound high-horse-ish. I can imagine nothing better than a roll-around with three Scandinavian nyphomaniac ice-hockey players... I could I suppose move to Scandinavia to improve the odds of this happening, but I'm not holding my breath...

[pharoahegypt]

Pharoah's post about sleeping with models reminds me of an Anthony Burgess's quote - "Sleeping with a model is rather like sleeping with a bicycle seat." (I'll have to take his word for it.)

The whole idea of paying someone for sex is extremely unsexy to me. That they're only doing it for money, with all the delight of a plumber unblocking a public toilet, is turn-off enough. The possibility that they might be victims of human trafficking is the ultimate deal-breaker. I think it is up to all men (and women, indeed) to consider whether they want to play a part in the modern day slave trade.

Sorry to sound high-horse-ish. I can imagine nothing better than a roll-around with three Scandinavian nyphomaniac ice-hockey players... I could I suppose move to Scandinavia to improve the odds of this happening, but I'm not holding my breath...

heres hoping he means three FEMALE ice hockey nymphos???????? lol :D

[sjk]

I've been married for over 20 years mate - does that count.

It takes the strain financialy and mentaly.

[Punter70]

If you do decide to do it and are in the UK you might want to try checking out some girls first here:

http://www.punternet.com

or here

http://www.punterlink.co.uk

Most Field Reports are accurate and a good one can save you a lot of time and money.
If you are outside of the UK there are some links to similar guides on Punterlink.
It's worth considering if you want to do something that you can't get in a relationship, such as Anal, facial, asians etc. I think I've done about everything now that I've had the urge to do and most stuff lived up to my expectations. Once you cross the line there's no going back but I don't regret any punting and I've met (and shagged) some really nice (and a handful of exceptional) girls on the way. When I was younger I didn't have the confidence to get enough sex and found that this was a good way to make up for it!
PS DO NOT pick up a girl off the streets unless you want trouble or a dose of something nasty.

[Albert Mudat]

Just my 2 cents of Euro currency but why not shag an older married woman (say 45-55, NOT 60-70). No money-for-sex morality problems, you'll be her breath of fresh air, she'll never bother you 'cos she'll prefer your affair to remain discreet and she'll possibly be great in bed.
Get a subscription at the local gym club and see what/who you can get... ;-) Good luck!

[mike99]

If you're in Britain you have a fantastic choice of girls in massage parlours. London Manchester, leeds, Milton Keynes, Newcastle. You name it. Very high standards in hygiene and quality of girls Look on the internet. The bigger British massage parlours are safe and as a client you wont be breaking any laws. They.re also extremely good value for money.
So I'm reliably told.

[pharoahegypt]

If you're in Britain you have a fantastic choice of girls in massage parlours. London Manchester, leeds, Milton Keynes, Newcastle. You name it. Very high standards in hygiene and quality of girls Look on the internet. The bigger British massage parlours are safe and as a client you wont be breaking any laws. They.re also extremely good value for money.
So I'm reliably told.

ur correct. u dont break any laws, only the girl u pay. and if there is only one girl working a flat or house then even she cant be done, as the law states that it takes two or more working girls to be offering their services to constitute an offence from such premises. so im told by a girl who does this for a living anyway. ;)

[muhandis89]

In an earlier life,I wore a uniform.Several of us were into entertaining bored 'stockbroker wives' in Surrey.Great while it lasted,and then I got posted to a place with lots of shooting and the nearest available woman hundreds of kms away!
In my 'photography' phase,I could have shagged myself to death,but avoided mortality,by a wisker.Happy days!!!

[Meglos]

I have never paid for it but I did have the privilage of being entertained by a high class hooker in Sydney on her night off. She challenged me to a game of pool and then asked me if I would like to go into town with her. At the end of the night she took me home to her apartment, full sized pool table and swimming pool on the roof just 2 of the things my home so sadly lacks. She read me some Rudyard Kipling them covered my tool in chocolate sauce and got to work. Won't bore you with the rest, she was great, very intimate, its a night I will never forget anyway.

Meglos

[pharoahegypt]

I have never paid for it but I did have the privilage of being entertained by a high class hooker in Sydney on her night off. She challenged me to a game of pool and then asked me if I would like to go into town with her. At the end of the night she took me home to her apartment, full sized pool table and swimming pool on the roof just 2 of the things my home so sadly lacks. She read me some Rudyard Kipling them covered my tool in chocolate sauce and got to work. Won't bore you with the rest, she was great, very intimate, its a night I will never forget anyway.

Meglos

IF you can hold yr pecker up high when all the pro's around you are sucking hard........ then you are a man my friend, and the world is yours!! lol:D

[AbuHamza69]

I've never been with a hooker but have often considered it - only to change my mind due to the threats of STDs, getting 'rumbled' and ripped off etc.

Also, I am curious: do many hookers offer anal? (I mean they recieve, not give!) Also, I mean attractive (high class) hookers and not rough druggy desperate types. And how much do they typically charge?

[pharoahegypt]

Some do. Mainly the foreign girls from what I'm told. But I know a few British girls are doing it more often to compete with them. That also includes more doing 'bareback' , also to compete with the foreign newcomers. Seems they don't like losing their regular punters, or 'spunkers', as they often call their punters to these Polish/Albanian/Serbian girls who need to earn money to pay their 'boyfriends' who usually end up being their pimp, the one who got them shipped over her in the first place.

A contact of mine who did this job for many years until recently saw many of these European imigrants come in with black eyes from not earning enough the previous night, and the other British girls refused to drink from the same cups, or eat from the same plates, once the word got around about what 'extras' they were soon offering to stop from getting slapped around again. It was only natural that these same girls soon lowered themselves to copying what they had initially thought were 'taboo' acts, just to pay their own bills in the end.

My contact tells me that girls working her parlour not only offered anal if it was something they did in private anyway, but also 'cum in mouth', 'bareback' (oral and sex), and 'cum in pussy', if the money was right. That phrase has always cracks me up, "If the money was right!", how can you justify that comment when you consider the possible ramifications of what you might get? ie, pregnant, std's, aids, or any number of other things which might not only stop you from working in the short term, but also may lead to a life filled with regret if you caught something more serious like the aforementioned aids or get pregnant with some 'spunkers' baby....????

When asking a girl if she will do these 'extras' you also have to consider just how many guys prior to you she will also have said 'yes' to, and who or where they may have been before her....!!! I hope this reply in some way solves your dilemma or at least gives you a few answers to your questions... :)

[oarmlcmf]

Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago.

Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live.

A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to.

I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

if you can manage the trip, british columbia has a lot of very classy escort services, in the smaller towns as well as vancouver. prositution is essentially decriminalized, with the exception of public solicitation. they'll tell you over the phone just what you'll get (they don't have to deal with entrapment). the women in b.c. are very well groomed and ladylike.

[AEKara]

I have to pay £700 for a flight to go see my wife. Does that count?

[Trip]

Have paid.
Bangkok and then Chiang Mai, Thailand, 1987.

[cialtrone]

Obviuosly mans always pay. Sometime a hooker is the cheapest solution. But is not so simple.
Pay a professional could be a very interesting experience as itself. Is an axploration of a different point of wiew in sexual relationships.
In my opinion, if your problem is to have an exiting sexual experience, is better a chat line.
You could have a lot of date on it. But this is dangerous. You can afford many blind date before to find a woman you like. Or worse, you could bless your hart with this kind of game.
This would never be only sex, for you or for the other part.

For the "only sex" experience is better an independent hooker, not an escort, but a girl who made his business in her house alone. I guess this kind of womans are different from street hooker or escort or brothel hookers. They think as a shop manager " customer satisfied is a customer that come back again" while the others think:- I must stole more money I can from this dumb in the shortest time.

[prefect1234]

Why not give it a try. As you're single it isn't gonna get you in trouble is it.
As you're on this forum there's one agency in London that has Angie George on their books. A bit pricey ,but from what I understand it's a real porn star experience. They've also got a couple of other porn stars and they're all into everything. Report back if you decide to try it out.

[harvey]

You've got to be kidding me. This premise is kinda ridiculous. Think about it...Every guy who has ever been on a date HAS PAID FOR SEX. When you spend money on a woman by buying dinner, movies, etc., you're expecting to GET LAID in return. Just be honest guys. So, in an honest down to Earth perspective, I think at one time or another, every guy has.

[damp-patch]

As I said to the wife once, 'Why cant it be like it was before we got married?' 'OK', she said,' That'll be 50 quid.'

[maxwelljam]

Sure, we all do. However, you would be very surprised how many of the ladies here are economically amenable.

[slaphead]

I lost my cherry to a prostitute in a massage parlour in the Midlands when I was 19.

She was an old girl in her early 50's I recall,bleached blond hair,big saggy boobs and a slack old hairy muff.

She blew me off in seconds,then snogged me (rare then) and I had a second go in missionary position.

She was really dirty and as I was shagging her,she kept telling me that she was a dirty whore,over and over again !!

She taught me loads about sex over the next few weeks and even dropped the price because I was a low earner at the time.

That's why I have a great affection for rough plump old women to this day.

She was wonderful.

[johnchirac]

Never paid for sex I'm afraid ..I've been to
Amsterdam many times because of my job and always going
to the red light district was the first thing that I was doing
everytime when arriving at Schipol airport !
Strange feeling as although I was very curious and mentally
tempted to try the experience with a prostitute I've
never been sexually aroused or probably it was a kind of morale
which subconsciously prevented me to be turned on probably
( Hemm..I don't really know..) .
But yeah..dating someone cost money at the end ,I remembered
living two double-life at some stage (ie: equal 4) and had to give
up because of the cost involved (drinks,restaurants,birthday and xmas
presents etc).

JC

[ymcba321]

After many years of thinking about it, I've recently paid for it and I've got to say it was fabulous. It was in Amsterdam (where else!), and after walking around and dithering about for some time, I plucked up courage to go up to a window, and wow - how easy, how sexy and how comfortable.

I had a lovely blow job, then cowboy and missionary sex with a beautiful Croatian girl. The room was clean, there was nice music. It was incredibly erotic and she made me feel comfortable.

I went in feeling nervous but came out feeling great. So great in fact that I visited another window within half an hour.

Guys - try it next time you're there.

[smiksmaksmok]

if in doubt, go to amsterdam. don't do what i did though and start off with a 3-some. all seemed a bit of a disappointment after that...
If you're in the Netherlands or Germany, try one of the "sauna clubs" or FKK's. You pay an entry fee (normally 50 EUR) and for this price you can eat and consume soft drinks all you like (alcohol needs to be payed extra). You have unlimited use of the sauna, jacuzzi and swimming pool.
There will be a number of ladies present, topless or in sexy lingerie that you can pay for sexual service (usually 50 EUR for half an hour or 75 EUR for an hour), though there is no obligation. You can simply enjoy the place and do nothing more or go to chamber as many times as you wish (and can) during the day.
It's like a sexual playground. Much better than the red-light district.

[buggeration]

Have I ever paid for sex? Hell yes! Two ex-wives can vouch for that

[patterslut]

Buggeration - I second that! The whore I married sunk me for 70K so far. Two years into monogamous holy matrimony she gives me the clap. She stayed long enough for me to raise her kid, now wants the house. Guess I got fucked literally and figuratively. It would have been cheaper and probably cleaner to go to Amsterdam.

Some girls give me money, some girls buy me clothes, some girls steal the shirt off my back and leave me with a legal dose.

[buggeration]

That's why they give hurricane's girl's names; 'cos when they go they take the car, the house, everything...

[goldentaurus2001]

Yeah, entering into matrimony is the entrance in a kind of legalized and very expensive brothel with only one part-time hooker. If you coming home and she is wearing her black lingerie under her transparent dressing gown, you know: "There must be a very expensive thing she wants!" You only have to take a look to your own jewellery and wardrobe and then to hers, and you will know, in time a professional hooker will be much cheaper. :)

Greetz
goldentaurus2001

[papa]

yes in Talinn. But I think we all pay for sex one way or another:)

[imtrying]

All men pay for sex. Some do it cash on the dresser, some do it with engagement rings, mortgages and baby clothes. But make no mistake, one way or another we all pay.

[buttsie]

Thanks for the replies. I live much closer to the brothels in Nevada than Amsterdam or Australia. I was very tempted to um hire one when I visited Paris years ago.

Going through the red light district of Paris was an experience. I remember seeing posters of nude women in pain sight and huge neon lights advertising the sex shops. People aren't into that where I live.

A married couple opened up a video store in my town and they wanted to have adult videos for rent. They weren't allowed to.

I think I'll just keep waiting. I'm not quite sold on the Nevada brothels. I've heard that Chasey Lain is going to be working at Sheri's Ranch soon if not now.

That whole see the pornstar,fuck the pornstar is such a novelty

Makes me seriously wonder what the term pornstar really means in todays adult industry

If you've seen what Chasey Lain(crackhead)is like thesedays you'd be wise to stay away http://www.bgafd.co.uk/forum/read.php?f=3&i=197369&t=197369

[SlowDiver75]

Have and openly endorse it to anyone on the fence. It's one of the last true honest enterprises. Ideal for the pragmatist, and philosophically speaking, you're doing the same thing to anyone you're dating and spending money on, except in far less time. It's perfect for anyone that's just looking for a quick roll in the hay, and there's no guilt or awkwardness as you both have a mutually beneficial arrangement, and you're the customer in this instance. What's more, is you're choosing her in most cases. It isn't 2nd best, or "lower your standards" or consolation etc., so it's win/win for us guys.

Now that all said, I don't think it should ever be a 'replacement' for actively searching for a soulmate or partner, and certainly nothing to leave a wife or long time girlfriend over. And if some poor fool is spending thousands a week for nightly companionship, then it's starting to look like she's the honeytrap and he's the trick, then that's obviously a bad situation. But the occasional fling during a dry spell, to tide you over is perfectly reasonable.

I would also say if you're looking online or in the papers search for 'GFE experience'. That typically means the girl is a party girl and won't lay there like a log or clock watch.

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[Astatine]

Not a great fan of Amsterdam (or, if you really want it cheap, The Hague), but Thailand has some great options. Been to Bangkok a few times. You get more than 15 minutes for a start!

I tend to avoid the girlie traps of Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy, but for entertainment they're fine. I'd try some of the beer gardens (eg Sukhumvit Soi 7). I like the Bamboo Bar on Sukhumvit Soi 3. Thing about the bars is that you can just sit and have a drink if nothing takes your fancy, unlike, say, the Dollhouse, where you get bored girls strutting their stuff.

If you're up for three or more, the Eden Club's well worth a visit (Sukhumvit Soi 5 I Think; further down this short street there are loads of friendly bars). For more natural, but sometimes jaded, company, you can get an enthusiastic workout at Annie's Massage Parlour. Last time I was there the girl wouldn't let me go until my third go . . .

[Sebastian Weetabix]

Just my 2 cents of Euro currency but why not shag an older married woman (say 45-55, NOT 60-70). No money-for-sex morality problems, you'll be her breath of fresh air, she'll never bother you 'cos she'll prefer your affair to remain discreet and she'll possibly be great in bed.
Get a subscription at the local gym club and see what/who you can get... ;-) Good luck!

Good advice re older women: "They don't yell, they don't swell, they don't tell - and they're grateful as HELL!".

[ranger690]

ok if you have a wife you have pay 4 it you gf you have pay 4 it that it that life

[NathalieDW]

Good advice re older women: "They don't yell, they don't swell, they don't tell - and they're grateful as HELL!".
:) Hope you not talking about my dad's wife :eek: but then, with her mouth sucking, she cant yell, when she takes it like a man (in the arse) she cant swell, being the nymph hot blooded granny she can't tell. Only problem if the old man knows about it you have the ticket to hell :eek:
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[Rick Danger]

I've never paid for the services of a "professional". For those of you who are outside the USA, you might find it interesting that in these hard economic times there have been news accounts concerning the increasing number of women who are selling their favors for money.

I agree with many of the respondents: Marriage does count as "paying for it". That's if you're lucky enough to be still getting serviced by your wife. Remember before you got married ? The nookie probably flowed like wine at a wedding. But after the wedding (yours), did the glass run dry ? And after kids, I bet you went back to "Mary and her Four Daughters" for excitement !

Also, did you make the mistake of marrying of woman who doesn't give head ? If you did, how's that working out for you ?

[sing]

Now is a great time to get on a plane and do a little traveling (cheap airline tickets). I didn't start traveling until I was into my 30s. I found out why so many people are into it. It is 10 times easier to get laid, when you're in another country. I traveled throughout SE Asia, paid for it half the time at massage parlors and the other half by meeting girls in eating establishments and girls working as maids or other single travelers from Europe.

If you're a white dude, it will be 20x easier to get laid. You wont even have to try.

[Satiros]

I once paid to watch my friend have sex with a prostitute. I remember when they were done, asking the girl to spread her legs for me. As if somehow I was expecting there to be evidence of their fucking. There was none of course. It was as if nothing had happened at all.

[Max3030]

What's more safe regarding STD Escorts or Hookers on the street?

[Oswald]

No, I have not.

From what I understand those who are offering their 'services' are sledom checked for STD, and the 'customer' has to always be very wary of an agressive procurer.

[whiskymick]

Yes many times as a young soldier in a place called Hagen in Germany in the 70s it was all legal and above board there, worst thing about it was, we'd come out of the brothels then go to a nightclub and get laid for free lol

[Cheekymonkey]

Ironically, my first sexual experience (at age 15) was with a prostitute in Pigalle, France but I did not have to pay. She approached me and I gave her some attitude and blagged (saying "I never have to pay for it" even though I'd never been laid) and she offered me to come back the next day for free. It was a great story for when I got home. Almost two decades later I considered but never went with an escort until a trip to China. I am usually in relationships and only just recently since I have been single and really desperate for female company have I resorted. Depending on the escort you can either ending up feeling really it is a waste of money and degraded or you can have the best time of your life and feel like a king. Of course, it is no substitute for a real loving relationship but sometimes a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. If you are going to go that route I recommend perusing on Eros Guide and reviews on sites such as TER. With positive reviews you have some expectation of satisfaction whereas without it is a crapshoot. Happy Hunting.

[kingfisher552]

Cant count how many times I paid for it. As a 17 year-old in the Navy stationed in the Philippines, who could resist a charming Filipino maiden for about $1.50! At that time, their peso was around 6 to one dollar. 10 pesos for a quickie? You bet!! Girls in Singapore were a bit more, but they were super-exotic. Vietnamese girls would take it in the ass for a couple dollars- that way they still had hymens to give away to their future husband. Girls in Japan and Taiwan were a little pricey, but the experience was worth it.

[davyman]

Many years ago, while at university, we collected for friends, hired a prostitute to strip & shag. It is also known as blue strippers..

[Sharu]

I really had a cheap life til today, ok, we all pay in any way, but I always took more, then I gave. Think about it, what thou will

hf

[Estreeter]

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Bought one of these lovely ladies for a bucks night,
I suppose that counts.

[nopar king]

What's more safe regarding STD Escorts or Hookers on the street?
Girls working on the street in UK are pretty much all drug dependent. When they are really desparate they will do almost anything to get money for drugs including doing it without a condom, they may also share needles if they haven't got a clean one. Take your own precautions, if she'll do it unprotected with you how many has she done it with before?

[Extempus]

At the end of the day we all pay for sex - buy a girl a drink, you're paying for it. A bit cynical, I know...
But 100% accurate. The only difference is, when you pay a hooker, you're paying directly for services rendered, and she then uses the money to buy stuff. When you're on a date, you're buying stuff for her, but there's no guarantee you'll get laid afterwards. But, you're still paying for it for one or the other, it's just that you're paying for it in different ways.

[spoonfedmonkey]

I'm married and remain faithful, so I wouldn't pay for sex in any direct way.

Were I not married, I would have reservations about brothels (or the variations in Germany thereof, such as FKK or Sauna clubs), simply because I would feel unsure that the girl I chose was there truly voluntarily. Too many girls from Eastern Europe are scammed into coming here for job opportunities, only to get put in a brothel and their passport withheld by the brothel owner. Shouldn't happen in a country as civilized as this, but journalists have assured us that it happens.

What I'd do is this: I read an article recently which reports that experts estimate that at least 10% of the prostitution taking place in Germany is done by university students. They are young enough to have grown up with very liberal attitudes towards sex, so they do it willingly. No one is holding their passport and threatening them. They just want cold, hard cash, and do not have any taboos about getting paid.

These days, most of them offer their services through Internet networks, the most important being something similar to Facebook: studiVZ. So I would join studiVZ and try to find the "sex for sale" advertisements of the girls going to the university in my town. Since I live in a university down, I'd bet that I could get all the sex I could afford from willing and able college girls without having to have a bad conscience about her motivation.

Now, surely there is something like a British version of studiVZ? There must be. I bet it's a gold mine.

I could be wrong, of course. Britain is not Germany, after all.

I would start here, maybe: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_social_networking_websites

[UPDATE]

Thought I'd add a link or two. The situation in the UK:
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/education/student/article3396280.ece

France:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/jan/21/internationaleducationnews.france

These aren't sex slaves or junkies, but girls who have no problem with selling sex to buy their text books.

[dhream]

Lots and lots over countless visits to Thailand, and a few other Places, Australia, NZ, and my first (pro) was some Latino type in those window booths in Amsterdam 1982 or 83, I was so nervous I couldn't get it up, so she took off the franger and I barebacked her! Woo-hoo! (Homer Simpsons war-cry!)
I'm married now and calmer in my old age, but I really want a go at Cumisha Amado before she hangs up her G-string! I just missed out on Suzi Suzuki who now sells real estate somewhere in America.

BTW Spoonfedmonkey,
FKK and Sauna Clubs are not always associated with P4P. There are many respectable FKK (FreiKorperKultur) or Naturalist/Nudist spas to be found in Bad Homburg and Wiesbaden, both less than an hour from Frankfurt Am Main. I have been to both towns at least twice, and while it is not sleazy, you can openly look and be looked at by the opposite sex, and no they are not all old hags, there is some serious beauty happening of all ages. A mate of mine met his now wife in one!
I don't know if they have English language websites, but you can get English brochures -once you are actually at the venue! It's knowing how to get to them that's the thing.
If you're comfortable with being nude its a great day out or rather, in. Bad Homburg even has a bar where you can have a beer and just...watch!

[spoonfedmonkey]

BTW Spoonfedmonkey,

I don't know if they have English language websites, but you can get English brochures -once you are actually at the venue! It's knowing how to get to them that's the thing.
If you're comfortable with being nude its a great day out or rather, in. Bad Homburg even has a bar where you can have a beer and just...watch!

Thanks for the tip! Actually, I'm pretty fluent in German, so I don't need the English language websites.

But I'd need a MUCH larger penis before being truly comfortable going nude at a club. I've done it at lakes and beaches and it felt great. But in a club?

[DTravel]

Monetarily? Or emotionally?

[porty]

if you live near nevada why not go to las vegas?

there are pages and pages of girls in the yellow pages just looking for a date. the girls come to your room all discreet. sounds like the ideal set up to me... just don't touch the street walkers they look real mean and nasty..

[Estreeter]

Maybe we should have a thread for advice on prostitution?


That's easy, all men should go too a top shelf brothel once just for the experience, stay away from street hookers and don't get involved in the business. It will attract attention you may not want or need IMO.

[snowy25]

personally i have never paid directly for sex and dont think i ever will. we have all paid indirectly for sex because its the way the world works. we take a girl out, buy her a meal, drinks, clothes etc and we have sex. indirectly we have paid for sex. the next time they might buy things so they have indirectly paid for sex also.
i dont have any problems with people paying for sex and i dont really have many problems with those that offer the service. at the end of the day there are many people that need this type of service for whatever reason. the one problem i do have with prostitution is not everyone doing it is doing it by choice. these people need help and if people are paying to have sex with those that are not doing it by choice then they are not going to get that help because the people behind them will not want to lose their cash cow.

[Fanuc]

Does a rub and a tug count?

[Estreeter]

Does a rub and a tug count?
If ya handed over any http://thumbnails23.imagebam.com/6681/8caef966802601.gif (http://www.imagebam.com/image/8caef966802601) then the answer would be a yes, :)

[knobby109]

Pay for sex? I got married so it's costing me half of all I have.When I get it that is :-)

[Alvin Lucifer]

I haven't. The thing is, it's been so dry for me lately, I would...if only I had the money. In America, to go cheap is to go dangerous. If you go to the streets, you'll be lucky to end up with an STD, you might end up with a knife between your ribs and your wallet stolen. There are still massage parlors, but since prostitution is illegal everywhere, you can't ask for what you really want, and these places are big targets for sting operations. Same for all that bullshit on Craigslist and so forth. You never know if you're gonna get badge instead of boobs!

On the pricier side, you get "escorts" looking for "gentlemen." What is a gentleman? A gentleman is a rich guy who will buy her expensive gifts AND pay $400 while she lies there like a log for 1/2 hour.

I never contracted an STD, but one time a slut gave me a UTI (urinary tract infection). This broad was sick and crazy and I was desperate, drunk, and horny. I made a mistake, I didn't use a condom. The onset of pain in the dong came on about 48 hours later. I went to the ER thinking I'd got the clap or something awful. The doctor asked me a bunch of questions, examined my old fella, tested my pee, and told my I had a UTI. He prescribed some antibiotics and told me to be careful. I'll tell you, when that pain starts searing you, you forget about the bit of crumpet right away. It ain't worth it. Wrap that rascal!

[Raymond66]

Come on guys,

don't we ALL have to "pay for sex"?

[Sharkhunter]

I know we all pay for sex in some way or another, blah, blah, lol... But to answer the question as I think it was asked, nope. Nor can I see myself doing it any time soon. Even when a mate and I went to Amsterdam a few years back (in my singleton days) we perused the windows and gave marks out of 10, but was never at any time tempted - even though some of the girls were gorgeous.

Perhaps my funniest memory however is of walking down one street, and noting the deterioration in quality as we made our way to the other end... From stunning Eastern European model types through to ordinary but not bad lookers, and then to some butt-ugly munters who were literally trying to drag you inside.

Paying for sex? Not for me. Even in my most depressing days as a singleton with a decent disposable income, a couple of copies of Club International and a box of tissues was more than enough.

[Davemetalhead]

I have, many a time, and most of the time it's been great. We both know why I'm there - there's no bullshit.

My first time was with one of the girls advertised in doorways in London, "Model upstairs" kinda thing. That was crap to be honest, you're expected to be in and out in 20 minutes - if you cum within 5 minutes that's time up too. it's basically a production line - get the punters in and out quick.

Most of the times I've gone with prostitutes it was with an established "brothel" - mainly Le Girls in London. You pay for a set time and that's what you got. You could cum as often as you wanted to within the time limit, the rooms were clean and there was a shower available if wanted. The girls were pretty much friendly and nice, I often had a good laugh with them. I never got the impression that they were forced into what they did, although that doesn't mean they weren't of course. I never felt pressured or hassled while there, just relaxed.

One of the best experiences I had was in Berlin at one of the sex kino / brothels there. A lovely young asian lass gave a wonderful full-body massage and a superb blowjob. Once I dressed I went into the cinema part watching a porno, and got a second blowjob from a more mature German lass - there were 2 or 3 others there also pretty much getting the same thing :)

[Sebastian Weetabix]

Shouldn't this thread be titled: "What - you mean you've NEVER paid for sex?!"

[chupachups]

Don't we pay for sex when we renew our internet subscription ? :D

As for paying for real sex - nope, never, but my girlfriend pays me :D:D

[mixrcple]

I haven't. The thing is, it's been so dry for me lately, I would...if only I had the money. In America, to go cheap is to go dangerous. If you go to the streets, you'll be lucky to end up with an STD, you might end up with a knife between your ribs and your wallet stolen. There are still massage parlors, but since prostitution is illegal everywhere, you can't ask for what you really want, and these places are big targets for sting operations. Same for all that bullshit on Craigslist and so forth. You never know if you're gonna get badge instead of boobs!

On the pricier side, you get "escorts" looking for "gentlemen." What is a gentleman? A gentleman is a rich guy who will buy her expensive gifts AND pay $400 while she lies there like a log for 1/2 hour.

I never contracted an STD, but one time a slut gave me a UTI (urinary tract infection). This broad was sick and crazy and I was desperate, drunk, and horny. I made a mistake, I didn't use a condom. The onset of pain in the dong came on about 48 hours later. I went to the ER thinking I'd got the clap or something awful. The doctor asked me a bunch of questions, examined my old fella, tested my pee, and told my I had a UTI. He prescribed some antibiotics and told me to be careful. I'll tell you, when that pain starts searing you, you forget about the bit of crumpet right away. It ain't worth it. Wrap that rascal!

Well said, there are far too many risks & the cost, no way.

[jarak84]

We always pay for sex. (gifts,dinner,drinks).

[Likelylad]

Its the only way i've ever had two women give me oral!!!!!!!

[robeston]

Well, I certainly don't go along the idea that we 'pay' for sex with our partners (wives or girlfriedns) as there's a lot more to a relationship than just sex. My wife is my best friend and we have a lot in common. (OK, I know there are a lot of people who seem to get married/hook up who have nothing whatsoever in common except for the comparatively temporary sexual frenzy at the start of a relationship, but let's leave that for now.)

I have paid for it - as in a strictly cash for service transaction - several times, never with any real success. I have always been rather fascinated by the idea of sex with prostitutes so over the years I tried it out occasionally. The first time was with a quite elegant middle aged woman in a nice flat in London. It was definately cheap and hurried despite that, clothes off, on the bed, very fast and intense oral (done hard, I realised later, to make me come the quicker) and then intercourse, and as I pushed in she moaned in a breathy voice "Fuck me in my hot wet cunt!" I was in there so little time before I ejaculated as opposed to orgasmed than I could barely tell you whether it was hot, wet, both or neither. As I dressed she recognised my disappointment and said "Some men can't come at all". Which was no consolation as that was actually what I would have preferred, at the time being in a relationship with a girl and being used to fucking for a couple of hours before coming. In fact deliberately not coming for a couple of days so as to have a really HUGE one when I really needed it. So that was a bust, barely fifteen minutes from in the door to out.

The second time was with a rather sweet but plain woman who was actually rather sexy and had a lovely 'professional' voice and rather fine big naturals. This was a couple of years later and I was in another steady relationship with lots of long fucking sessions, but again it all went horribly wrong. Although I thoroughly enjoyed rubbing my cock against her bum and feeling those memorable tits, as soon as the head pushed into her pussy I ejaculated and it was all over. The thing was I worked quite close to her flat and often thought (still do) that I should have gone back again, and 'got it right'. Yes, I know that is a fantasy.

More years pass and I am wandering around in the rain and decide to try a walk-up. This time it is a definately older woman, must have been late fifties at least! But curiosity drags me on. She's pleasant, efficient, does this ridiculous thing of washing my cock in water with dettol in it despite there being no uncovered sex likely, and when I am laid down starts giving a very routine handjob. She's sitting on the bed and as soon as I touch her tits I feel I'm going to ejaculate, and indeed do. Almost an orgasm this time, and she complains "You're trying to pull my tits off!" as my hands close slightly as I almost come. Again, all over in a few minutes.

In retrospect it's obvious that I was never going to get the long hot sex sessions with a pro that I was having all the time otherwise. They have their ways of hurrying things along unstoppably, and I also think the sheer novelty of certain sex with a stranger pushes things along too fast as well. Though I have never had any problems when it's been a first-time with a woman who wasn't a pro. Strange. I have learned my lesson. It's years since I tried this and experience and research has told me that I'm never going to do it again unless I have more money than sense, enough money in fact to get a really high-ticket escort. For simple variety sex I'll stick with Kala Prettyman or Demi Dean vids. Otherwise, at my age, my wife is about as much as I can cope with.

[Lunarbong]

I loved reading your post robeston. There's a great line in the film Glengarry Glenross, when Al Pacino says to a mark - 'the great fucks you may have had...what do you remember about them, because it's probably not the orgasm...?'
I think it's true. I paid for the services of this Stephanie Bews type who had a nice little flat in Blackpool one day and what I remember most is her hot breath on my nether regions! It still takes me back when I think of it.
The same thing with a little blonde I saw once. I only paid for a handjob, but it was very good and what sticks in my mind is her black lycra dress riding up as I touched her bum, to reveal no underwear and her moist pussy. Wonderfully erotic!

[rc_riddle]

Every man who has ever had sex has paid for it. In adolescence we paid for the 'tug' over the P3 girl in guilt, stored against 'the next time.'
Later, we paid in weekly toil as children developed and bills expanded.
But, largely, the wages of our 'sins' were rewarded so we must advise future generations to keep on paying for sex. It's well worth the price.:D

[rockstar4]

i agree go to bangkok there are a couple of places to try the eden club or annies both of which i have done one way or the other you pay, all of us do including work they use u for your skill , go u wont regrett it.

[eatenbyrats]

To the original poster: Good for you, I hope your public sharing of your virtue has helped you with your self esteem. Any man who doesn't think they're paying for sex somehow is delusional.

[smutwerx]

I paid once in Brazil. I had no intention to but the variety of girls is amazing. And during Carnival it's almost to impossible to meet a girl who isn't a hooker, seriously. I made it a mission and did finally meet a Finnish girl who was traveling with friends, and they actually all became good friends of mine who I traveled to Russia with. But as to paying for it, in Rio de Janeiro I would see a girl walking down the Avenida Atlantica wearing nothing but a red bikini, high heels and devil horns, and I'd know she was of course a prostitute. I'd see a girl in a glittery mini-dress at high noon and know she was a prostitute as well. But I'd also see a girl wearing camo fatigues and a Metallica t-shirt, riding a skateboard, and when I spoke to her, she'd be a prostie as well. And I'd see a mature woman in a business suit and she'd be one too. The point is, during Carnival there is a gorgeous girl to appeal to every conceivable taste, and resistance can be difficult, especially when, after ten minutes of refusing a girl's advances, she simply takes your hand and places it under her dress on her pussy, which is what happened to me. My brain sort of short-circuited at that point. What's more, in our group of four, I was the one with backbone. I'd decided before the trip not to indulge with these girls and so everyone had decided the same. When my fingers touched that girl's flesh, I looked at my friends and said, "Okay, I just changed my mind. I'll see you later. I'm going to have sex with this girl," They were all stunned, and then they one by one grabbed girls too, and we all went to the same hot sheet hotel and did the deed. So, not only did I crumble, but my crumbling made my friends crumble too. Later in the week I finally spoke seriously to one girl and she put it simply: 340 days a year she was a secretary in a city way up north. Three weeks a year she came to Rio and sold her goods. In that three weeks she made more than she made the rest of the year as a secretary. I never had a problem with the idea of prostitution really, but when she explained that, any lingering judgments I may have harbored completely vanished.

[Cheekymonkey]

Worth every penny. Once-in-a-lifetime experience. I am hoping for another one day.

[anklebiter]

I have a question..........

I've had a few oriental massages over the years, and they're great.You get a shower and sponge bath while laying down, a hot sauna,a wonderful massage, and "perks" if you decide to pay for them.The only thing to remember is, the woman who answers the door is the woman who attends you.If you get a monster, you're better off asking if a wallet was found in the parking lot, and be on your merry way.

Oh yeah, my question! :p

Does anyone here know if the oriental women in these spas attend women? I'd like to get "The works" for my wife as a gift.She'd love it, but before I ask some Mama-San, I thought I'd ask here.

[sh987]

I'll comment on the "if you're married or ever had a girlfriend" bit only to say that it doesn't make a man a john any more than I think it makes a woman a prostitute. To that extent, being a father doesn't make me a babysitter, and being the person who checks on noises in the night doesn't make the security guard. Those are all just things that are part of what make us men.

As for paying for sex with a prostitute, I was tempted as a single man, but could never work up the nerve, even with the legal establishments you can use here. I certainly don't look down on a single or unattached guy going to a prostitute, but just couldn't bring myself to go (and man, was I tempted more than once).

These days, as a married man, it's just a no-go. That's right, I'm one of those damn saps who is faithful to his wife, and happy to be. Perhaps I'm lucky in that after almost a dozen years of marriage, the fire is still there, and we're together almost nightly. I personally know a few married guys for whom sex is something they remember rather than look forward to.

I can imagine that more than a few of the married men that end up with prostitutes have that problem at home.

sh987

[Luc_Orient]

I have not. I am happily married.

This does not mean however that i am not tempted. My wife is my first sexual partner i've ever had. I had to wait until i was 32 for my first time (anyone else?). The 40 year old virgin is my movie...yep.

Edit: made up my mind ;)

[MaxJoker]

What you mean up front ?

Never !!!

Afterwards of course , because women always make you pay alright.

Man do they make you pay :(

[mixrcple]

I have not. I am happily married.

This does not mean however that i am not tempted. My wife is my first sexual partner i've ever had. I had to wait until i was 32 for my first time (anyone else?). The 40 year old virgin is my movie...yep.

I wanted to have a sexual relation earlier but it just didn't happen as i was pretty unlucky in love (I loved girls who weren't in love with me and vice versa). I am a very romantic guy so wanted to have it with the girl of my dreams. The first time is probably the most difficult.

Anyway, for at least 15 years (17-32), i've been on a fantasy trip (dreaming of all these playmates and the girls i had been in love with). Fact is that i feel that i am still a ticking sexbomb (that's the way i feel it). I love my wife and our sex life is ok. Yet, i can't stop having fantasies and, knowing that i will be going on a business trip in september, i've been considering a date with an escort (i am really not into cheap sex). I really don't know if this will help me getting over 15 years of sexual frustrations. Should i? should i not?

Geez

Personally, you should not as you will be feeling really used, the escort could not care less for you, it is about the money. My male friends tell me this & they are pretty unhappy in love as well but have tried a escort with emotionally disastrous results. By the way I am female & no I am not against prostitution as such. Also you do not know what you will catch.

[fireburning]

Does anyone here know if the oriental women in these spas attend women? I'd like to get "The works" for my wife as a gift.She'd love it, but before I ask some Mama-San, I thought I'd ask here.
I think it's unlikely. I know a lot prefer men only as they are strictly heterosexual usually. However it can't hurt to ask.

[echobravo]

Never been with a prostitute, but this thread reminds me of a joke:
What is the difference between sex for free and sex for money???
Sex for money is cheaper.

[IronMan]

An orgy on Halloween at the Bunny Ranch is on my bucket list. :D

[cutilaie]

Had a massage and half & half with a girl named Goldie at Mustang Ranch back in 1981 BC (before condoms).

[sanddevil]

Yep, I have with over 100 women. I was working as a freelance Management Consultant in the City c2004-2005, paid shed-loads and developed an expensive habit for escorts at the top end of the scale. I had just turned 40, and being brutally honest, my girlfriends of equal age just didn't measure up physically when compared against 21-25 y.o. hard-bodies.

All the girls I met really enjoyed the work but didn't get along with their agents who invariably take 40%. When my contract came to an end I had a comfortable amount of money and was doing some IT development at home, so since I was always near a landline and email I started an escort agency on the side. I enrolled one of the escorts I had become friends with as a 'General Manager' who did most of the recruiting.

We did this for 18 months but made zero money - we were probably too ethical and only charged the girls 30%, plus there being two of us meant we only got 50% of the revenue each.

Any rate, I'd say I employed around 70 girls in that time and got to know many of them very well. I am still in touch with 5 of them. I was very surprised by the strict morality of most of the girls - they were shagging for their job but had strict codes of conduct, and abhored drug use and were monogamous in their private lives. Out of 70 girls, I'd say only three or four didn't have a regular steady boyfriend. I only met two who did a bit of cocaine.

It's a fascinating subject, and one which some day I intend to write more about. Probably when my parents are no longer around to disapprove!

[Rangertom1357]

Yes.

I was married.

It cost me a house, car, pickup truck, 8 horses and 40 acres in Arizona.

[snorkie]

If I happened to at one point to have been a young man, barely twenty, and a member of the military on foreign shores far from the comforts of home; I might have been tempted to but would never admit to having made such a cash transaction.

[mrfixit]

I have never had to pay for sex.I know 6 women I can get sex from almost any time I want.They range in age from 25 to 48.

[IngramJohn]

YES! .... Barcelona .... it was great!

About 6 Nottingham Boys (one of which was me) stood outside a Sex Club on the La Ramblas arguing whether we were going to pay the admission fee and beer prices, etc.

Next thing, this beautiful African lady says: "Come on, I make you big boy tonight!

There was 2 of them, and me and my mate had no hesitation of having a laugh. These ladies were fantastic! They looked after us in many ways and although I am happily married to a wonderful person, I don't think I will ever forget these 2 ladies.

Yeah, O.K. there was no love, but they got what they wanted and we got what we wanted! (what's the problem?). Funny enough, we met them the next night for a few drinks and we had a great laugh. ;););)

[tony_grego]

Yes.

I was married.

It cost me a house, car, pickup truck, 8 horses and 40 acres in Arizona.

I agree, Ranger. Always the most expensive sex is that you makes with your official partenaire. You not only pays the hotel bed, pays one (or more) weeks of complete holydays, ... Not pays only the drink, pays the supermarket bill for a lot of days, .... :rolleyes: And all for a sex session every... ... ??? days :o
In my case, at least i'm saving in preservatives :D:D

Salut !

[qwerty007]

Yes.

I was married.

It cost me a house, car, pickup truck, 8 horses and 40 acres in Arizona.

There's an old expression:

There is sex for money...and sex for free.

Usually the sex for free is more expensive.:D

Been there, done that and got the t-shirt...(LEFT with the t-shirt) :cool:

[TripleM]

Isn't that what datings all about?

[dirkje]

I did it today. I'm a middle aged single man with no succes with the ladies and i like to have sex. So, i could visit a dating site and have dinner with a lady i probably don't like or she doesn't like me and spent some 150 euro in one evening. That's why i don't like dating, it's too much work for little or no result.
So this evening i did what i done several times before. I took 350 euro from my bank account and drove to RLD of The Haque and there i found Naomi Campbell's "twin sister". For 350 euro she joined me in a bath and gave me a massage. It costs me 200 euro more than a date, but the result was great. I never pick up girls from the streets, because i know they only do it for drugs and i try to avoid girls who work for "boyfriends" (they're easy to recognise). O, by the way the RLD of The Haque is better than the RLD of Amsterdam, it's much safer.

[booksdates]

sure & i have no problem with that purchase or rental..hehe..my last gf cost me much more than that in craziness and throwing money down a toilet with emotions so i am all for paying to play..for me if i go into a bar and see someone that looks sexy & desirable in all likelihood i want to treat her right so i am only looking for a phone number at that point. once a date is made i know i will burn through @ least $400 on drinks, meals, entertainment, snack, flowers so why not pick something out online, check it out & have her come over & get right down to business for that same $400? i may be into 3 to 4 dates before i would get a hand job or a bj or intercourse the other way. these days money is tight, however don't plan on ever going back to the dating pool when my $$ comes back. too risky a business so i keep the emotion and the love out of the equation.

[bullfinch]

I used to.

tbh all you guys saying you spend so much on dating are going at it the wrong way. If you find someone with the same interests as you you don't actually have to spend that much to get her attention. Who said you had to go out for $150 dinner dates? Hanging out at Subway or Starbucks then going home to watch a DVD or for a walk in the countryside is cheaper.

[Roger Allott]

I've paid for it a few times. Most of the time it was very enjoyable.

I think the big mistake made by punters, potential punters and those who moralise over the business is equating sex with love-making.

There are many good reasons as to why a man or woman would want sex without the hassle of love - either pretending to love or the complications that come from relationships.

Paying a girl for her professional service is not in the slightest bit shameful.

A girl offering her service in return for financial compensation is not in the slightest bit shameful.

Agreeing in advance what the financial compensation will be for a given service is simply good manners.

Marriage, on the other hand, is highly immoral. No one should be expected to contract themselves to someone for life. If I, as an employer, were to ask an employee to sign a contract that committed him to my business for life, that would rightly be considered illegal, even if I agreed a level of financial remuneration for his commitment. I see no reason why what is outlawed in the business world should be considered the normal state in personal relationships.

[Muswell]

No one has ever paid for sex, you pay them to leave after.

[ValiantSaint]

I do everyday. But, then again, I am married.........

[dirkje]

I admit. A relationship with one woman is a better than paid sex. The problem is i never found the right woman and i am too shy to pick up one in a bar or in a Starbucks. I don't look like Robbie Williams or Brad Pitt. If i offer a woman a drink, she probably says no. I know for sure Naomi Campbell would never be interested in me, that's why visit her look-a-like. Every month (or two months, if i spent too much money) i can pretend Naomi is my girl. I believe there are more men (and women ?) like me. I wonder if some female members ever paid for sex ?

[Silklover]

Lots of places I havn´t been to where there are hookers or prostitutes. Just as well as there are a lots of places where there are hookers. If we talk about red light disctricts in general, I´d say these are just places to fool money of the (stupid) tourists.

If you know yourself that well that you can cope with the idea of twisting your mind to pay for being fooled, afford it, and still get the sexual pleasure out of it. Then a (window) prostiute is a great choice.

I start to wonder, not actually asking the question, just wondering. If too many of the street walkers are drug addicts, in not such a high degree as the hookers in brothels are. How many of the models that we see here are on something? :confused:

[P37]

Alimoney, the screwing you get for the screwing you got!

[Silklover]

Who said: "in the end the screwing you make is equal to the screwing you fake".

[mixrcple]

Lots of places I havn´t been to where there are hookers or prostitutes. Just as well as there are a lots of places where there are hookers. If we talk about red light disctricts in general, I´d say these are just places to fool money of the (stupid) tourists.

If you know yourself that well that you can cope with the idea of twisting your mind to pay for being fooled, afford it, and still get the sexual pleasure out of it. Then a (window) prostiute is a great choice.

I start to wonder, not actually asking the question, just wondering. If too many of the street walkers are drug addicts, in not such a high degree the hookers in brothels are. How many of the models that we see here are on something? :confused:

I see your point, considering that posing nude gets the model a certain amount of money, but long term unless is exceptionally popular, in soft core, probably works as an escort.

[dirkje]

A lot of (porn)stars died at young age by an overdose drugs or alcohol. i read in her thread that the well known pornstar Rocki Roads now lives on the mean streets of LA selling her body for crack. It's the world they live in. Drugs and alcohol are common in the fashion and pornindustry. I remember the trend in fashion world about ten years ago; the "heroin look". The models had to look like drug addicts. . Thank god, that trend is over now.

[MaxJoker]

Yeah i paid alright :mad:

With every frown line on my face :( :thumbsup:

[eek]

Don't think there's any need - you go to a club and they hit you the minute you walk in. :eek: I mean you see single 30-40somethings with their mates everywhere.

Something's a lot different these days though I'm not sure what it is. :rolleyes: Definitely no need to pay to get laid though.

[billybunter]

Wait till I check my bank account:eek:

[MaxJoker]

Don't think there's any need - you go to a club and they hit you the minute you walk in

So you like sadomasochist clubs eh ;)

[meegan01]

Well actually yes I have, very recently as it happens.

Finding myself unexpectedly single again at 42, the thought of going to clubs/pubs and trying to pull scares the life out of me, but a man has needs.

I went to a local massage parlour and paid £90 for one hour of the best sex I've ever had, she was mid 20s, drop dead gorgeous, bubbly personality - a real pleasure to be with. Unlike the usual media stereo typing she wasn't a druggie or forced into prostition, she had been a nurse but made more money doing this, and she liked sex.

Is the money good? Well she drove an Audi TT and had a penthouse flat.

Was it worth it?

Most definetly, 1 hour of sex with a girl I would never 'pull' in a month of Sundays, I understand now why men go to massage parlours, and I wish I'd gone years ago. In a strange way, it was a boost to the ego because having a stunning blonde make a huge fuss over you for an hour is never a bad thing, it put a smile on my face for a few days.

'I'd never pay for sex' - good for you. For me, I've seen the difference between an amateur and a professional.

[hankbills1]

if it wasn't me it would be someone else so why not!

[USBPepsi]

Well actually yes I have, very recently as it happens.

Finding myself unexpectedly single again at 42, the thought of going to clubs/pubs and trying to pull scares the life out of me, but a man has needs.

I went to a local massage parlour and paid £90 for one hour of the best sex I've ever had, she was mid 20s, drop dead gorgeous, bubbly personality - a real pleasure to be with. Unlike the usual media stereo typing she wasn't a druggie or forced into prostition, she had been a nurse but made more money doing this, and she liked sex.

Is the money good? Well she drove an Audi TT and had a penthouse flat.

Was it worth it?

Most definetly, 1 hour of sex with a girl I would never 'pull' in a month of Sundays, I understand now why men go to massage parlours, and I wish I'd gone years ago. In a strange way, it was a boost to the ego because having a stunning blonde make a huge fuss over you for an hour is never a bad thing, it put a smile on my face for a few days.

'I'd never pay for sex' - good for you. For me, I've seen the difference between an amateur and a professional.

Yeah, prostitutes, or "escorts", are often a lot more attractive and fun to be with than how pop culture portrays them. On TV and in the movies they're usually really angry, desperate women who look like they're days from death (unless it's a show about high-end escorts, in which case they look great, but have a pimp who makes their lives a living hell).

Now, I know that some of that's true, but come on... the most desperate, nasty hookers are also in desperate, nasty places, usually getting the most desperate, nasty customers. It's not how the entire lot of them are.

It's like if someone said "I won't eat at restaurants, because the places are all filthy and the food tastes like crap." No, that's what crappy restaurants are like. It doesn't describe the entire world of restaurants.

Your average escort tries to be friendly and look good because that's how you make the good money.

As for paying for sex after a break-up... It often can be a real ego-booster. Deep down you know that the woman is being nice, and saying that you're an incredible lover, mostly because she's getting paid. Still, you get to have some sex that makes you feel good about yourself, often after a relationship that did just the opposite.

After my ex-fiancee dumped me, I called an escort (the same one) every couple of weeks for a few months. It helped with the loneliness, and boosted my ego. Then, next thing I knew, I was asking out a co-worker and getting "free" sex again (which cost about as much in dinners, transportation, and other date-related expense as just calling an escort). I had gotten over my fear of trying to date again.

So... I guess what I'm trying to say is, "Yay prostitutes!" :o I'm glad I haven't had an entire life of getting sex that way, but I'm glad the option was there when I needed it.

[daves69]

Yes.

The girls you pay for cost you less in the end.

[USBPepsi]

Yes.

The girls you pay for cost you less in the end.

No, in the end costs extra.

THANK YOU! I'll be here all week!

[meegan01]

'As for paying for sex after a break-up... It often can be a real ego-booster. Deep down you know that the woman is being nice, and saying that you're an incredible lover, mostly because she's getting paid. Still, you get to have some sex that makes you feel good about yourself, often after a relationship that did just the opposite.

So... I guess what I'm trying to say is, "Yay prostitutes!" :o I'm glad I haven't had an entire life of getting sex that way, but I'm glad the option was there when I needed it.'

Polartrade has hit the nail on the head - Thanks Mate!

[meegan01]

No, in the end costs extra.

THANK YOU! I'll be here all week!

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[crazeyhorse]

I remember when I graduated I got a job in Brussels. A couple of guys at the company I worked for told me about this escourt they had been using & how amazing she was so I thought I'd give it a go. She was a real stunner & in her early 30's so at least 10 years older than me which I found a real turn on. You met her in this flat which I think belong to the agency & she would always be dressed up very classy. You started just chatting with a couple of glasses of wine & then things developed, first kissing & then to the bedroom as if it were a real date. I really enjoyed it & she was f£$^ing stunning. She always atleast pretended to have an orgasm which was a turn on aswell.
I remember one time we'd had almost 2 bottles of wine between us before we went to the bedroom. She started to go down on me & I persuaded her to turn around so I could 69 her. I was drunk & had more confidence than usual & started licking her clit. I could tell she was enjoying it as she kept pausing with the blow job. After a while I felt her tense up & then her swollen lips started to spasm & she came right there on my face. It was the sexiest thing I have ever known, my nose was buried in her pussy which was shuddering for quite a few seconds. She was so wet I had her juice all over my face. What a turn on to know I had made this stunning older woman come when I had thought she was just doing her job.
Unfortunatley I couldn't afford to keep going to her often (it was £100 a night even back then) & anyway I started seeing a girl for real not long after that, but I never forget her shuddering orgasm on my face. It was the horniest thing I've ever experienced.

[ubu55]

I was a customer of the legal Nevada brothels from 1998 to 2005 and enjoyed it very much. There are 6 'Ranches" in the Reno/Carson City area (Two others, the 'original' Mustang Ranch and the Old Bridge Ranch are now closed).
The problem for me was always finding someone I wanted to spend money on, and more important, time with. Women in their late 20's to early 30's were usually the best match (and the best sex)... though there's nothing quite like a scrumptious 19 or 20 year-old, whether you can talk to them or not!
A average looking girl in NV brothels is usually about a 5 on the 1-10 scale (or often worse), but if you were patient, and lucky, some very beautiful women pass through now and again. The rise of in-house brothel websites around 10 years ago brought the first pictures of actual working girls (Yea!), and made things much easier.

Used to go every Super Bowl Sunday and stay til Tues. or Wed. Two to three parties a day isn't difficult at all... especially since the little blue pill!

A high % of the ones I liked also turned out to be married, go figure??? Nevada has it's suitcase pimps too.

I envy the European posters/punters here, the way it's done there makes so much more sense.

Lived in Turkey in 93-94 and Russian girls "Natashas" they were called, seemed to be coming over the borders in droves to hook. The downside? A poster on a brothel website I frequented mentioned going to a house in Italy and booking a young Russian. He asked the owner/pimp, "What will she do?"
"Anything you like, as long as you don't leave any marks," was the reply.

Kind of a sobering thought. He was spending $60 US.

[Norbert84]

I never did because I never had to. This might come later. :D But I did think about it a few times just out of curiosity. I've been with girls that are bigger whores than professionals.

[-Charon-]

I never did because I never had to. This might come later. :D But I did think about it a few times just out of curiosity. I've been with girls that are bigger whores than professionals.

I agree with that. It is way too easy to get it for free. :cool:

(Besides, the challenge of chasing it is half the fun.) :)

[ubu55]

I never did because I never had to. This might come later. :D But I did think about it a few times just out of curiosity. I've been with girls that are bigger whores than professionals.


Norbert, I didn't start until I was almost 50, after 2 marriages. Got the idea from a chance viewing of "Charlie Varrick" with it's scene set in the old Mustang Ranch, and a line-up of real prostitutes.
I'd had a dry couple of years, and decided if I had to start dating women my own age, I'd just as soon cut my dick off. Had no idea what to expect.

On amateur girls often being bigger whores, am in total agreement. Out of curiousity once went thru Christy Canyon's films on iafd and found that in 251 films she'd had sex with only about 60-70 men, most only once.

[Norbert84]

I'd had a dry couple of years, and decided if I had to start dating women my own age, I'd just as soon cut my dick off.

I think I understand what you're getting at but I like MILFs. :D However, women your age are not easy to get rid off and I'm not trying to sound selfish. There are women that get better with their age but all of them seem to have this one common point: they get more hysterical. :D

[ubu55]

I think I understand what you're getting it but I like MILFs. :D However, women your age are not easy to get rid off and I'm not trying to sound selfish. There are women that get better with their age but all of them seem to have this one common point: they get more hysterical. :D

An old friend of mine, Charlie, used to say: "I was always glad I was a man, so I didn't have to sleep with them!"

Milf's can be fine... but my initial reaction to the sight of a woman over 50 these days isn't usually "What a babe!" it's 'cleaning lady'.:D

And they probably think even worse things about me!:D

[Norbert84]

I'll probably think the same when I hit your age, ubu55. :D

[MisterMacky]

Yes, I have paid for it.

[gtos4ever]

On amateur girls often being bigger whores, am in total agreement. Out of curiousity once went thru Christy Canyon's films on iafd and found that in 251 films she'd had sex with only about 60-70 men, most only once.

Actually iafd lists MANY compilations for Christy Canyon. She was, and still is 15 years after making her last movie, a huge cash cow for Vivid.

By my count she did 97 unique movies (many with multiple scenes of course) with 56 male & 72 female partners.

Over half of those movies (54) were shot in the nine months she worked in 1984-85 while she was eighteen.

[ultrawildcat]

I have many times,,,a very wise friend of mine told me years ago "you don't pay them for the sex, you pay them to leave afterwards"..in other words, sex with no emotional entanglements, which for a cynical selfish bastard like me, is perfect

[spoonfedmonkey]

What's truly fascinating to me is two changes that have taken place since I posted in this thread a couple of years ago.

First, I am no longer happily married. I'm still married, but my wife stopped having sex with me altogether since my last post. Menopause or whatever. It doesn't matter. But I'm desperate for physical contact with women.

Second, here in Germany the brothels have introduced a new concept: the flat rate. Here where I live there is a brothel that advertises a two-hour, 79 Euro flat rate. You can get as much action as you can in two hours for 79 Euros. I don't know the rules regarding things like anal sex, but at the very least you can have oral and vaginal sex with as many women as you want for 79 Euros for two hours.

I'm close to 50, so I can't realistically expect to do five or ten girls in two hours. But still: it sounds like a buffet that is hard to pass up.

I haven't done it yet, for reasons I gave early on in this thread: I suspect the average prostitute in a flat-rate brothel is probably an eastern European girl brought here under shady circumstances.

Still, the thought is VERY tempting, to say the least.

Oh, and the 79 Euro price is for two hours. On Mondays and Tuesdays there is a 99 Euro--all you can eat, drink, and fuck--price. Hard to believe, but true.

I'd post a link, but that probably would break forum rules, and it would also tell people where I am.

But trust me, it's true. Look it up. German brothels now offer flat rates.

[Cheekymonkey]

I have never had to pay for sex.I know 6 women I can get sex from almost any time I want.They range in age from 25 to 48.

What's your 'secret'? Is it your irresistible sense of humour and/ or the horsecock? Or are they just hippocrocapigs that are gagging for it and can't get anyone else to give it to them? Curious minds want to know.

[Cheekymonkey]

(I hope since the original posting in 2007 that Benny Hill has managed to get laid somehow?)
One way or another we always pay for it! And if you get divorced you can be paying retro-actively for, in many cases, the last few years of dull predictable sex. In a sense, I feel the 'oldest profession' is also one of the most honest, as you actually get what you are paying for, and is not so dishonorable if you avoid desperado drug users and slave rings. Find an independent professional escort who pays to advertise on specialist sites and check the independent reviews on the on-line review sites. (If you need a point in the right direction you can PM me.)
Sometimes a man's just "gotta do wut a man's gotta do"! No shame in that. Interesting that so many 'pillars' of our society - politicians, judges, and police - that make the laws and enforce them break their own rules and some engage in sexual deviancies far beyond a simple financial agreement between consenting adults. Because an action is deemed 'legal' doesn't make it moral, and something that is 'illegal' (today but may not be tomorrow) is not necessarily immoral.

[billybunter]

I prefer the chase and the pull. Far more satisfying.

[Chibi_Madara]

I married in '72... I've been paying ever since!

Oh well, at least sister thumb and her four fingers are cheap :rolleyes:

[Silklover]

Heard today on the radio that France is perhaps going to introduce laws against prostitution.
Beg your pardon to all of you who might think that it doesn't answer the question of paying or not.
But at the very least it somehow touches the subject.
Here's what the new women's rights minister says (http://www.france24.com/en/20120624-france-women-rights-minister-najat-vallaud-belkacem-ban-prostitution-sex-trade-trafficking).

Cheers or regards or whatever you prefer

[wildtig2013]

I have when I was single.

In Amsterdam and at the brothels in Berlin and the sex clubs in Italy.

If you ever end up in Berlin, look up Artemis Club.

In Florence, Italy, look up Sexy Disco Excelsior club.

[mschaeffer33]

"The happiest moment in a man's life is the day he enters a whore house."

Gustave Flaubert in The Sentimental Education

[billybunter]

Heard today on the radio that France is perhaps going to introduce laws against prostitution.
Beg your pardon to all of you who might think that it doesn't answer the question of paying or not.
But at the very least it somehow touches the subject.
Here's what the new women's rights minister says (http://www.france24.com/en/20120624-france-women-rights-minister-najat-vallaud-belkacem-ban-prostitution-sex-trade-trafficking).

Cheers or regards or whatever you prefer

Banning anything never works. It will go underground and become dangerous. Supply condoms, education and help.

[MrInBetween]

"The happiest moment in a man's life is the day he enters a whore house."

Gustave Flaubert in The Sentimental Education

They say that what every man wants is a whore in the bedroom, a whore in the kitchen, a whore in the living room...

[mschaeffer33]

In my experience, paying for sex is your best-spent dollar. I wished I had paid more. Not as a replacement for civilian sex but as its most glorious adjunct. And unlike a celibate friend of mine who refused to pay for sex. "It's academic," I told him, "since you're not getting laid anyway."

[tamsmith]

Never paid and never will. Too embarrassing at my age.

However I HAVE paid plenty to get a legover as most of you guys of a certain age will understand.

Take them for a meal, get them drunk, taxi home, then the punchline, "Sorry I have a headache".

It worked sometime though.

[mschaeffer33]

The best thing about paying for sex is that chix are grateful. When's the last time you could say that?

[flake56]

any male who says they never pay is down right ignorant of reality. your wife girl friend does not provide sex free. not ever. while it may be cheap with a girl friend, never is it cheap with a wife. house, children, transportation etc. are a cost of sex and you will pay it, willing or not. failure to do so results in not now or ever till you relent on stupid. or worse, divorce where you really pay thru the nose and still get none. wake up and smell reality.

[Silklover]

"The happiest moment in a man's life is the day he enters a whore house."

Gustave Flaubert in The Sentimental Education

Ever spoken to the old Ludwig van Beethoven about that?
He was said to make courtesy to the women (prostitutes) almost anywhere in his youth. Acts that later on were said to have caused him his ear disease (STD). :(

[Silklover]

They say that what every man wants is a whore in the bedroom, a whore in the kitchen, a whore in the living room...

I could agree (at least partially) about the "whore" in the bedroom. But think I'd stick to a cook in the kitchen and a wife in the living room.

[palomino]

I paid for sex roughly about 10-12 times in the past. I took 'em off the streets as well as I visited brothels but with only one notable exception I never really felt satisfied afterwards !
There's just one aspect I would like to warn everybody about: Horniness + alcohol are fatal to good decisions ;-)))
Too often I felt miserable after it was over; not because I suddenly got aware of the moral principles of my education but just because I felt that I could have just as well spent the money for more drinks or some nice weed to smoke ! It felt as if I had fooled myself again - being horny as hell and already a bit pissed + feeling that I wouldn't really need the money that's left in my pocket for anything else - well, perhaps I just had too much of both: i.e. "try and error" !
But still: If you happen to know a girl that fulfills all your secret needs for a price you can afford - just do it ! I guess honesty towards yourself and your true wishes is the key to satisfaction in the first place !

Greetings,

palomino

[billybunter]

any male who says they never pay is down right ignorant of reality. your wife girl friend does not provide sex free. not ever. while it may be cheap with a girl friend, never is it cheap with a wife. house, children, transportation etc. are a cost of sex and you will pay it, willing or not. failure to do so results in not now or ever till you relent on stupid. or worse, divorce where you really pay thru the nose and still get none. wake up and smell reality.

I find your opinion absurd. A lot of women in this trade are treated like slaves by their pimp. They become addicted to drugs and alcohol to block out reality.
A relationship is not just about sex.

[mschaeffer33]

I guess honesty towards yourself and your true wishes is the key to satisfaction in the first place !

You go, guy!

[tygrkhat40]

Absolutely, all the time. Pay for sex? Oh, I thought it said pray for sex. :rolleyes:;):D

[JollyHumper]

I have now and then.

I have never really been satisfied, to me it is the best way to achieve the feeling of hollowness.

I had one good and exciting encounter in Hong Kong with a Milf Filipina.
That was weird in a good way. Other than that I've regret every time I've done it. Haven't done it for years now.
It's like drugs, if you first start you will have a problem stopping doing it.

But you're not me, so you will maybe experience the whole thing differently.

Bottom line, most girls suffer. That should be reason enough to stay away.

Jolly - (just trying to be honest)

[begos]

Ever spoken to the old Ludwig van Beethoven about that?
He was said to make courtesy to the women (prostitutes) almost anywhere in his youth. Acts that later on were said to have caused him his ear disease (STD). :(

WTF???!!!! :eek:

How do you perform a sex act with your ears???? :confused:

(Let alone do one that gives you an STD!) :rolleyes:

[Mal Hombre]

WTF???!!!! :eek:

How do you perform a sex act with your ears???? :confused:

(Let alone do one that gives you an STD!) :rolleyes:
Earotiscisn ?

[Silklover]

I think it was syphilis that caused him his deafness. A disease that probably any MD could explain more its effects about. But as far as I know, it can have odd reactions on the human body.

[MrInBetween]

How do you perform a sex act with your ears????

You need to have a cocklial implant.

[Truenonio]

Many times the sexual act with a prostitute is a kind of masturbational coitus,
because the most common is the prostitute don't wants to get horny,
if she to turns on, don't want to gets the climax, and if she gets it, don't want to enjoy it.
Only in a few rare cases the sexual energy flows side by side, woman and man.
Then can be very disappointing for a person that used to have a sentimental relationship.
For that reasons if you have been to be used to have girlfriend,
it's not recommendable going out to the brothels.
Because you can getting fuck today, but tomorrow? paying other time? :(
Prostitution really doesn't dislike me so much but it's only for playing with sex,
and for people that knows how to carry the weight of a so mechanical encounter.

[mschaeffer33]

... the most common is the prostitute don't wants to get horny,
if she to turns on, don't want to gets the climax, and if she gets it, don't want to enjoy it.


I've had a massage parlor girl cum while doing cowgirl on top of me. Giddy up!! And I've had a bunch of girls, a big bunch, get just a hot as I was. One fabulous girl I creampied startled me by whispering "Good boy" in my ear after I applied her filling. I got the impression that girls were disappointed that guys didn't come inside them often enough, even with rubbers on.

Most of the chix I hooked up with were horny as any girlfriends I've had. They loved their work. One of the most beautiful loved to answer the door naked, probably cause she liked to see guys balls fall off. Another bragged about having eleven guys and one anal each shift. That seemed to be her target. Okay, twelve is over the top but she was into it. In my experience, the automatons are in the minority. People choose the kind of work they like and think they're good at. Even sex workers.

Maybe it's different for street walkers who live in danger and a world of hurt.

[BustyEscortLovr]

Lets see.....
Kayla Kleevage, Brandy Dean, Ashley Evans, Minka, LA Bust (fantastic), Samantha 38G... a few others.... Not often, but when I do they are LARGE busted.
;-)

[billybunter]

If you have sex with a prostitute and don't wear a condom you are taking a big risk with your sexual health.

[Truenonio]

People choose the kind of work they like and think they're good at. Even sex workers.
Maybe it's different for street walkers who live in danger and a world of hurt.
Sorry if my English is not so clear:
O.K.: but usually they must to resign themselves with that job, but, the guy
can or not can liking to them.
If in your personal experience the majority of the prostitutes go well,
so you were lucky one. Just let's go to take a look at the hardcore porn,
is acted, so in so rare cases goes more credibly, I prefer amateur porn, and softcore.

Sometimes I had have the luck of finding a horny girl in the prostitution world,
but in my personal experience they're the minority, because
many of the them have a boyfriend or a loverboy.

[mschaeffer33]

usually they must to resign themselves with that job

What would the world be like if they actually chose the job, which was my experience?

the guy can or not can liking to them.

They claimed not to care so much about a guy's looks. They were on a mission to get guys off. Heard that every time. In three years, I only got one automaton and foxy as she was, she was so passive that any physical motion made her ill. But she was in the wrong business (what would have been the right one?) and told her so. Did get one other passive one, but she was so hot and her pussy so plump that I didn't care. She said it was a hard job. Little wonder.

[Truenonio]

What would the world be like if they actually chose the job, which was my experience?

O.K.: Certainly prostitution could be a good job for winning money,
but I asked them about their near future and they tells me that's
just for a time. Meaning this that is satisfactory like a job but not completely.

They claimed not to care so much about a guy's looks. They were on a mission to get guys off. Heard that every time. In three years, I only got one automaton and foxy as she was, she was so passive that any physical motion made her ill. But she was in the wrong business (what would have been the right one?) and told her so. Did get one other passive one, but she was so hot and her pussy so plump that I didn't care. She said it was a hard job. Little wonder.

Obviously for some women that job is harder.

I had gone for brothels too, and the key of this theme is:
Immediacy, certainly could be fun because the thing is in that moment
and for a days could be funny, but not for a long time;
there are some emotional and feeling "parts" that need satisfaction too.
But this one is only applicable according to every person.
I respect the prostitution, but obviously is just for some persons,
that can handle it. If you can enjoy it, just enjoy it.

[Silklover]

O.K.: Certainly prostitution could be a good job for winning money,
but I asked them about their near future and they tells me that's
just for a time. Meaning this that is satisfactory like a job but not completely.



Obviously for some women that job is harder.

I had gone for brothels too, and the key of this theme is:
Immediacy, certainly could be fun because the thing is in that moment
and for a days could be funny, but not for a long time;
there are some emotional and feeling "parts" that need satisfaction too.
But this one is only applicable according to every person.
I respect the prostitution, but obviously is just for some persons,
that can handle it. If you can enjoy it, just enjoy it.

What I've heard and, it is very easy to take the guess; very many women or men that stay a too long time in the sex industry get first mentally and then physically destroyed by it.
There is a greater amount of drugs in the sex industry compared to other parts of the society.
The tension for a young woman of having sex with 12 persons a day I can just imagine.
In a maelstrom of ever changing sexual partners, how could you possibly stick to one person in the future?
A woman can for sure cheat and fool a man and fake her orgasm.
Supposedly some of the prostitutes are lesbians. I have no idea if there are more or less of the prostitutes then elsewhere in the society that are dykes.
And of course, there are some prostitutes that simply are 'happy hookers'.

[mellowyellow]

Yep did it and still do (this must be my coming out moment):


I'm involved in a longterm relationship in which -believe me or not- I feel very happy. And that includes the physical aspect. However, I still have some preferences which are just not realistic in our relationship. So, other than asking and boring my GF I decided to keep doing some things discretely and out of the relationship the way I 'always' did.
That said, I would feel very uncomfortable with fooling around with "real" dates. Besides, I'm too shy and in my experience I somehow manage to attract a lot (!!) of women who all think I'm charming etc but in the end none of them shows any interest for the physical part. Paid sex is mentally easier: you do it when you feel the urge and when you're done you leave. I think when a girl from my office was involved I would somehow feel much more guilty.
Some of my very best sex-experiences where paid for. And without exceptions these all included very ordinary women, the horny type of mum nextdoor. Some even allowed photography, most did 3-somes. All of them are very much into hygiene and this includes safe sex. And it all happened in our local Red Light District.

I've been to one or two more expensive clubs. All very pretty young women but I just didn't like it. Also, I visited one of those 'Partytreffs' in Germany where you pay just a single entrance fee and you can eat drink and fuck (with many others on a large bed) as often as you like with as many women as you like: it just wasn't for me. The fake chatting with the ladies, the very present sterile sauna-smell, the smoke-filled salon and all the (literally) cocky blokes around me resulted in a very unwilling penis.

[mschaeffer33]

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Whenever I can. There's lots of great chicks who are wildly underpriced.

[billybunter]

I just prefer a woman's love. Maybe i'm daft. I just can't get intimate with someone I don't know.

[mellowyellow]

I just prefer a woman's love. Maybe i'm daft. I just can't get intimate with someone I don't know.

That's not daft. Not a bit. I think one could call this true intimacy. And that's the best. I also have plenty of that with my GF that I am very fond of for more than ten years.
But it's the exact opposite that sometimes sends an urgent call. Just the uncomplicated, down and dirty, 'anything goes' kind of sex where love doesn't get in the way, for lack of a better description.

[Sharkhunter]

I just prefer a woman's love. Maybe i'm daft. I just can't get intimate with someone I don't know.

Spot on. Even when I had a one-nighter I made an effort to get to know the girl a bit, and never had to pay for it either.

[hawkwind]

My understanding is there's a prostitute heirarchy. At the bottom are the street hookers typically there because of a drug problem and also because they've been chucked out the suanas for being unreliable. Then there's those who work in saunas and presumably above that "high class" escorts.

An ex who worked with drug addicts - so came into regular contact with prostitutes - in Wales told me two "lovely" stories. One is about the free market and stemmed from the number of prostitutes complaining to her about how they were having to regularly take it up the wrong'un (which they never had done previously) and do so for less than they used to charge for a shot of the front bottom due to all the Eastern European competition that had appeared and were more willing to do all sorts for less.

The other story concerned an independent escort. She was in her room when the lightbulb popped, then shattered, scattering broken glass across the bed. Rather than clear it up she let her next punter in - a regular - and made sure he stripped off then for a change lay on his back. She then rode him to buggery, all the time pushing him down onto the glass.

[mschaeffer33]

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Early and often.

[winebeavis]

Just got back from vacation in Spain. Prostitution is all over there. I've never been involved in a three-way and it's on my bucket list. I considered pursuing a purchase of this through an agency or service. However, before I ever got that far, I had seen hundreds of really unappealing and unattractive street hookers that I wouldn't bed even if it were free. It was the rare avis that was actually in my mind doable.

A friend of mine who lives in London suggested that I go to an unlicensed brothel he knew of. I did and looked around. While the quality was a notch better, it still wasn't enough to get me to pay for it. The attractiveness of the women went from "no way in hell" to "I'd have to be really drunk." Then when I found the prices were starting around 250-300 Euros, it became comedy to me. To be completely candid, I did see a couple who were attractive, but at this point of sifting wheat and chafe, I was so turned off.

I guess if I'm going to pay for one on one, I would want something more than what I think I can get for free. If I'm going to pay for a three-way, I would want attractive and enthusiastic "employees."

I believe it's my own naivety and preconceived expectations that made this so underwhelming. I've been to Spain before and I've seen plenty of prostitutes in streets and clubs. It has always been just part of the scenery. Only when I put the thought in my mind that maybe I'm in the market did it become so unappealing.

[tamsmith]

Yep. Got married.

[mschaeffer33]

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Who wants to know?

[Estreeter]

benny hill (http://www.vintage-erotica-forum.com/member.php?u=50076)

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[Silklover]

I like the saying: " a good woman gives more back then she takes". Considering that you get more back then what you "put in". ;) :rolleyes:

[theequestrian]

I got raped by ex's divorce attorney. Does that count?

[b119a]

No, except to get from point A to point B.

[wildtig2013]

I had a blowjob from an entertainer at an upscale Gentlemen's Club on Friday night and I didn't ask for it.

All I did was pay for 4 dances for $100 and I bought her 5 shots for $60 total.

So I consider that a bonus.

She was very good: she didn't waste a drop.

:thumbsup:

p.s. good thing my wife doesn't come here.

[Silklover]

In reminiscence of a Mad cartoon, their parody of One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, the only one who gets out at the end of the movie for real is the indian, "Chief" Bromden (Will Sampson). One of the first things that happens to him is that he gets called by a hooker: "hey big boy! wanna have a deep meaningful relationship 50 bucks!"

[b119a]

Fifty Bucks, no way! Adjusted for inflation, it would be closer to $100. :rolleyes:

[Silklover]

Yeah b119a, I'd rather say, triple or preferably quadruple the original $50....?....??

[b119a]

Some people nowadays don't know the value of a dollar. A house may cost a couple hundred grand, but a couple kids cost millions.

A beautiful home is supposed to be a babe magnet, not a house for hoes.

[Silklover]

If you spend time at the VEF sections with erotics, you pay for sex. Because time is money.

[Truenonio]

If you spend time at the VEF sections with erotics, you pay for sex. Because time is money.
Yes it is, but only in some way because the orginal question was about going out
to the brothels, and paying to a prostitute.

[Jack Keroact]

No, but I think the girlfriend experience is a good idea. Just legalize it and have contractual agreements by consent in place for guys who don't want to put up the massive expense, bullshit, inane conversation, chic movies, and other crap. Everybody wins, women get their rent paid, good treatment, attention and so on, and guys get laid. When not in an experience agreement they can get slapped around and treated like crap by their bad boy fantasies, etc., and give them all their money. Win-win

[mschaeffer33]

"The happiest moment in a man's life is the first time he enters a brothel."

Gustave Flaubert, L'Education Sentimentale

[PirateJonny]

I went to Amsterdam in the mid eighties with some work collegues on a football tour. It was 50 guilders for full sex then ( i think) which was great bargain and I made a real pig of myself, sometimes twice in an evening.
The girls were gorgeous and they put the condom on for you in a flash. The only thing that put me off a bit was the swing bin in the corner where the used condoms went and they were all pretty full. Still I thoroughly enjoyed myself (as did us all) and the sex was brilliant.

[mschaeffer33]

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Does the Pope wear little red shoes?
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[Silklover]

Yes it is, but only in some way because the orginal question was about going out
to the brothels, and paying to a prostitute.

It is all possible and allowed to pay anybody for not having sex with you. :D
But what is sex really, I think the word book would define it as someting like "mutual sexual socializing". That can even be completely in your thoughts. I.e. it is not at all necessary to touch each other. Just to emphasize that there is a very important mental aspect of sex.

No, but I think the girlfriend experience is a good idea.

I am lucky, girlfriends are allowed in my country (Puh!), even in plural.

[charliels531]

I have been divorced twice, so I have paid dearly for sex. :rolleyes:

Ages ago I was dating a young lady who worked as a topless dancer. I would pick her up after work, drive her home, and spend the night. Once I got there early and watched her show; she was an extremely hot girl and focussed on me. After the club closed and we got in my car and did some kissing and feeling, I told her I needed some oral attention. She told me that if I waited until we got home, she'd be happy to do me; but if I wanted to get blown then and there, it would cost $20. I was pretty worked up, and I found that idea to be incredibly hot, and we both got what we wanted. We did that several times after...

[Truenonio]

It is all possible and allowed to pay anybody for not having sex with you. :D
But what is sex really, I think the word book would define it as someting like "mutual sexual socializing". That can even be completely in your thoughts. I.e. it is not at all necessary to touch each other. Just to emphasize that there is a very important mental aspect of sex.


The term that we used is ambiguous, could be: paying for a masturbatory coitus with a prostitute, or simply:pay for fucking.

[mschaeffer33]

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Early and often, just like the ideal voter.
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[edgewalkernow]

I have occasionally paid for sex and always enjoyed it. However, I did know the women a little bit and felt comfortable with them as real people. I think paying for sex is a good option if you don't have a girlfriend because getting a girlfriend just to have sex can be hurtful to both parties